How about just trying to be alive and healthy?

But, nevertheless, the hobby is one reason to stay in shape.  Sex, don't correctly, is a very physical activity, and the better your body works, the better you'll enjoy it.

Money means that gals will see you no matter what shape you are in, so some might be tempted to skimp on exercise and proper diet, but this would be a mistake.

To all you hobbyist.  You ever feel motivated to be in better shape after seeing a provider?  I've only seen one, new to the game.  Lol, my body grosses me out but not to the point where i won't get naked in front of a regular girl or provider.  I want to get in better shape for myself, real girlfriends and maybe get a provider wet by just taking my shift off.

Feel free to chime in too providers.  Has a provider talked to you about getting in shape after a session?  

My last couple of workouts at the gym were hardcore.  I was on beast mode, never worked out so hard in a long time.

Can you see your cock while standing up, or does your gut get in the way?

Glad to see you are making the effort...  I actually did about 10 years or so ago before I got into this wonderful hobby.  Best investment I ever made.  Not sure what the initial motivation was but I'll never look back.  Even though I am in my late 50's, I look and feel more like late 40's.  Can still take the son and nephews in just about any sport.  Also, it helps with the stamina needed for my favorite pastime.  LOL.

You will enjoy life more, enjoy sex more, have more stamina, all of which are good things.  But do it for you.  While I am sure providers generally prefer a fit body to a fat, out of shape one, you are paying them to be with you, regardless of that.  Still, with that said...  Whatever motivates you to take care of your body is a good thing!

Here's a practical point, too: being in better condition will allow men over forty a better chance at MSOG, as well as more active sex.
If that, on top of "living", "feeling well", and "quality of life" isn't motivation, then there may not be any answer.

Yes for ladies but doing it for #1 is more important .

Depends on how cold the water is in the shower.

It's when your belly sticks out farther than your dicky-do lol.

Luckily I am in good shape and take of myself, so it's not a problem for me.

MM

245, 5'10",
Then probably only the head, & that's when you're erect.

I'm Muscular 220 lbs, 6'1" although major of the time I meet a provider they are impress and will comment, but there are some that don't say anything.  I really don't think it sway their performance in any way, as long as your confident, clean and respectful then your be just fine.  

Relax and you find MSOG will become much easier.

You gotta be kidding me with that logic.

I just started working out too.
It hurts. It hurts bad.
I am already starting to quit.

Look. Don't be shy of your body.
If you want to work out. Do it because you will feel awesome... Eventually.
Don't do it just so a girl won't go eww, when she sees you. (If that is what you think)
Forget about looks. Do it to challenge yourself.
Working out for looks is not the way.
If you want that. Go get some juice.
You will have tiny balls, and you will be angry all of the time.
But women will love your body.

If that's what motivates you, great.

You have to start somewhere and I'm sure you'll gain lots of confidence once you start seeing progress.
At that point, you'll be doing it for yourself and to reach your goals, and not just because a provider talked to you about getting in shape.

I'm completely new to this, having just seen one provider.
Gave me a little inspiration to get in better shape, build up some stamina.
That was in early January - I've lost almost 20 lbs since, going to the gym 5 days a week.
All work and no play had me in a rut - but I'm certainly out of it now!
Amazing how much better you feel by eating right, exercising, and losing a few pounds...