"In the rarer moments where a client who leaves a very critical review of a provider wants to go back and see that provider again, I've seen visceral examples of the dynamic devolving and I maintain that I'm personally not interested in getting caught up in a predicament like that. So my point still stands. And in fact, I'll push even further and say that anyone who perceives me in that manner and would broadcast those opinions, definitely don't try to book me a second time and kindly don't try to book me the first time. Don't reach out to me at all. Do leave me alone."

This is a dumb idea. First, it could be interpreted as scoring manipulation because those who choose to see her, and may want to see her again, will feel pressured to give her a higher score. And, you will have no way of knowing for sure if they are giving honest scores or ones to insure they can repeat. This needs to happen organically. If a reviewer feels she deserves a 6 or lower, that's what the reviewer should give her. If the consequences are she no longer wants to see them, then so be it. That's her choice, as much as it is the clients choice if he doesn't want to see her again. If he's butt hurt because he felt his 6 was generous and wanted to see her again, well tough shit.

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So again, why state it only on the forum but not on the website if it's true?

Most of us who look at a providers pictures and think, she’s a 6, wouldn’t book her. So her comments do not apply to most of us. A smart provider creates her website and ads to lure in her target market, not to keep out those she doesn’t want. While she may be the one who just broadcast it here, I can assure you there are many other providers who would not want to see you if they knew in advance you think they’re a 6 or lower.

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Anything SHE damn well pleases.

Wtf are you doing? Just let it go. You don't tell us how to run our businesses. We can include or omit whatever we want on our websites, your opinion be damned. Go read a book or something.

So let me get this straight. If she says for people who do x to not even reach out on the forum, why wouldn't she want to let people know this?  

Sorry but I think you’re taking a statement and blowing it out of proportion. Others may agree with you, but she clearly meant what she said, so you posting this isnt a consequence- she might find it funny you designated an entire post, and others might interpret you and this post as crazy.  

I think you're slightly confused. If you think I'm making this post purely because I disagree that is not the case!

Yes, YIKES!

No. She does not need to post all her fun facts on her website because 9 out of 10 times people don't read the entire website prior to contacting a provider.

rocket likes to argue. About anything.

I’m not confused.. it seems you are. You def made this post bc you disagreed (otherwise you wouldn’t have worded it so biased or passive aggressively). If your intent was genuinely to see other viewpoints.. why are you telling others not to book her in the same breath?

team_rocket_qwerty should just tell providers his TER username when booking. This way any who pay attention to the boards can decide if HE is not a match for them. Control what you can CONTROL and sometimes you get what YOU want.

Her statement only makes sense to TER reviewers. It wouldn’t make sense to non TER members and would only serve to confuse them. Her website is created to attract a wide swath of clients, not to cater to the whims of a small minority (possibly singular) of TER forum readers.

Excuse me?

There is a reason people use aliases on this board, including yourself.

"And in fact, I'll push even further and say that anyone who perceives me in that manner and would broadcast those opinions, definitely don't try to book me a second time and kindly don't try to book me the first time. Don't reach out to me at all. Do leave me alone"

Now THAT I won't argue with

And the person the broadcast was intended for received it. Now you know not to book her. Mission accomplished. No reason to add it to her website. What do you expect her to post, "If you're team_rocket_qwerty from TER don't book me." ? Sorry, but HER website is not all about YOU.

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So no, I don't expect anything about me but rather the same statement she made on here to be put on her site.

We know you were the only one in that thread, as well as this one, talking about giving out a 6 or lower to an ATF and repeating. We know she said that anyone who rates the way you just described not only should not see her a second time, but don't even bother booking her the first time. These are both in writing and the only absolutes. Anything else is how we choose to speculate. First focusing on the absolutes, her message is clearly intended for you.