When I started long ago I was a no GFE provider. My boundaries were pushed because TER is mainly a vanilla site that caters predominantly to GFE, hence the rating structure. I have noticed many providers posting none GFE that their vocabulary utilizes the term VIP.

just like every other major industry, that defines terms so its member know what each technical term means.

TBH, the muddling of these terms is all the more reason why sites like TER are needed. I have seen standard and GFE be interchangeable. I have seen VIP mean more PSE. I have also seen standard not mean GFE and VIP is GFE. And half the providers get mad if I ask what their terms mean. Being honest, I will sometimes flat out not book a provider because I don’t know wtf her terms mean and don’t want some angry escort berating me for asking.  

I agree with Mr Fischer. VIP should be defined. The VIP acronym could have one or more meanings. ALSO what does each one mean or what services are included with each one?

offering GFE (to include BBBJ and DFK) than not, so I would argue that BBBJ and DFK should be included in a normal session.  Providers who are upcharging for these two activities are hurting their business.  Customers don't like surprises after they arrive and find that, while they brought enough for the tip, they did not bring enough for upcharges that they thought were included when GFE was advertised.  Reading a lot of reviews will show you that charging piecemeal for individual activities results in few repeats from customers.  I agree with Fisher that providers should endeavor to keep their services within the normal expectations of customers based on industry practices and it would be great if there was some way to ensure that.  

Feel that seeing the rates that others were charging helped increase the menu as much as anything.  
Do feel also that many providers are because of this are coerced into doing things they are not into with visions of Benjamins in their mind.
Years ago were massage HJ  providers and then escorts and then all one had to do was figure out the menu.  TER reviews along  with websites helped this . Now is confused even  more with the massage upgrade providers .
What TER has done is showed clients what they should expect and providers what the competition is offering for what price.  
Now provider A says I am as attractive as provider B and will do X,Y, and Z ifI have to and when not being into it then complains about a low score.  
There is definitely a difference between the TRUE professionals and greedy wannabes.

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Personally, if a provider doesn't provide bbbj + cim I pass. dfk is less important to me. And I hate when I arrive and the lady says that for her bbbj and/or cim is an upcharge. Usually I'll walk because if she's misleading about that in her ads/texts, then there will be other issues.

As flagrant as many of the K Girl sites are on posting exactly what girls will do and for how much I would wonder if others would feel safe putting that there?  

As for many it means what they want to mean. There are massage providers that say GFE is covered FS differentiating from just massage and HJ.  
Just depends on who is stretching the envelope.

...and not sure if they're talking head, penetration or both.  With some sights commonly listing services a provider might will also include bbbj available but still says no bare.   I don't discount a couple factors...it could be a pimp/manager writing the ad(s) for her or she's not the brightest bulb (or either of them).  

While i see that quite a bit, these days id say about 70% of providers will walk that back with some negotiation.

I don't look for bbfs but no bbbj is deal killer for me, regardless of how hot she is.  That said, yes, i'd bang a hottie but it wouldn't be worth much investment consideration into it.  I've never had a decent BJ with a condom and not sure it's possible.  

yes, more and more TER and other providers,  BBFS has become an option in certain circumstances ....and more and more  VIP means just that .... not condoning it .. just say its become more common even amongst ladies that "never do it with anyone else" !

Although the risks of getting busted are never zero, what I've seen over the years is that it's agencies and houses that get busted, much more so than indies.  So just tell me what my money gets me. There are a handful of ladies who say right on their site what $ gets you,  what $$ gets you and what $$$ gets you. And I daresay it may benefit those ladies by also making clearwhat's on their "No" lists. By contrast, all these euphemisms, pleasantries and vague terms get us nowhere.  

I kind of ignore that. To me, it's an excuse to charge more. Similar to "luxury companion".

Provider listed VIP. Then, at a higher rate, listed VIP GFE. Wait what? This is the first time I saw VIP listed as the lesser option.