Maybe this is a mundane and common occurrence, but I'm new to this whole thing so cut me some slack. Out of the last 3 providers I've visited, I would say two of them had wholly inaccurate photos in their ads. I don't mean something small like different hair color or something like that, but either very old or very misleading photos. Basically, they've been significantly heavier in person than their photos showed - and I mean 20+ pounds, not just a few. Yes, I realize I'm being shallow on such a thing, but it seems a little like false advertising to me. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for BBW, when the mood is right, and I think everyone should be comfortable in their own skin. But given that this is a marketplace, I feel a little mislead here. To clarify, I'm not talking about a true bait-and-switch here, the girls in the ad are the girls in the room, so it's not something that Tineye could sniff out.
The TER reviews for these providers have all said that the pics were accurate (they obviously were not), and none of the reviews have indicated otherwise. The service has been fine, and in both cases, perhaps a little extra effort (perhaps the provider feels guilty?). I've never said anything about it (I'm not that rude) and just gone along with it and paid agreed-upon donation.
Any recommendations on what to do? I'm thinking about indicating this in upcoming reviews, but I don't want to crush someone's business. Then again, isn't that what reviews are for? Should I end sessions early and just walk out? Should I bring this up before we start? What would you do? OK, flame on!
I hate fraud in any shape or form and this constitutes fraud. The images do not match the condition of the body.
If you were purchasing a car and you saw the image in the ad and then arrived and the car was in some way different than the image you saw, you would walk or I would hope you would.
How is this any different?
Think about this, when a guy sees a donation amount on a girls website and then decides to lighten the envelope, all hell breaks loose. However, when a girls add 20 plus pounds it is ignored and posts like this show up.
I am all for fairness in everything and this just is not fair.
Solution? Either walk out and pay nothing, or write an honest review. If you are afraid of review blowback, then walk. That will send a message and if it were me, I would let her know why your walking so she can then get accurate images or lose the weight.
Many providers won't see a guy without some information, so there is always the chance she comes back and gets spiteful on him.
In the end, you always have to ask yourself whether it's worth it to save a few hundred bucks.
You gotta look at this like picking stocks. Sometimes you choose poorly, and it's a bad investment decision. It's really no different here.
Some reviewers are too forgiving in the looks department, and others might be getting discounts to write good reviews.
What you choose to do is up to you. I don't think you are under ANY obligation to share anything. You paid for the session; it's your information, and you should do with it what you want.
Just realize that the risk is that they have your personal information potentially, so is it worth losing your rep or getting outed over a few hundred bucks?
I always tell people...this isn't a sure thing. You gotta only spend the money you are comfortable losing.
... Catch 22 situation to be put into.
I did have a recent situation with a provider from another review website who did indeed post false and misleading pictures on her ad AND her website as well.
I went to her incall location (private residence) and as soon she opened the door, I said to myself, "Whoa, this is not the same lady as in the pictures."
However, being the nice guy that I am, I went through the session, it was somewhat OK, she was too mechanical for me.
Anyways, I did the review of her on that other review website and I did indicate that her pictures WERE NOT recent, I mentioned that the pictures were at least 5-7 years old.
I wanted all hobbyists to know what they were getting into if they contacted her. I didn't care if she saw 20 guys, I wanted those guys to know what the real deal was. It was up to those guys to follow through or not.
Guess what? She proceed to blast me every chance she got on that other review website. She claimed that I was making it all up.
I did not bother fighting with her. There was another hobbyist who had read up on the situation and decided to see her for himself. Sure enough, this hobbyist verified what had I stated in my review. His review did mention the misleading pictures.
Now, she's fighting with him and all she's doing is making herself look bad doing it.
My advise? Do an honest review. Don't let others tell you anything different. Yea, I'll get flamed for giving you this advise, but all hobbyists should be honest with their reviews and let others know if anything is amiss with a provider.
Serpius
Posted By: cicio2000
Maybe this is a mundane and common occurrence, but I'm new to this whole thing so cut me some slack. Out of the last 3 providers I've visited, I would say two of them had wholly inaccurate photos in their ads. I don't mean something small like different hair color or something like that, but either very old or very misleading photos. Basically, they've been significantly heavier in person than their photos showed - and I mean 20+ pounds, not just a few. Yes, I realize I'm being shallow on such a thing, but it seems a little like false advertising to me. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for BBW, when the mood is right, and I think everyone should be comfortable in their own skin. But given that this is a marketplace, I feel a little mislead here. To clarify, I'm not talking about a true bait-and-switch here, the girls in the ad are the girls in the room, so it's not something that Tineye could sniff out.
The TER reviews for these providers have all said that the pics were accurate (they obviously were not), and none of the reviews have indicated otherwise. The service has been fine, and in both cases, perhaps a little extra effort (perhaps the provider feels guilty?). I've never said anything about it (I'm not that rude) and just gone along with it and paid agreed-upon donation.
Any recommendations on what to do? I'm thinking about indicating this in upcoming reviews, but I don't want to crush someone's business. Then again, isn't that what reviews are for? Should I end sessions early and just walk out? Should I bring this up before we start? What would you do? OK, flame on!
Being honest about a business, or in this case a lady, is beneficial to all. Honesty helps other reviewers determine if they want to see someone or not and it also helps the lady in making changes she may need to make in her appearance, her rates, her style her advertising/markting, etc. Yes, it may hurt her in the short run, but we all know there is a pm world thru bc where guys exchange info about a provider that is more in depth. While there is no need to be cruel or overly harsh, simply stating you dont think the girl matches her pics well and state the reasons why (age, weight, etc.) is a big reason why TER was designed for in the first place.
use her as a reference again! But if you did give her personal info it could come back to haunt you if shes crazy, in that case I might just move on to the next one.
SMH...makes NO sense to me LOL
Posted By: AlastiNatalie
use her as a reference again! But if you did give her personal info it could come back to haunt you if shes crazy, in that case I might just move on to the next one.
I would suggest that when you find a hooker you want to see...PM the reviewers directly and ask this question privately.
Many reviews are so out there that the reality of who you might see is nothing of who is really there. As others have suggested, most guys are afraid to write the truth, hence make up shit to get their 15 days of VIP.
Back channel is the most efficient way of eliminating this problem. Unfortunately if the johns don't call out the hooker for her deceptive practices...guys will continue to see her. And write a post just like this one. Another tactic some use is to post (as an alias) on your local board and warn as many as you can...followed by PM's to others who then circulate the word.
I don't expect this deception to end any time soon 
Posted By: cicio2000
Maybe this is a mundane and common occurrence, but I'm new to this whole thing so cut me some slack. Out of the last 3 providers I've visited, I would say two of them had wholly inaccurate photos in their ads. I don't mean something small like different hair color or something like that, but either very old or very misleading photos. Basically, they've been significantly heavier in person than their photos showed - and I mean 20+ pounds, not just a few. Yes, I realize I'm being shallow on such a thing, but it seems a little like false advertising to me. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for BBW, when the mood is right, and I think everyone should be comfortable in their own skin. But given that this is a marketplace, I feel a little mislead here. To clarify, I'm not talking about a true bait-and-switch here, the girls in the ad are the girls in the room, so it's not something that Tineye could sniff out.
The TER reviews for these providers have all said that the pics were accurate (they obviously were not), and none of the reviews have indicated otherwise. The service has been fine, and in both cases, perhaps a little extra effort (perhaps the provider feels guilty?). I've never said anything about it (I'm not that rude) and just gone along with it and paid agreed-upon donation.
Any recommendations on what to do? I'm thinking about indicating this in upcoming reviews, but I don't want to crush someone's business. Then again, isn't that what reviews are for? Should I end sessions early and just walk out? Should I bring this up before we start? What would you do? OK, flame on!
to have misleading pictures..
the hobbyist is dissappointed.
The provider has probably been dissappointed by the gentlemans reaction.. its a lose lose situation
Ofcourse Pictures should be your best look but hey, Consistant pictures speak 1000 words and reveiews back the provider in question..
Happy Hobbying
Lovely Lorena
Just responded to thread on atlanta board about seeing different Ladies.seeing same Lady this don't happen.
to gain or lose 10-12 lbs pounds in under a month, so perhaps that's when you saw her. When they saw her, the photos may very well have been accurate. In any case, I would write the review.
And when they open the door they look like a candidate for "The Biggest Loser"
Posted By: London Rayne
to gain or lose 10-12 lbs pounds in under a month, so perhaps that's when you saw her. When they saw her, the photos may very well have been accurate. In any case, I would write the review.
You can be honest in a review and still be somewhat kind and tactful. While no lady will enjoy getting a review that says the pics are inaccurate and that she's clearly gained a rather significant amount of weight, the claws are less likely to come out if you phrase it dispassionately and as kindly as possible while still conveying the point. If you call her a fat cow, describe udders for teats, tiger claw stretch marks, talk about the earth moving as she walked, etc you can be pretty sure you'll have added insult to injury. No need for that.
While hormones and "life" can cause some weight shifts, anything like what you're describing would qualify as being worthwhile to be brought to the community's attention. But I don't feel that you have an obligation, per se, to do that since if there is any backlash it's you (not the community) who pays the price. You have to decide for yourself what to do...
by pointing out the weight difference. If the pictures do not show a large woman and the image shown is something you like and you show up and it's different, that's being dishonest and you have a right to be angry. I think you should point it out in the review. As far as you crushing someone's business, she is doing it herself with the false pictures.
I would not write a false review. The odds are she gets several appointments each week. You have a generous 90 days to submitt a review... but you risk her ad expiring which is needed to make an acceptable review.
What I would do, is write a draft of your review immediately. Try real hard to be fair. But if something doesn't add up, you should say so. I keep such a draft in my private email account. I probably will edit it once or twice. Leave out any details which will identify you.
After a few weeks, she'll not be sure which client you were, giving you some protection from retaliation. Then post the review.
There are clients for every age, look, weight, body type... Ladies should advertize correctly & they know it. Some ladies don't change their look over a year... others might change their appearance over a few months...
