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gworroll 4 Reviews 402 reads
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So because some girls lie about the number of men they've been with... they're all hypocrites?

Logic.  Have you heard of it?

aliasrequested 2536 reads
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Do you shy away from seeing clients who write lots of reveiws, and if so, how many is too much?

Or, do you see that as a plus?

TheQuietStorm 560 reads
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But then again, guys say the same of girls with "too many" reviews sometimes too.

The body of the reviews is more important than the volume of them, but I admit, I do actively avoid reviewers who declare themselves "one-and-done" types.

The fewer of those I see means the fewer new clients I have to meet, regulars/repeats are ideal and what I have.

DerekJeter02 416 reads
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I had no idea some ladies felt this way.

TheQuietStorm 499 reads
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5 / 44

With page upon page of review and a provider doing the same?

Everyone does their thing differently.

Some clients (who have been with hundreds, if not thousands of women over a span of years or decades) seriously refuse to meet a woman based on her merits alone - no matter how good or appealing she is - if she has multiple pages of public reviews.

I suppose the perception is of increased risk of STDs or the potential for meeting someone incredibly jaded.

Its the same provider-side.  

A guy with a ton of reviews doesn't turn me off in the immediate sense just because he has lots of reviews, but like I said above if someone seems to be a one-and-done type or announces that, like whats really the point of taking that few hundred dollars one time?  It doesn't make much sense to me to angle for that sort of client.  I'll see one if I'm on tour or if they seem super fun in communication, but I won't prioritize one over another client.  The potential for a repeat is much more important to me then a one-time payout.

Don't worry about what a handful of girls say anyway.  The majority of providers just see $$$ when they're contacted by a major reviewer so its not like any big time hobbyist is going to have a problem getting laid even if one out of one hundred girls says "meh, not really my thing".

TheQuietStorm 438 reads
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All I look for is a reasonable amount of respect
(I don't care what kind of language a dude uses to describe his lovemaking or his nasty fuckfest so long as it isn't abusive towards the provider).

I'm impressed by clients who convey a sense of how the provider made him feel versus a blow by blow of how she sucked his dick, but I'm a female - of course that's what impresses me or makes me want to reach out to a reviewer or pay special attention to whether he contacts me for an appointment.

Detailed infos about the girls screening process or location is a red flag (I can't believe how many reviews I've seen where guys have drawn a blueprint to incall locations or named hotels).

Really, I only look at them when the handle is provided to make sure we're going to be a good match per his physical preferences and to see if there are any references to things he really likes or enjoys so that I can't tailor his appointment to him.

TheQuietStorm 431 reads
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So its not really a health concern.
I'm vigilant about my health in terms of routine checkups and relatively safe practices and I've never had an issue in my time as a provider so I don't really fret about those possibilities when it comes to choosing a client.

I've heard of girls turning down clients because he saw X provider who is from X country where the HIV rate is high.

That is ludicrous.  Why?  Because everyone in this game lives double, triple and quadruple lives.
Upscale clients are still picking up streetwalkers for kicks and "straight" married men are still arranging meetings in saunas with other "straight" married men when they're not fucking around with the girls.  Trying to guesstimate whether you have a higher risk of exposure based on your assumptions about your partner's activities and predilections is just silly.

You can't trust anyone to be honest when they're intent on seeing you.

For me its purely a business decision and not one that is written in stone, I take things on a case by case basis in the hopes that they could potentially jive with what I'm trying to do - which is see as few new clients as possible.

TheQuietStorm 373 reads
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I don't really use TER as a big part of screening anymore.

I used to rely on it heavily, I used request handles WhiteLists and all of that jazz...because it was easy and fast.  Receive a request, check it out on TER, bam they're in the door two hours later.

Now a guy's handle just doesn't hold that much weight with me, probably because I'm pretty insulated with regulars so when I do meet someone new its quality over quantity.  A TER personality  or body of reviews doesn't really have anything to do with how I feel about a guy when scheduling a meeting.

If something isn't sitting right with me or if a guy mentions my TER reviews more than once while communicating with me I'll ask for the handle.
On the very rare occasion that I'm screening and I find a TER handle for a guy or a girl references it in a reference check I'll let him know that I'm aware of it.

I don't want to be snooped on or deal with someone who has information about me that they're not disclosing, so I try to keep everything on the table with guys so that they don't feel like I'm invading their privacy or trying to fuck up whatever game they're running with their super secret handle lol.  I want a safe, pleasurable meeting.  I don't want to play the "I know you know that I know so you better not write a low review of me" game - not my style.

BringingTheAlias 621 reads
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some were turned off by too many reviews, some were not.  Just a typical case of YMMV.

chocolatefantasygirl See my TER Reviews 643 reads
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To me  , the  content of their reviews matter to  me...

Posted By: aliasrequested
Do you shy away from seeing clients who write lots of reveiws, and if so, how many is too much?

Or, do you see that as a plus?

HillaryLynk See my TER Reviews 401 reads
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ISObetterclients 417 reads
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mistressjessica 582 reads
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make it a goal to see every lady on the block..
what happens is private..Nor do I want to be a number on the list..

I make it a point to not treat my clients/friends that way as well...

Posted By: aliasrequested
Do you shy away from seeing clients who write lots of reveiws, and if so, how many is too much?

Or, do you see that as a plus?

Lord-what-a-Hoot 588 reads
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What hypocrites, and Bullshit. It's fine for a woman to be a whore, but if a man sees 100 girls he's kicked to the curb by these same women???

greedyclit 443 reads
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I do find it somewhat of a turn off to see someone that has more reviews posted than days in the month. I am an active cum slut, I seek out swingers, girls, and have a BF in my civie life; and I provide because I can and am damn good at it! But, I am meticulous with cleanliness and partners and "safe" acts and get tested for everything every other month, all actively knowing the risk that I potentially bring to the table. However, I really cannot vouch for the safety of that individual that 1) has a lot of free time, 2) has a lot of expendable income, 3) is such a man whore, 4) likes to report in detail, about EVERY encounter! Discretion is a must in this hobby, so why post hundreds of reviews? Are you the hobbyist Super Man or something? TOFTT may be your excuse but WTF! You can't save all men from sticking there dicks out there and not getting quality pussy. That's the nature of the game sir!

lilli 451 reads
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i develop genuine relationships with my clients, and those relationships have meaning and value to me. the overwhelming of majority of gents who write reviews, even very few reviews, seek something quite contrary to that.

and to those who are a big near-sighted or ignorant of the diversity in women and relationships in this "business," we do not all have sex with "thousands" of men or desire high volume or the highest dollar offered.

mistressjessica 522 reads
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Ignore and delete trolls..

Mr Hoot, Please go back and re read the statements posted.. You apparantly mis read the information provided...

Posted By: Lord-what-a-Hoot
What hypocrites, and Bullshit. It's fine for a woman to be a whore, but if a man sees 100 girls he's kicked to the curb by these same women???

gworroll 4 Reviews 490 reads
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In this specific setup you present, yeah, there is some hypocrisy.  But it's a straw man argument.  Not all providers see large numbers of men.  Some only have a small number of regular clients and aren't much more promiscuous(if even more promiscuous at all) than many non providers, and their client base is more like a group of friends with benefits that help with the bills.

Not all providers do or should approach the business in the same way.  

Think about other parts of the entertainment industry.  Should Britney Spears and The Pretty Reckless try to go after the same fan base on the same terms?  No.  That would be ridiculous.  Same with providers.

Lord-what-a-Hoot 473 reads
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You may be low volume (every girl claims that), but most girls that have been around for 2 years or longer have seen well in excess of 1000 cocks. There are plenty of girls on TER that have seen closer to 10,000 cocks over the years.  Even Love Goddess (old TER mod of Erotic highway) admitted to seeing over 5,000 cocks.  Girls lie about the # of men they see, and to crap on guys with 100 reviews is hypocritical as Hell.

Blowing Chunks 445 reads
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Some things I heard ladies prefer:
1. being tasteful
2. truthful but putting them in a good light lol
3. Avoiding personal/private details.

anything else?

mistressjessica 452 reads
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You are right.. Girls lie.. Yep.. So do men..Ok..

Soooo? you have an option.. Not to see ladies that you believe lie or who are hypocrites.
Other then.. moaning about women who lie.. Do you really have a point?
Are you pointing out something that you think some or most of us have not thought about?
Do you just enjoy having a bad attitude and being the general grump?

But, If it makes you feel better.
We ladies ( most of us) strongly believe men lie
espeically when you say. Oh, your the only one baby"
and my personal favorite " I have never done this before"

We just smile and nod... Try it some time.. Smiling is good for the soul....


Posted By: Lord-what-a-Hoot
You may be low volume (every girl claims that), but most girls that have been around for 2 years or longer have seen well in excess of 1000 cocks. There are plenty of girls on TER that have seen closer to 10,000 cocks over the years.  Even Love Goddess (old TER mod of Erotic highway) admitted to seeing over 5,000 cocks.  Girls lie about the # of men they see, and to crap on guys with 100 reviews is hypocritical as Hell.

Lord-what-a-Hoot 384 reads
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Posted By: gworroll
So because some girls lie about the number of men they've been with... they're all hypocrites?

Logic.  Have you heard of it?

Not a fan of reviews or gentlemen who..
Posted 1/3/2012 at 10:20:24 AM
mistressjessica
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make it a goal to see every lady on the block..
what happens is private..Nor do I want to be a number on the list..



The ABOVE is what I responded to,  and YES it's hypocritical as Hell.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 352 reads
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reviewers that have written many reviews.I have seen gents that have been TER members for years and they have over 100 reviews they were nice gents that I would love to see again.On the other hand I have seen gents who have been members for years and have not posted one review in all that time.
I do not see the numbers as a plus or negative I just see it as the gent has seen many women through the years as long as he provides the necessary screening info,clean,and respectable I have no problems.
I know every lady is different but this is my opinion.

BstyBlndEscort See my TER Reviews 398 reads
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I like guys that have alot of reviews BUT I also look at the content of the reviews.

I like guys that are laidback and easygoing. Im not into those who tend to be overly critical or rude.

I find  you can tell alot by reading what they write and how they treat others.

Angela_Petite2 See my TER Reviews 422 reads
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about how many Dr visits you attend between BBBJ's
I turn away those who play hard and tread health lightly.

MSHSEX 359 reads
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Posted By: Lord-what-a-Hoot

Not a fan of reviews or gentlemen who..
Posted 1/3/2012 at 10:20:24 AM
mistressjessica
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make it a goal to see every lady on the block..
what happens is private..Nor do I want to be a number on the list..



The ABOVE is what I responded to,  and YES it's hypocritical as Hell.
Totally fucking agree with ya. Classic fucking case of her sayin do as i fucking say, not as I fucking do!

boristherussianpimp 395 reads
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I know guys who are much more active then I am who have far less reviews. The amount of posted reviews is not always an indication of how active a hobbyist is. There are also a lot of guys who will not give out their TER handle for scrutiny, so they don't know who they are seeing half the time.

Angela_Petite2 See my TER Reviews 326 reads
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Its about health too. It's easy to say no to someone
who sees 5+  a month. If he cannot mention that he
has been checked health wise it makes it even easier to say no .

Blowing Chunks 409 reads
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Meant to use asian_the_drunk on this thread but not sure what happened. lol

There are tons of guys who prefer to write about how the provider made him feel rather than an explicit repeat of the all-too-obvious motions and sequences. It's not just a female thing, some guys are like that too including myself. However, in order for the review to be approved and not be labeled a mangina we have no choice but to keep it graphic to a certain level. lol

I agree it's very important to leave out screening info and incall locations. I'm surprised they get approved though.

Do you have a way of finding out a users TER handle, other than asking him directly?

MSHSEX 396 reads
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True fucking dat! Its hard to completely trust hooker or john in this fucking business. You just gotta step up to the plate and roll the fucking dice LOL!

Posted By: TheQuietStorm
So its not really a health concern.
I'm vigilant about my health in terms of routine checkups and relatively safe practices and I've never had an issue in my time as a provider so I don't really fret about those possibilities when it comes to choosing a client.

I've heard of girls turning down clients because he saw X provider who is from X country where the HIV rate is high.

That is ludicrous.  Why?  Because everyone in this game lives double, triple and quadruple lives.
Upscale clients are still picking up streetwalkers for kicks and "straight" married men are still arranging meetings in saunas with other "straight" married men when they're not fucking around with the girls.  Trying to guesstimate whether you have a higher risk of exposure based on your assumptions about your partner's activities and predilections is just silly.

You can't trust anyone to be honest when they're intent on seeing you.

For me its purely a business decision and not one that is written in stone, I take things on a case by case basis in the hopes that they could potentially jive with what I'm trying to do - which is see as few new clients as possible.

Blowing Chunks 339 reads
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If the lady is gorgeous, click well, and fun to spend time with, I'll probably see her over and over so many times that she'll be sick and tired of seeing me. lol

There were times when I saw the same girl more than a dozen times the same month. For some reason, the ladies didn't mind and even gave a steep discount. I think it's probably cuz I'm prince charming...  ;-)

Either that or they find my 1 inch asian sausage rather cute.

tangsum 4 Reviews 342 reads
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Reviews are an inner conflict. On the one hand I'm glad that there is a way to find out how accommodating a lady is going to be. I think I've saved some cash and grief by finding out before hand that some providers who advertise themselves as being the thrill of a lifetime are really rushed, cold, unattractive etc. On the other hand, when I see a gal who sends me through the roof, as one special lady did for me a few nights ago, I don't want to write about her. One reason is the really good ones already have lines and lines of reviews written on them. The one I saw the other night had a little over two hundred dating back five years. It didn't seem to have much point to add another one.

When I see an unsatisfactory girl I want to tear into her on the board with a broad sword.
I guess it's easy to write a bad one, but I'm reluctant to write a glowing review.
As for the other half of your comment about fellows who want to see every lady on the block, now that I've found one that really rocks my world, I won't be shopping around so much. I might seek out a few who are of a different ethnic group, or a different build. I love women of all races and voluptuous figures are my favorite but i enjoy an occasional spinner.
Hope you don't mind me commenting on your thread even though you were adressing it to other women.

tangsum 4 Reviews 337 reads
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The first thing I look for; Does she kiss. I have a serious need for that. I'm a little older now and even with help from viagra or levitra I still have trouble on occasion maintaining passion not to mention erection. If she is willing to kiss, long and deep, that usually means she will be willing to provide an overture ie foreplay.
A hot kisser is usually a much better lay then one who gives up a quick smack in greeting and goodbye. Long DFK can set my fires so high that I'll be able to perform like I was still twenty.

BringingTheAlias 345 reads
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MP67 11 Reviews 401 reads
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I'm not going to go there about the rent deal, but while I was reading this I started to think about the guys, myself included, that don't write reviews about every experience they've had.

What made me think of this was sometimes reading reviews from guy's I talk with, and others I could care less about, that saw someone I would like to see. Then they had WL's from other ladies I want to see that they didn't write reviews about. I cornered one, and he gave me the skinny on the one he didn't review, how amazing she was as well as the one he did review.

My point is, I'm with a lot of guys that don't feel the need to brag about seeing a lady by writing a review every single time. I'm really not that interested in getting my free 15 days. I was there with her. I know what happened. Just being with the lady was enough for me, and knowing I can repeat well, makes it even better.

So the lady's been with a 1000 guys. Well, look at it this way. She knows what she's doing! ;)

To tell the truth, if I sat here and thought about it I could probably put a number to how many providers I've seen.

But civvie? You're talking 30 years and many drinks. Your guess is as good as mine...

lilli 381 reads
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most people may play poker, love guacamole and enjoy the state fair, but i do not. you cannot generalize providers, you cannot claim that all who steer clear of high-volume hobbyists are hypocrites because "most" have sex with hundreds or thousands of men over whatever period of time. the fact remains that more than a few of us do not fall into that category. heck, i have not seen anywhere in the galaxy of a thousand penises in all my life...and i am including porn watching in that, lol. the fact also remains that a woman has the right to be a bit selective with those with whom she chooses to share her body. and i really and TRULY do not understand why that bothers so many men.

Angela_Petite2 See my TER Reviews 368 reads
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And that is the truth about this industry too. I do check the reviews out
I see the activity and if I feel he might be high risk for me I would bow out.
I am not a revolving door type with a large rent for an incall to have to pay
and I live below my means which I never used to do before. I like it this way
so that I do not have to stay busy to meet my means. But back to the topic, I
cater more to the older more refined gentlemen who see very few per membership.
   

Posted By: TheQuietStorm
So its not really a health concern.
I'm vigilant about my health in terms of routine checkups and relatively safe practices and I've never had an issue in my time as a provider so I don't really fret about those possibilities when it comes to choosing a client.

I've heard of girls turning down clients because he saw X provider who is from X country where the HIV rate is high.

That is ludicrous.  Why?  Because everyone in this game lives double, triple and quadruple lives.
Upscale clients are still picking up streetwalkers for kicks and "straight" married men are still arranging meetings in saunas with other "straight" married men when they're not fucking around with the girls.  Trying to guesstimate whether you have a higher risk of exposure based on your assumptions about your partner's activities and predilections is just silly.

You can't trust anyone to be honest when they're intent on seeing you.

For me its purely a business decision and not one that is written in stone, I take things on a case by case basis in the hopes that they could potentially jive with what I'm trying to do - which is see as few new clients as possible.

AggieFan01 307 reads
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Posted By: lilli
i develop genuine relationships with my clients, and those relationships have meaning and value to me. the overwhelming of majority of gents who write reviews, even very few reviews, seek something quite contrary to that.
Ummmmm....the overwhelming majority? Source?

I can't see any way there isn't hypocrisy going on here although it could have been worded better.

Blowing Chunks 411 reads
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btw, what you're looking for is GFE... at least the definition of it is.

I agree that it does liven up the mood greatly when kissing is involved. It isn't a deal killer for me though.

If a girl who looks like Scarlett Johanson says she will provide, well gfe or no gfe I'm taking the next flight out. lmfao

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