Exactly
A guy chooses someone for companionship
He sees her pics and reads the stats
He has the picture in his mind and he begins to fantasize

He meets her
Yes she is attractive
But she is older

The tummy/thighs/bod don't quite look like the pics
But she is still looking hot and wants to please

Yes he does get what he came for

But it wasn't E X A C T L Y what he bought into.

That is the whole point.

Even companions have dificulty with admitting/accepting their body changes thru the years.

Believe it or not. I think men take all of this in stride.

And there are TONS of men that will like you for exactly what and who you are.

So in my opinion honesty about age and pics shouldn't be an issue.

I am blessed with a body that truly is timeless. I am 52

I lie about my weight.
It says I weigh 111 lbs.

I am 5'5
size 0
I think I weigh 126

I believe if I put my true weight on there guys might try to add 15-20 lbs.....

Most people would not think you could weigh 126 and be a size O. I guess this would make my problem seem backwards!!

So there you go.

I weigh more because I have more muscle. Very little body fat. When I get some..I tell guys I am a little fat. They ask where?
And there you go again...we all have this picture of what our bodies should look like.