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its a ymmv world
anabangbang 2324 reads
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i dont know why any guy thinks that just because a girl did something with 1 guy she's going to do it with another.

we are not robots.

whenever a guy asks about what services are available i always tell them ... i like different things with different men on different days.

we really cannot promise anything beforehand its just silly to think we can.  she might promise you the world and she might have given it to the last 30 guys and then take 1 look at you and only give you the boot.

wrong day, wrong guy, wrong comment, who knows

i'd stay away from any girl making promises, if she's human i doubt she can make any guarantees.... if you really have services that are important to you, i'd ask her what activities she enjoys in her personal sex life ... or tell her something like, if we were dating would you be willing to ... ..... see if your activity is a possibility but you cannot assume that is a service she's offering and expect it or demand it.

it against the law.. both nature and society

so you're just setting yourself up for disappointment or arrest.  

Why is it when we go thru all the BS that TER makes us fill in on the form for submitting a review they then to ignore what we submit?
   I was reading a guys review today and in his story he explicitly said she DID NOT offer BBBJ yet on her page it said she did. I've seen this type of thing before so I thought I'd ask what others think.
Now if we take the time to fill it out then they should update that stuff, if not what's the point in doing it? I mean if they don't change anything then just let us write our story and be done with it.

I agree it's a pain in the ass. When you submit a review TER doesn't update any of the profile info that they ask us to fill out. If it's any incentive to you it is possible to update the gal's profile via problem reports. TER even awards VIP days for doing it.

My pet peeve.  I look at pictures on her website, check out her review "21 to 25" and go for it.  Show up and she's 35.  Bummer.  

So I always issue a trouble report.  I then went back to her first review 10 years ago! and sure enough she was 21 to 25 then!

Update!

my dick was short 25 years ago and it's short now!

Ok, so that guy didn't get a BBBJ, what about the other reviews on her profile? Perhaps the problem is not with her, but rather with him.

My preference is for BBBJ, but that doesn't mean it is 100% across the board. A case of bad hygiene, a red spot that I don't like the look of - and I reach for a cover.

Changing a provider's profile with every new review would not make them any more or less reliable than they are now. What benefit is it if her profile varies from BBBJ to CBJ every week, or if her profile switches between "implants - yes" to "implants - no" because some guys just can't tell the difference?

Now, if it is a GLARING error, such as pics accurate yes, when there is absolutely no way the girl you meet is the girl in the photos - that is when a simple problem report can resolve the issue.

The better solution would be to not require the profile details to be filled out once they have been provided in the initial review.

Just my two cents :o )

Ms. HumpAlot1179 reads

When I was providing, I loved bbbj. But, I always used my discretion, and if someone had unusual marks, rash or whatever going on down there, then I always had the right to decline.

If the provider in question has reviews stating this is what she does, then most likely, she does them, but for whatever reason, she decline to do so, with this particular gentleman. It's her right to refuse service, at any given time, if it warrants it.

I agree with what you've said. The one problem is maybe the lady at one time did offer something and for health or some other reason she now declines to offer it. If the profile never gets changed then how is anyone supposed to know. I for one have no problem with a lady offering to do BBBJ's or CBJ's, the problem is I don't want to pay for latex and if she has stopped doing BB then the guy loses money for a date he wouldn't have ordered in the first place and some lady that offers BB will lose a sale  that night.

ok, maybe i missed his point. I thought he was more upset with TER for making us fill out the form and then not updating it rather than the misinformation. That said I agree with him that TER should update the info at least tie it to that particlular review. So if someone were to read a review I submitted that all of the form info i put in was pertinent.
I am not sure that's clear but that's my story and im stickin to it. LOL

I agree that YMMV exists and I have no problem with that. No woman should do something she doesn't feel comfortable doing. The provider profile is a double-edged sword to say the least. I agree that it should not have to be filled out if it's not going to update. another option would be to have each reviewers profile appear with his review. TER uses the problem report system in order to encourage guys to update profiles and keep them more accurate. I realize that there are often very good reasons that a particular service does not get offered.  Maybe the solution is not to allow us to update the profile or parts of it in order to get free VIP days. Perhaps the lady herself should be the only one allowed to change it.

Oldest Fat Fart846 reads

I think this is a fairly common frustration among must of the reviewers. Another consideraton is to have the summary sheet as is and in addition have each reviewer's data available if you choose to view it.

Then you could look for updated info and services by clicking on each review.

OFF :-)

anabangbang2325 reads

i dont know why any guy thinks that just because a girl did something with 1 guy she's going to do it with another.

we are not robots.

whenever a guy asks about what services are available i always tell them ... i like different things with different men on different days.

we really cannot promise anything beforehand its just silly to think we can.  she might promise you the world and she might have given it to the last 30 guys and then take 1 look at you and only give you the boot.

wrong day, wrong guy, wrong comment, who knows

i'd stay away from any girl making promises, if she's human i doubt she can make any guarantees.... if you really have services that are important to you, i'd ask her what activities she enjoys in her personal sex life ... or tell her something like, if we were dating would you be willing to ... ..... see if your activity is a possibility but you cannot assume that is a service she's offering and expect it or demand it.

it against the law.. both nature and society

so you're just setting yourself up for disappointment or arrest.  

The whole point of this board is to find out these things beforehand so as not to waste my time. You'll notice I didn't say waste our time as she's going to get paid even if she decides at the appointed time not give a particular service.
If you try and ask before the date she'll get all upset that you're a cop no matter how many reviews you've posted and you won't get the date. Which I guess is best since she probably won't perform anyway.

When in Rome, do as the Romans do.  When on TER, follow TER's rules.  Yes, I agree, it is a RPITA to have to fill-out the form each time you submit a review; but, I do it.

I once read that only the lady can get something changed in her profile.  For example, if she raises her rate, TER will update.

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