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I "Don't" Love what I do
escalade1964 65 Reviews 2167 reads
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Do you get a sense from some providers that hide behind an alias
that due to their negative "posting" and general board persona do  
not really love their job?

Your thoughts if any?

He is probably being a sarcastic, smart-ass and mocking the notion of what it means to "love" someone or something?

Your thoughts, (comma) if any?



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RUSchittingMe1150 reads

You only just figured this out? LOL!  Just kiddin' doll.  And, yep, U R rite!  While Ass-calade will, rarely, post somethin' good it's mostly the wise-ass Troll shit.  Which is why so many find "his" comma-less an clueless act annoying.  Mostly.

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I laugh every time I read it. I think this guy has quite a sense of humor.

What about guys who post a bunch of negative stuff about providers and women in general? Does that mean they dislike women? These guys do not have to disclose their handle when booking a session. Same way the lady who posts under an alias, could be your next appointment.

And nobody loves their job 24/7/365. Speaking only for myself, I enjoy this to an extent. The day I get out of bed and loath it, is the day I quit. I choose clients wisely and in doing so, am able to keep a positive outlook and do a good job.

And then sometimes it's just fun shit stirring;)

Aw.......don't try and woo me lol

Nope...there is none.

And I don't use an alias...I prefer to just let my handle that I've had for years speak for itself.

But many do only use an alias so they can post up stuff...well, like you post and not offend some johnnie boys.  I'm fine with that as well.  Likewise guys use the alias to harass and don't want the hookers to know who he is.  And I'm fine with that as well.

But it's also not terribly difficult to figure out who is really who...even when we had unlimited aliases  :D

Posted By: justanillusion
What about guys who post a bunch of negative stuff about providers and women in general? Does that mean they dislike women? These guys do not have to disclose their handle when booking a session. Same way the lady who posts under an alias, could be your next appointment.  
   
 And nobody loves their job 24/7/365. Speaking only for myself, I enjoy this to an extent. The day I get out of bed and loath it, is the day I quit. I choose clients wisely and in doing so, am able to keep a positive outlook and do a good job.  
   
 And then sometimes it's just fun shit stirring;)

Asked a question and then answers it himself.  Well no need for me to chime in, you seem to know what I am going to do before I do.

Not to mention your posting history is here.

Guess that my "guess" was correct...that's a real shame  :(

Read my post to Jamie...it might help you as well  ;)

Posted By: justanillusion
Asked a question and then answers it himself.  Well no need for me to chime in, you seem to know what I am going to do before I do.

Unless you are doing my finances you actually know nothing about that side of me. But if it make you feel better, I will continue the dumb hooker schtick and let you feel all superior and gloat.  

You have no idea if I am 25 or 65, short or tall, fat or skinny. You think you know. I have fun on here and tell a bunch of hooey to a bunch of strangers.  

Now, mind your own business.

Perhaps you are correct...I don't know exactly how you're situated financially.  But I'll bet I have a real good idea.  But that's really not germane either  ;)

And I may also have a pretty good idea of your physical characteristics...as well as your age.  Who knows.

When are you going to start the "dumb hooker shtick"?  You did for a couple of posts...but quickly abandoned that in favor of intelligent and playful posts...thanks.

It's fun to play this game...don't you think?

Posted By: justanillusion
Unless you are doing my finances you actually know nothing about that side of me. But if it make you feel better, I will continue the dumb hooker schtick and let you feel all superior and gloat.  
   
 You have no idea if I am 25 or 65, short or tall, fat or skinny. You think you know. I have fun on here and tell a bunch of hooey to a bunch of strangers.  
   
 Now, mind your own business.

Listen this is a place where I can come and be whatever and whoever I want. How do you even know that I am even a real live hooker? You have your thoughts, maybe an opinion or 6, but unless you are sitting in my living room, and I am honest  as I am with loved one s and friends, all you get is what I want you to get.  

So, I am in fact playing a game, a role, a ruse whatever you want to call it. It's fun to do. Shall we continue?

And the dumb hooker crap, it is rather difficult to type like that so no, I won't.

How do I know?  It takes on to know one.  And I'm also pretty sure you are a 17-year-old Chinese kid.

My name is Hu Flung Dung and I live in Pompano Beach Florida with my parents. I am 23 years old but look 17. And I am addicted to hooker/monger boards. I can live vicariously through the many hookers who frequent this board.

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A month ago I had put up a challenge to pm me and say who I am... jesus christ all 20 pms accused me of being you! Including by some of those I presume are the closest to you.

Even gave everyone a hint, I have posted a few times under my handle. I am not stupid, I have been denied a session bc of things I have said... which is so sad as I am very nice, just blunt.

I don't know anyone well enough to know who is behind the alias.  

Posted By: ChgoCPA
Nope...there is none.  
   
 And I don't use an alias...I prefer to just let my handle that I've had for years speak for itself.  
   
 But many do only use an alias so they can post up stuff...well, like you post and not offend some johnnie boys.  I'm fine with that as well.  Likewise guys use the alias to harass and don't want the hookers to know who he is.  And I'm fine with that as well.  
   
 But it's also not terribly difficult to figure out who is really who...even when we had unlimited aliases  :D  
   
Posted By: justanillusion
What about guys who post a bunch of negative stuff about providers and women in general? Does that mean they dislike women? These guys do not have to disclose their handle when booking a session. Same way the lady who posts under an alias, could be your next appointment.  
     
  And nobody loves their job 24/7/365. Speaking only for myself, I enjoy this to an extent. The day I get out of bed and loath it, is the day I quit. I choose clients wisely and in doing so, am able to keep a positive outlook and do a good job.  
     
  And then sometimes it's just fun shit stirring;)

I have posted before my other career is waitressing, so even on my worst of worst days providing if I think about making 4.19/hr, hoping to get a tip and not get bitched at, my day doesn't seem so bad.  

What I don't understand is if you have been in this biz long enough to become jaded why haven't you stashed enough away to quit?  

 
Just my measly .02$

But in this game of instant gratification...it seems most hookers can't hold onto .02.

Just look at ad day on the Chi board (or any regional board)...do you want to still be doing this shit posting up 10-20 y/o pics and hoping that the dudes don't post that you're well over 50?

Be smart and don't piss this money away on garbage...like cars, shoes, clothes and assorted other crap.

The really smart ones (and there are some) do just that...get in...get out and never look back.

So...which will you be?

Posted By: Jamie.Solo
I have posted before my other career is waitressing, so even on my worst of worst days providing if I think about making 4.19/hr, hoping to get a tip and not get bitched at, my day doesn't seem so bad.  
   
 What I don't understand is if you have been in this biz long enough to become jaded why haven't you stashed enough away to quit?  
   
   
 Just my measly .02$

My plan is to stop doing this while I still love it, and while I'm still pretty. This def isn't a long term plan as much as it is have fun and make good money while I can!  

Posted By: ChgoCPA
But in this game of instant gratification...it seems most hookers can't hold onto .02.  
   
 Just look at ad day on the Chi board (or any regional board)...do you want to still be doing this shit posting up 10-20 y/o pics and hoping that the dudes don't post that you're well over 50?  
   
 Be smart and don't piss this money away on garbage...like cars, shoes, clothes and assorted other crap.  
   
 The really smart ones (and there are some) do just that...get in...get out and never look back.  
   
 So...which will you be?  
   
Posted By: Jamie.Solo
I have posted before my other career is waitressing, so even on my worst of worst days providing if I think about making 4.19/hr, hoping to get a tip and not get bitched at, my day doesn't seem so bad.    
     
  What I don't understand is if you have been in this biz long enough to become jaded why haven't you stashed enough away to quit?    
     
     
  Just my measly .02$

Believe me, it's not a "love" thing, it's a "I gotta pay the bills" thing.
Some are well educated, but due to a tough job market, they are taking your greenbacks instead.
BTW, what providers are you referring to.
Seems to me, most of the negativity comes from the same small group of guys on here.

Posted By: escalade1964
Do you get a sense from some providers that hide behind an alias  
 that due to their negative "posting" and general board persona do  
 not really love their job?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

Doesn't everybody work to pay the bills? In any job? Tell you what, I would prefer this job to a proctologist. They deal with a$$holes all day. If I screen and choose wisely, I avoid that occupational hazard

I get more of a sense some guys here don't love their life or a woman  with spunk  .  

Posted By: escalade1964
Do you get a sense from some providers that hide behind an alias  
 that due to their negative "posting" and general board persona do  
 not really love their job?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

Providers who use an alias simply want to be able to participate openly here without having every opinion they give held over their heads when guys read their reviews or see them. Personally I have no problem with it and I think that entirely too much is made of it here on the boards.

Seriously, WHY ON EARTH do people need complete and total reassurance that escorts love every freaking second of their job?

I am heading to carribean in August and plan on spending couple of weeks at wonderful beach paradise.

I expect impeccable service and friendly attitude from people employed at the resort of my choice.  Do I kid myself that they LOOOOOOOOOOOOVEEEEEEEEEEE their job?  Fuck no.  Actually, I am pretty sure most of them hate dealing with dumb ass spoiled tourists.  

Do I care what they are saying about aforementioned dumb ass spoiled tourists?  Not really.  As long as they smile, do their job and make it seem effortless I am OK with whatever they really feel about their customers.

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If a 55 year old guy  just paid a hot 25 year old woman to suck his cock and then cowgirl him into a mind shattering orgasm, actually thought hard enough about what she was thinking about as she is blowing a fat dude old enough to be her Dad, it would ruin the whole illusion. Some guys just have to believe a hooker loves her job 24/7/365.

Rule of thumb in the hooker handbook; the wider the age difference the greater chance she is thinking "it's just an hour, it's just an hour  I can get through this, just don't puke".

All this said in jest and with much love. There are plenty of hot young girls into sucking old fat men old enough to be their Dad.

Disclaimer: Not meant to insult any old, fat guys banging young hot hookers.

And while I personally think I have the best job in the world, everyone has "those days..." But the true pro's know how to manage and still give spectacular "customer service" despite them! :)

I just take the day off. If I am not into screwing, I'm not into screwing and no matter how much mental gymnastics I do, it comes right down to "I don't want to touch anyone today".

Hmmm maybe not really a true pro?

That doesn’t make me jaded. It makes me rational. Romanticizing this business can be an indulgence with a very high price.  

Too often “love” is just a code word for complacency. And, complacency will conspire with time to obscure ambition until it’s too late. Getting into this business is easy. Making money in this business is easy. Getting out takes a bit of work.

Nothing would memorialize a squandered life more than an epitaph that simply reads, “Here lies a good lay.

This is something you can reasonably do forever, so loving this job would actually be somewhat unhealthy and hinder you from doing ether things with your life.  I'll say I like this job better than any other one Ive ever had though :)

Amen. I like this business, but I liked it a lot less when I first started. When you only see a few guys a month, it's hard to get jaded or love it. It's a job...end of story. Like any other "job," there are parts you love dealing with, and parts you hate. Sex work is no different than anything else. You have good and bad days.

I would say like myself they go on here for sheer entertainment and fun and to kill some time, like any game or book. it s just somethin to do, you may even laugh. or you may get to tell some one off. or you may attract like minded clients for business if not usin an alias like I always do. after i go respond to a million threads i always like clockwork get a boat load of calls n date requests form old dates and new. i apparently appeal to some . and there a few aliases on here whopm dislike me, but thats cool. I d never want to be a people pleaser with no opinion even dorks like, i can sense a dork and they never like me they are dorks. dorks hate cool kids.  
ok so I think no the ladies whom post with alias i would guess they may love there job, they are more tha likely on here for amusement. they may even find it funny to ruffle peoples feathers whom have funny clever remarks in response ? who knows! who cares

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