Went to go see a proivder, I've known for a lil while. Before making it to her in call I stopped at the bank. I took out a little extra, because I had to do some shopping, and I always wanted to give her a tip since she's so nice. I put her donation in my left pocket, and my personal cash into my right pocket.
When I made it to her in call, we met & talked like old friends, I reached into my left pocket placed the donation on the table, and we both continued talking, and having a good time. We then moved onto the mainevent. After we finish we started to clean up, she picked up the donation, and said "you still owe me $--.--.
Looking in her eyes' I could tell she started to get upset, so I said I must have missed counted, I picked up my pants, and the donation I had for her was actually in my right pocket. I explained to her the mistake, and she seem cool with, but had that look in her eyes. It did make for an uncomfortable situation.
My question ladies, and gents, how have you handle situation where it was an honest miscaluation in funds?
You made her cry. now I am mad. reel mad.
I don't carry my wallet with me ever when I go to see a proivder
my pocket book costs a lot more then a wallit and i can put lots of stuff in them even spare shoes. where to you put your id? Did you try to give her that to?
Guess what, I am not alone. Magic4u probity similar. When I see a lady the for first time all I have on me is her donation in an envelope (to make sure magic4u's mistake doesn't happen to me), my throw away phone (for emergency calls) $20, some condoms, a comb, breath mints, and my drivers licence. My wallet, real cell, emergency cash are in my car. Now after I get a feel for the lady, I everything I mentioned with me except my throw away phone, it stays home as it isn't needed.
I will usually segregate the donation from the rest of the money in my pocket, but I can't think of the last time I was so paranoid before seeing a lady to take a tenth of the precautions that you guys do.
I carry whatever I happen to be carrying when I go see a lady, I've been doing this for over thirty five years and I have never been rolled. Now I won't carry five grand into an incall, but short of that, I don't make a big deal out of it.
Now I just don't take more then I need to an appointment before I have a chance to get a read on said lady. Most providers are some what ethical, but just like some hobbyist some ladies are pure scum and will rob you blind if given the chance. Reviews are not fool proof, you can't really go to the cops, and you don't even have her real name. Your options are real limited if you get robbed.
So yes I am a bit paranoid. But it comes from experience. There is no review of the robber as it was a long time ago and before I heard of TER. The ladies aren't the only ones taking a risk.
If I feel condoms in there I know it's the correct pocket. Then I pull them out together in one smooth motion.
The point about the wallet is to keep other large bills from the bank in it to avoid confusion. The only cash left in another pocket would obviously not be the donation. Not that anyone would take his wallet into an appointment.
Make sure you put the cash in an white envelope. Always get in a habit otherwise you will make this mistake again.
Then put the left over in the your wallet. A good example lets say she charges $150/hour and you take out $200 (you are planning to give her a $10 tip). You keep $40 for yourself. Put the $160 in the white envelope right.
I like that, $10 tip, maybe I should do that more. She can't hardly do shit with a $10 tip bro. What she gonna buy with $10? If you tip a provider, it has to be at least a couple of singles. By which I mean, $1 dollar bills yo, give her like $3 dollars fool!!! j/k
No, if your gonna tip a provider, it has to be at least $20, or $40, $50 bill, if she blew you away, give her a $100 bill.
If you give a provider like $5 or $10, that's an insult to her and you. It exemplifies your SES (Social economic status), and that your a cheap ass. For her, it reinforce that she's a cheap hoe, deserving a $10 tip. If you tip, make sure you tip well, otherwise, don't tip at all IMO.
I wouldn't give a hooker a ten dollar tip in a third world fucking country, If you can't, or won't give her a REAL tip, just save the fucking money to put in the parking meter. Honestly, ten bucks???
and not again with the fucking white envelopes, I see we have another fucking rocket scientist on our hands.
PS, I am trying to catch up to MP67 in the use of the word fuck. lol
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the $10 tip or seeing a cheap-ass $150/hr hooker in the first place?
But then again, when you don't get charged you don't have to worry about that sort of thing.
Just sayin'...
With one of my current favorites.it was an honest mistake my first time seeing her(way to make a good first impression). She texted and called me like 3 times on my way home and I didn't hear my phone. I checked it when I got out of my car, it went "you shorted me" to "oh well" I called her right away and told her I would drive back and drop it off in a few minutes. She said ok and I ended up giving her an extra 40 for the inconvenience. She understood, and now we get along great and have had many a good times
I have done worse. I forgot the envelope completely once and realized it was still in my poacket half way. I called the provider and told her I forgot something and coming back. She wasn't concerned at all because she knew me quite well. Truth always works in every situation.
When I made it to her in call, we met & talked like old friends, I reached into my left pocket placed the donation on the table, and we both continued talking, and having a good time. We then moved onto the mainevent. After we finish we started to clean up, she picked up the donation, and said "you still owe me $--.--.
Looking in her eyes' I could tell she started to get upset, so I said I must have missed counted, I picked up my pants, and the donation I had for her was actually in my right pocket. I explained to her the mistake, and she seem cool with, but had that look in her eyes. It did make for an uncomfortable situation.
My question ladies, and gents, how have you handle situation where it was an honest miscaluation in funds?
I completely forgot to hand over the donation once when seeing a regualar and she had to ask at the end about it. I haven't forgotten since.
I always take care of that very first thing now.
As she walked me to the door, she sweetly whispered, "Aren't you forgeting something". I looked past her and saw the empty table....Shit. I dropped the envelope and reminded her that her dates are so good my mind loses all senses. It was then I knew I found my ATF.
Its somewhat embarrassing to forget to hand over the envelope and no matter how you explain that it was a honest mistake there still is that unspoken phrase "yeah, sure" hanging in the air.
As some have said, if you have a good relationship with the provider it should eliminate the disbelief.
Got home and emptied my pockets and there was the envelope full of cash. Called her right a way and explained. I made an arrangement with her to meet to give her her money. Gave her something extra for her trouble. It was very embarrassing.
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I did it with my first date with my ATF on our first date. She kept asking if I was nervous. Then she asked after the date if I had forgotten something? It didn't dawn on me until I got half-way home what she was talking about. I immediately called her and she told me to just bring it on our next date.
Thank you gorgeous.
I've done that as well. I was just driving out of the hotel parking lot and she called asking if I had forgotten something or laid something where she couldn't see it. She had basically attacked me upon entering the room and kept me in a bit of daze throughout the session. Heck, I was still in a bit of daze while driving off and at first didn't understand what she was talking about since she didn't come out and directly say it. Then it finally hit me what she meant. This was probably the third time I had seen her but I could tell from her voice she was a bit concerned. I apologized profusely and since she had time free I was able to just go back up to her room and give it to her. She was cool about it, I think she could tell from my reaction and nervousness and embarrassment when I came back up that it was an honest mistake.
When I made it to her in call, we met & talked like old friends, I reached into my left pocket placed the donation on the table, and we both continued talking, and having a good time. We then moved onto the mainevent. After we finish we started to clean up, she picked up the donation, and said "you still owe me $--.--.
Looking in her eyes' I could tell she started to get upset, so I said I must have missed counted, I picked up my pants, and the donation I had for her was actually in my right pocket. I explained to her the mistake, and she seem cool with, but had that look in her eyes. It did make for an uncomfortable situation.
My question ladies, and gents, how have you handle situation where it was an honest miscaluation in funds?
The region where I am the ATM(s) only give out 20's. I have never seen an ATM give 100s or 50s any where in the US.
but they are the exception, not the rule
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I don't use a white envolupe unless instructed to do so. I do count the correct amount, put a paper clip on it & put it in my key pocket. My own money goes in my wallet.
One meeting with a stunning lady there was not a obivious place to place it... we both fumbled but she asked me and we straightened it out. I guess I could have left it on the chair she had placed for my clothes. (I was a Newbie then... 
I'll one up you - once booked a weekend away with someone. She arrived at the hotel and we started a fantastic weekend together. On Saturday I mentioned we needed to hit a bank so I could put together the donation. She looked at me in horror and replied "sweetie it's Saturday - look at the time, all the banks are closed!". In denial I began to scramble around the City with her in tow only to discover that indeed I was SOL. In the end between two accounts and ATM limits i was able to scrape together 1/2 the required amount. Sitting in the hotel room with her counting out 20s put a real downer vibe on the afternoon. We finished out the weekend in total bliss and I met her for lunch the immediate Monday following and made her whole.
After that experience I never, ever walk into a situation without cash in hand, in an envelope! Even with ladies I've seen a dozen times, who I have a good friendship with, it's always the same - meet, greet, hug, kiss, envelope on the table and let the fun begin. The cure in your situation is to see her again, and never let it happen again - always have the envelope at hand and ready to go. She will, as my weekend tryst did, realize that was a one time fuck up and she'll forget about it.
i unintentionally shorted her because there was some confusion about the rate from the last time I saw her for that amount of time. I found out after the fact, she was upset about it.
I took care of it the next time we got together and since then it's water under the bridge.
She knows I'll take care of her and I know she'll take care of me.