I have had a few clients actually ask me to add them to the white list as it does make it easier for them to book appts.  Also a provider can look someone up on the listing and see who has listed them and contact that person if they wish.

I don't take the white listing lightly and only list clients who a) either wish to be listed or b) use me as a reference on an occasional basis or c) I've seen enough to be confident enough to list them.

But, I also feel that if a gent does not wish to be whitelisted.. he should tell any provider he meets about his preference and she should respect it.

SINfully sinthia

Is he on time?  A gentleman?  Paid as agreed??

I have had girls that start out saying, "yeah, I know him..." but once I probe further with my three typical questions, they might say "well, count your money upfront...he likes to short" or "well, he has stood me up a few times..."  

There are some girls that will continue to see guys when they do such things, so I like probe to see if they meet *my* criteria.

Also, I like to know how long ago it was when the girl met with the gent last.  Another thing that the whitelist does not include.

xoMegan

...thus mine is very, very short.