I haven't seen a  "provider" now probably 15 years...before I moved out of NYC to here in Cincinnati...but I can only remember having a GFE experience 1 or 2 times looking back on it  now in the many times I've done it.....anyway now I'm going to get back into the game...it's been about 8 years since I've had any physical pleasure with a women at all...so I have to do something before I loose my mind...really.....but big problem is I have no references .... so that may cause a problem...and also...I have no cell phone...all the cell phone budget goes to my 2 kids....so can't do any 2 call  that I read about in just about every review...so I'm kind of at a loss....not sure how to go from here

How you gonna afford providers when you can't even afford a cell phone?  That's weird.  Doesn't sound like you're financially ready to resume hobbying.

I'm just sayin'.

If you don't have refs then you might have to do the work reference route as ling as the lady is comfortable with that. As for the phone, you gotta have one. You can buy a really really cheap one and buy it's minutes. These days and if you are going to hobby you need a phone.

The other option is to call her from a payphone but again if the lady is comfortable with this.

Good Luck...

If you can afford to play, you can afford a pay-as-you-go phone.   Keep it just for the hobby.  I've seen phones as cheap as 9.95.  I already have a tracfone so I didn't check the cost of minutes.   I never have used all my minutes.  I buy my minutes & service days (90 SDs) so the minutes roll over on mine.

You also will want a hobby e-mail address (a free one, hotmail, yahoo, or the like) not linked to your main e-mail.  

The lack of referances can be a slight problem but if you explain your situation honestly, many ladies will have alturnative screening methods.  If they don't, move on to someone who does.  

You need to read the self-help section which has a lot of valueable information and then read back on the newbie board until you can answer every question.  This reading is essencial as only you can view the Qs through your life circumstances.  

You are as a newbie...   I have to recommend that you stick with well reviewed providers until you get your feet wet again.   You WILL need VIP because the presence of reviews does not tell you whether they are good or not, whether they offer what you want.   You can buy VIP one month at a time, create a bucket list.  Take it from me, VIP costs less than even one spoiled date.

The hobby can be done on a budget.  It's not as easy...  but it has it's rewards.
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Good Old walmart has the net phone for $30.00 includes 300 minutes and last 60 days..  PAY CASH! ONLY!

all very good advice

I was thinking the same thing. EOM

Do you really need that set of golf clubs you have not used in 2 years.  Hows that coin collection; or baseball card, or stamp, or gun, or perhaps even motorcycle collection.  Try getting rid of some of the the things you don't use anymore and you might be surprised how much money you have to play. Just a suggestion.
Doc

Disposables cost less than $50 bucks to get set up for 60 or so days. The $50 bucks include filling the phone with enough minutes to call dozens of providers. Try a high rated agency that operates in or near your home city. You will have tp provide some personal information, decide which is acceptable to you.

Yeah that's exactly what I was thinking....or a pay as you go phone where you buy minutes on phone cards
....the real thing I have to over come is no references....I don't want to be mistaken for le....well you know what I mean

yeah I'm an eBay master at this point...I'm willing to save for the hobbies...and the email thing I have covered...I'm a computer geek...so no problem there....just have to get one lady to take a chance on me and then vouch  for me on something like date check I guess?...I'll give it more thought....I appreciate everyone being honest and offering advice

Thanks ... I'll consider that

Yes I will....and I joined TER and I have a favorites list set up of local providers....so I have to just get one to take a chance on me.

I am a noob as well. I have already been screened "lightly" by elitegirlfriendsclub.com

I gave them my real cell number....should I still get a hobby phone if I only go through them?
I can see getting one if I start to see indies and don't want a  surprise call from one of them at a bad time.

I have paperless billing to which only I have access to the account usage, so nobody sees who I have called or who has called me. So no real SO problems.

If I go Tracphone, does it matter where I activate it?
I read on the forums that I should go to a remote public location with wifi to activate the phone.
How would this help???? I know they can track what IP was used to activate the phone and I am sure they can track the MAC address of the PC used. How far do I have to go?

Thanks