It was wallet talk...
I had heard that a couple of times before and ignored it. Good providers will say anything to make you happy. I always thought I was an OK size, but nothing special. This time however, I pressed this provider and said I'll bet you say that to all the guys.
She was emphatic that she did not and said that some were too big and went too deep with was not fun, some were pencil dicks that you could barely feel. She had an entire library of cock sizes and opinions. I was somewhat amused at the catalog of members sizes this woman had in her mind.
So was it real? Do I have a really nice cock or was it just pillow talk?
I would therefore take it with a grain of salt.
Whenever someone says something to you and they have a financial interest in you believing it skepticism is warranted.
Have you been told that in your civvie life?
No, but in my ciivvie life I see women with a more narrow knowledge base (I think)
Whenever someone says something to you and they have a financial interest in you believing it skepticism is warranted.
Have you been told that in your civvie life?
As you apparently have bought this hook, line and sinker.
By the way...I am sure you have a very nice cock...and NO..that is not just pillow talk. And coming from me it is more important than what she said...as you haven't paid me!
unless they really like it..
I personally dont mention cocks.. they are all different..
what i may find sexually attractive another may not..
I personally dont know what your's looks like yet, If she said it go with it..
sincerely
Lovely lorena de leon
Sorry Lorena...but compliments are all part of the illusion. Perhaps you wouldn't say that to a paying customer unless you really meant it, but I would think that you would be in the minority on that. Many of the gals will compliment the guy on just about anything, as they are all too well familiar that "flattery will get you everywhere"...and in particular a return visit.
I find honesty is the best policy..
Now I wouldnt say a word if it wasnt what I consider a beautiful cock.
Now I find the time I spend and the way that i am in and out of the bedroom a reason clients come back..
certain feautures eyes lips a great upper body, a face with great bone structure,eys etc to be more someone should care about.. since no one allows there male tool to hang out all day.. yet, ive seen some great cocks.. it takes all kinds..what i fnd sexy another may not.. I also find powerful mansexy as hell..that inner strength shines above all ..
I hope this is not misinterpreted..
I just love men perios.. god made some real mean.. adoneus being one I believe
he has a great cock being "honest"?
I have spent time with a few ladies now, and each has whispered those "sweet nothings" to me, and it is nice to hear, but when I leave I trust she will not be inviting me (or the OP) back for an OTC session. Will you be seeing the OP in Vegas just to admire his "cock" OTC? I strongly doubt it, but never say never.
What makes for a great GFE session is the connection between the two. And rarely will that evolve into OTC because of his physical attributes. Again, you may be the exception to the rule, and if so, congratulations on that. I love it when my girlfriend (for the hour or so) gets really into me. It is what I am looking for, and if she is good at it (as I suspect was the case here...otherwise why would armybrat have posted this), there is a good chance I will see her again.
I typically do my homework on the ladies I like to see, and I suspect we have a few friends in common based on where you are located. And I suspect that you are very, very good at this biz. But most guys (not all as given the OP) realize what this really is..and we just go with the flow.
I really do appreciate that you post here, as without you ladies being involved, TER would be a much less exciting stop to be at.
I can' wait to get to Vegas and show you! 
Client's
Small, good for one quick pop. Preferred recovery period? Hours.
BF's
Thick, 8+ inches, stays hard for a while and has as short of recovery as possible.
Are u a client of BF?
She was emphatic that she did not and said that some were too big and went too deep with was not fun, some were pencil dicks that you could barely feel. She had an entire library of cock sizes and opinions. I was somewhat amused at the catalog of members sizes this woman had in her mind.
So was it real? Do I have a really nice cock or was it just pillow talk?
what crock of shit! LOL My clients normally have bigger dicks than my current lover does... I prefer average size in my personal life size I do like slow making love not hard pounding like when I am working...
What's an nice looking dick? straight and not too thick?
My cock is thick especially in the middle area, and rough on the edges - which brings better pleasure.
I might tell you that you have nice eyes, or that I love the way you kiss, but I'm not going to tell you that you have a nice cock unless you have a really nice cock. The follow up to that particular compliment is usually something along the lines of "err, huh?" To which I will respond by telling you precisely why I find your cock so nice - usually because you are just the right length, not too long, not too short, just the right girth, not too skinny, not too thick. A nice plump mushroom head, and a nice veiny shaft also help.
Yes indeed, some cocks are "prettier" than others, and when I see one I like the look of, I say so. I doubt if this is a compliment that is casually thrown out there, so take it for what it is - a nice compliment that was quite likely completely genuine.
My last hobby date told me I am "truely blessed" as far as my hardware. This was good to hear.
Another provider some time ago told me " I usually offer greek, but "no way, with you".
You win some, you lose some.
but keep in mind that most of us love cock and can find something fuckable about just about all of them.
size is not really a factor in most cases, it's the hardness that turns us on.
if your dick gets really hard, it really doesnt matter what size it is, we love knowing that we turn you on and we love knowing that we are going to get nailed.
I don't compliment every dick. I'm not good at faking anything.
When I try to convince my guys that I'm "faking it" they just always laugh at me anyway.
"Awwww, isn't that just the cutest little thing I've ever seen in my life"...
See it could have been worse!
xoxo,
Steph
-- Modified on 5/1/2011 4:54:18 PM
Dear Steph:
I was wondering since you are a well seasoned and an extremely experienced provider, what do you give more credence? Would it be size or would it be performance? I am sure that you might have had some good experiences with someone who might be slightly undersized. However would the passion and the intensity during copulatory activity be just as satisfying with a well endowed partner? Also finally I am sure in both your professional and personal life you have some libidinal stories that could rival the one's in Penthouse Magazine. With that said, and also depending upon your age and psychological state at the time of engagement, how much of the copulatory activity could be attributed to size, which could be contingent on the size and the shape of the place that would accommodate the copulatory organ or the intelligence quotient that I believe that you would tend to value more at this point in time in your life? Please elaborate Steph at your earliest convenience.
Dear Steph:
Also Steph when crafting you wonderful reply also discuss positions, with respect to size so we can get a true perspective on what pleasures a woman as well. Thank you.
they better be whispering sweet nothings in your ears.
you have your favorite flavor as does he. out of bounds.
He definitely didn't rate them as though they were his flavor! Just sayin, if their appearance wasn't to meet his expectations, and their performance wasn't anything to write home about, maybe they had to compensate, with some flattery. I can image, many of the ladies can pick up, rather quickly, how a guy is responding to her appearance and performance, and make an educated ballpark guess regarding the numbers she can expect to see in her reviews, so she may try to compensate, in certain ways, to salvage the situation.
he has 2 reviews. Maye its just new to him,we all start somewhere. Ice cream 1 older chick 1 late 20. give some slack and help,not offend as we need all the imput we can get?
I knopw I'm not huge but the initial statement [i]could[/i] have been a put down but I looked in her eyes & saw that it was not. She is petite. She said she perfers "medium" size. Big enough to have fun with, small enough for her to relax & enjoy.
skb
if you're a good fuck
she loved my cock so much that she wanted to make a mold of it so she could use it as her dildo :P (true)
I had no response but "ok?" lol
In my experience it has brought up a positive feeling when I've heard that, not because I think she was being honest but because she was honestly trying to make me feel well and comfortable (so long the attitude matches the choice of words; with the wrong attitude those words can be pure ice).
mean what I say. Not to brush anyone's ego, but to state a simple truth. You have a nice dick. There... I said it again, for all to read. Now we all know what I think (and it was my honest opinion).
But, if it made you feel good, then that's a plus. A compliment is a compliment. Just say "thank you"....and take it for what it was. I compliment people all the time, because I think it's a good practice, if it comes from my heart (or somewhere in the surrounding area!).
I don't do it for "ulterior motives", because it's not truthful. I like honesty.
So, there you have it.
She was emphatic that she did not and said that some were too big and went too deep with was not fun, some were pencil dicks that you could barely feel. She had an entire library of cock sizes and opinions. I was somewhat amused at the catalog of members sizes this woman had in her mind.
So was it real? Do I have a really nice cock or was it just pillow talk?
i had a provider once tell me i have a nice cock, i saw her a second time and she said she couldn't believe i was still single, and she would marry me just for my cock. im nothing special but since then i have had 2 providers tell me my cock has a large head, so who knows what the truth is.
if a provider ever tells me i have the biggest dick she has ever seen or that i last longer than anyone else i will know she is lying but to say i have a nice cock or a big head makes me feel good.
Women think the comment was genuine.
Men think it was disingenuous flattery.
My, my, my.
HalfHour
When was the last time you told a lady she has a nice vagina?
It reminds me of my car salesmen line: "this is the last car you will ever buy!"
and it seemed she did such a number on you that you believe it too!
-SF-
i've been told this a few times (civy/hobby).. i usually don't believe it though. i think my cock is a nice size, but not really big.
and I tend to take the compliment as matter of fact, and do believe the guy when he tells me that I have a tight pussy, it feels so good. It's really no different. Just believe it, and thank the person giving the compliment.
Mmmmmm, that feels so good.
I agree 100%. If I'm into the girl I'm with...I will tell her what's on my mind. " I love you the way you taste" 'Your pussy if so tight, it's driving me nuts" "I love the way you smell", "Your nipples are beautiful"....Whatever. If I chick/provider/GF is into me and she says something in the heat of the moment....take it and run with it. Let it make the experience better for you....Most guys love what I like to call "Fuck talk" or "Making love talk".......Party on!!!
it is hard to determine if you have a nice one or not. LOL. Every lady has a size that is "just right" for her. I like a medium length with some thickness. But a woman that truly knows her body can make any size work for her.
I'm not super big or anything, but for some reason I get those compliments a lot. I took it with a grain of salt, at least until the last provider I saw stopped taking my money but still kept telling me she loved my cock, LOL. Maybe the girls see a lot of deformed or half-limp cocks or something. I still have a hard time really accepting compliments when I'm paying. I'm sure some are genuine and some are not, I don't spend too much time thinking about it.
and some too small.
The really thin ones are more taxing because to come ourselves we have to rub all around to get the right spot itched.
The really big ones are ok, but if they think they just fuck with it then it is no fun at all. Again a rub thing comes into play because they are overshooting the area that is the best. There is a perfect size and it may vary per lady since we are all built differently.
Personally I adore one that actually hits and rubs my inner G rather then over shooting it. The variance isn't much but when the right one is in there I just can't stop myself, nor do I want to!
So yes, there are many sizes and we do enjoy some more then others. Doesn't mean we don't enjoy them all, but just some are a more perfect fit.
You might've answered your own question....a lot of ladies with say pretty much anything nice to a guy to boost his ego. BUT there's a hange it might've been really nice to her.
She was emphatic that she did not and said that some were too big and went too deep with was not fun, some were pencil dicks that you could barely feel. She had an entire library of cock sizes and opinions. I was somewhat amused at the catalog of members sizes this woman had in her mind.
So was it real? Do I have a really nice cock or was it just pillow talk?
It was wallet talk...
So, I guess unless you're the one who said it, you're just guessing, based on your own experiences and perspective. Not mine. But, thanks for trying to convince others that you know what I meant when stating something. That's almost psychic!
Simply my feelings on the original topic. I've had providers say the same to me. Sometimes I believed them and sometimes I didn't. In any event, since I know neither you or the OP there is really no reason for you to take it personally...