always has been a good client pool.  My #1

in all these years...

Without review sites it’s back to hit or miss. And how do you find them on twitter? Search escorts? That will change soon. And suggestive posts will be filtered for content and deleted. Any group with Escort name will be closed.  

So tell me, how did you find these TER haters? Some complaining likely still have reviews and haven’t delisted themselves, wonder why?

I've been here since 2008 because I've met so many wonderful men and women here.  It's been great for checking out ladies and gentlemen though reviews and learning people's personalities. It just makes my screening easier really too.  
I obviously still don't know ALL the rules I guess though lol but it has been really good for me 😎
XOXO
TL

They are insignificant.

I personally think they don’t like ter because of instances where they must have a bad day and wasn’t having it with a client and that client writes a bad review about them JUST for that one time which can have a big affect on them or a client who’s petty writes a fake review because she declined him or made him mad in some type of way lol. I think if anything TER would the best thing because reviews make everything haha and the ads board when it was up was clutch for the ladies and clients alike. If it wasn’t for reviews I highly doubt I would have met h ladies I have met, like if I showed up expecting GFE and she does CBJ I’d be disappointed so I think that’s why reviews are important because no one wants to be disappointed

A lot of ladies I know, or knew, hate TER, but think it's a necessary evil. They don't trust it and don't treat them the same way the guys are treated. I can dig cuz if it wasn't for the ladies this wouldn't exist.  

There's few places where you can read reviews and see ads. TER doesn't have the market on it.  

As a matter of fact, on one site, I have reviews that ladies did of me. I think it's only fair.  

Any of you old, fat, ugly fucks that can't get laid unless you pay wanna debate this I'll hang out for a while.....

TER has been nothing but positive for my business.  Even if gents do not post a review I have still received many clients just from reading my board posts.  

THANK YOU!!!!

XOXO
Scarlet

1. Retirement
2. Privacy/safety
3. Bad reviews

TER is only a negative for providers if there is something negative about the provider.

I have always been interested in only 3 things:

1) Does the lady match the pictures/is she the same person?

2) Is it BBBJ, or CBJ?

3) Does she host a spot and is it in a decent neighborhood/is it clean?

What do I care how many O’s you had? Do I really need a play by play description what you two did? That she moned or was loud? Do I have to read these ridiculous terms used to describe your dick? Mr winky? Your soldier? Your captain? How is any of that relevant to me? Moving forward, is it such a bad thing if the way we communicate to each other now regarding a woman’s professional legitimacy is in such a way that omits the long and detailed sentences describing the two of you actually having sex?

I saw the pictures, I get it! She’s hot! I wanna do it too! Just tell me it’s actually her LOL. Tell me if she was a nice person or if you didn’t click. I’m being facetious and I realize there is more to it for many, but for the majority looking for a GFE it’s all pretty much the same. I get it LOL. Of course some women hate TER, I’ve read guys reviews blasting women for being large when her profile described her accurately. Some men can’t seem to say they were not getting on well together with tact and say shit that’s insulting, because they can hide behind a keyboard without any fear of reproach.  

I agree with a lot of what’s being echoed on other threads by some providers...they were kicked off other sites a long time ago for breaking the terms of the site... they were careless. I remember when women used to put diamonds and roses as a suggestive way to imply their rates. Now rates a clearly displayed and attached to specific acts. Going back to vanilla pictures, making subtle suggestions as opposed to “you can !@$% my ass for an extra $100 isn’t the end of the world. It was out of control if you ask me and begged to get attention...and it got it.

TER has been my livelihood for a few years now. I’m enraged that there are pros cheering on the demise of any website. This is going to seriously affect many of us (myself included). Whatever their opinion, they shouldn’t be celebrating.

WHY do they hate TER? A lot of folks (I've heard the complaint from tons of clients too) is that the reviews are required to be disgustingly graphic. And the rating system is unfair and/or dehumanizing. A lot of pros who previously relied on the site also turned after receiving obviously fake reviews that weren’t removed.

Not saying I agree with these things, but I do understand where they’re coming from. But reveling while so many of my friends and I spent the past 48 hours in a constant panic attack? Fucked up.

You certainly have to have thick skin to be on here... but I do not think for the most part that its "coercive" like most of the people you mentioned are saying.  In my opinion, TER would only seem coercive to someone who wishes to maintain a pristine image.  This isn't realistic because while there are some assholes out there, not everyone is going to be happy with you or your services because not everyone has the same preferences or expectations.  I think as long as you are an ethical provider and you show accurate and up to date pics then an occasional bad review isn't going to hurt you.  For me personally some reviews hurt my feelings no doubt, but they weren't detrimental to my career.

Its Positive for me, new friends Male and Female

And of course  Business ..Moolah  from the reviews,  So Alls Good Thing💃👄🙋‍♀️

TER has made the hobby a more safe environment for me. But I have seen girls get fake reviews and TER did not remove them or where being very slow about it. But I also have went to providers with good reviews that should have never received them in my opinion. So I have got to a point I accept couple bad reviews and look at the overall  picture. It may not be perfect but it sure does help and I believe it makes it safer for all of use.

I have seen two things for sure that would alienate me as a provider:

1. Lack of action on fake reviews.  There seems to be a bias towards letting fake reviews stand.  Even ones that are clearly intended to hurt a providers business.  If I was a provider and that happened to me, I would be pissed too.

 
2. Tolerance of women-hating misogynistic posts and threads.  Some of the crap that is allowed to be posted here is ridiculous.  Stuff that is in clear violation of posting guidelines.  I took action a couple of times, by reporting what I was seeing, and essentially got an FU.  

 
So, I can see why a lot of women see TER as a hostile environment. Some percentage will go extreme in their reaction.

 
With all of that said, I would not be in this hobby without TER, since it helped me understand what I was getting into.  Meaning that a serious amount of cash, has left my bank account, and ended up in provider bank accounts that I would never have met without TER.  

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If they aren’t willing to adapt to the new law and it blatantly now is incriminating evidence against us why wouldn’t we delist? This is my dilemma.  I think if you have a good social media presence you at least can be assured that the lady is legit.  

Taking it day by day but I’ve reached out to the admins here and I’ve made some pretty good suggestions on how we can bring back the regional daily photo boards and they don’t seem to care. So what’s next for this lady....Only time will tell.

For now let’s Swing!

Xxx
Elle Vegas the Sexy Swinger

Been great for me, so no hate here.

but it would be good if someone could list the names of  these  ladies .....I can understand their  problem, but that's not very smart on their part to be vindictive.  Reviews are the  principal decider as to whom a guy dates - well, for me anyway.

I had no interest in twitter when I could simply read TER ads.

The world is always changing and I don't mean global warming.

Nowadays, at least.  

However I have heard stories of women who never even post on the boards get slandered, or just get posts about them where they can never be enough.

I have had a couple of people try to submit reviews, with high scores, but they didn't want to divulge on every dirty detail, and didn't like that they couldn't give me a 10. So they retracted and didn't resubmit. I think some clients are not comfortable sharing every single detail, so I think even for some clients it feels degrading to kiss and tell, and it also feels degrading that because they didn't bang somebody up the ass, they can't give somebody a 10. Or because they didn't want to french kiss, or kiss at all, they have to give  a mediocre score on poerformance.  

It's not just coming from providers, of course that's who most people see talking about it, but in private, I hear complaints from guys on the scoring system and how weird it feels to share private details to the degree that they are required in order to submit a review.

In my case, this is where I learned how to do it right, and how to get in contact with reputable providers who know what they're talking about. I wouldn't be where I am today if it weren't for the discussion forums. On the other hand, with good comes some dismay. I do know in the past I have been bullied or publicly reprimanded for not being enough for someone. Or for saying no.

Also, before I learned how to determine whether or not I had chemistry with a client before seeing them, I noticed they would be disappointed with something or the other even though both then and now I was very meticulous about making sure I was as accurate as possible. Sometimes you will just never be enough, but sometimes it is brought public and it can be very humiliating for some, especially if they are really putting their all into this business.

Be it reviews or discussion boards, one of the things that is seen publicly by a lot of providers and clients alike on some boards is a lot of misogyny. It's not all misogyny. But some of these discussions are on the front lines, and that's going to give an impression.

Before the ad boards went down, if I were visiting a specific City, I would look at the discussion board first. If it was a bunch of Provider bashing, I would skip the ter ad before that tour. I started doing that and it eliminated a lot of problems.

I have put ads up way in the past, and posted on boards in areas I was going to visit and got involved in the discussion. I had some dude come over to my board, Chicago, and rip me to sheds.

I love the Chicago Board, they all stood up for me every time. But at the same time, to go on there and read that crap just isn't any fun. Online bullying is just bad.

It happens in reviews all the time. I don't get it very much thank God, and I don't get publicly humiliated on the boards much anymore, thank God, but I'm going to say something. Twitter, it is rough out there. And it gets real nasty. I think it's just the internet in general. But there are some nasty, nasty people on Twitter who aren't involved in this industry but go after ladies of the industry.

The reviewing system scores has pissed a lot of people off, and I think that was the final decision for a lot of providers to leave the site. When I was off, new enquiries went down, good thing I had a nice saving and wonderful regulars. I did miss the community, because you guys are the first people I came to know in this industry, and got me out of a lot of trouble.

Some of the people here really helped me a lot when it came to getting on my feet and being safe and happy in this business. I even had somebody that I won't disclose, who complains about rates here, but in person was one who introduced me to some very level-headed women, and also even encouraged me to raise my rates. So you don't see everything on these boards.

All I know is my ass was saved, and it was more because of the community than because of the reviews. At the same time, I do not post as much as I used to because after a while, the trolls do come out and start saying some things that are pretty hurtful and stressful. So it gets tiring sometimes, I just try to kind of jump on, say my words, and jump off.

From what i see, I think it would help a lot if the scores weren't based on Services provided, but whether the two together were happy with their time together. Whether the client was happy that his choice was accurately portrayed, and gave them a wonderful time.  

Hope this helps.

TER has been great for me...

I got alot of great clients from here. Now that the ad board is gone, I’ve thought about joining twitter but not even sure I want to. I hope TER allows us to atleast post photos soon

I have met awesome gents from TER. My first review was from someone very popular unbeknownst to me, and it has been a whirlwind and a pleasure ever since. It will be 3 years next month, so luckily I have some clientele.

Like anything in life you have to weigh the pros and cons. What works for one person may not necessarily work for another and TER isn't the only board that gets hate on Twitter there are others that get hate too but TER is by far the biggest board out there so obviously they'll get the brunt of it. I've had fake reviews written about me some were removed some weren't. I've met some of the best hobbyists and some of the worst but that's not on TER that's on the person lol. Yes reviews help both parties but then again a lot of people write fake reviews because they don't want to pay the monthly membership so to maintain their vip status some people scam the system or an agency that you leave will have their guys write fake reviews so you don't do well as an Indy yes that's happened to me but again not TER's fault. In this environment you have to do your homework and not just rely on boards and reviews, I tend to check out posts to see if I'll mesh with the person or if the hobbyist is white listed how often how long ago etc.  
Bottom line is nothing is perfect someone will always have a problem with something and you can't please everyone so as long as the site serves the purpose it was destined to then the site has done it's job imho.

If you want to know who these twitter twats are, the majority of them are the ones with ads on the Er--- site ( can't name the name b/c its against guidelines but you can figure that that E---ad site is for escorts ) .  They are the ones who also think that somehow they are worth 4 figures for a hour as well.

Of course those gps twats hate reviews,  if just one client have a bad time or she fails in expectation, their whole business can stop.  So its best to tell a guy who spend 4 figures if you felt let down, too bad for you.  Reviews are a standard that makes someone stand out to you in terms of services, if someone is un-review they can do whatever or whatever NOT to you, you have no expectation and thus you won;t know what her real potential or no potential are.

Just a note if you are a guy who are paying just for "companionship" and would spend 4 figures just for that expectation you are a pathetic loser, go find a therapist she would be cheaper and you can talk for hours.  If she is charging you 4 figures you better get the sun and the moon.

Those twitter twats are not other girls "friends" as much as they claim, they are more than happy to see TER closed down and telling girls "be happy for change" while speaking from their high horse.  Those twats are everyone's enemy.  

 
The only time you shouldn't post a review is if you are paid a non-disclosure agreement, if a escort ain't paying me to stay quite, I sure won't.  There is only a limit to what I'm paying for and I'm not paying to be your bitch as well.  

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A broad reading of the bill would seem to threaten even Twitter -- depending on the content.  Obviously Twitter is going to support more than 5 people with such inclinations -- so they don't have the "individual provider" out..   They can't just let objectionable content sit unmolested, they'll have to police it, since ignorance is no longer an excuse.

Twitter stuff will have to be pretty vanilla, and so will any other domestic website.

TER has been nothing but phenomenal in advancing my personal and financial endeavors in the industry.  Only two critiques:  1) Removing FAKE reviews challenging to the degree of appearing accusatory toward providers of dishonest requests , and 2) the achievement of scores is dependent upon the performance of specific sexual acts while fees are visible to paying members...the very definition of prostitution.  

In lieu of recent legislative changes in the U.S., I requested a "Tour Board" with only city and date info without text be made available to US Citizens, which seems incredibly less visibly disparaging and incriminating in terms of soliciting and promoting prostitution.  Additionally, I requested a change to the current scoring system to "Looks" and "Overall Performance," which I would change to "Overall Experience."  It is illogical to keep a scoring system by which sexual acts derive scores and not a board of city and date only.  Most importantly, studies show (and my personal diagnoses) is that anal sex causes irreparable damage to women.  Those like me who have sought top scores to remain competitive have sacrificed our bodies to surgeries now necessary to regain normal human functioning. How the site can continue to maintain the scoring system is beyond my comprehension in light of changes in the law now and other less aggressive sites jumping ship.  Now would have been the perfect time to show support to the ladies with this level of utmost respect and genuine support for our well-being.

I suspect those who disparage TER are those that could not get a fake review removed or received less than they felt they deserved.  Alternatively, they may view the scoring system as derogatory and exploitative to women.  

Nonetheless, I am indebted to the forum for providing us a safer means to conducting business than we would otherwise have.  Thanks, folks.

xoxo
Allura