For a provider to read a clients reviews, now not so much. I once had a "mature" provider initially decline to see me because she thought I was into a certain type i.e. thin, petite, young, fake tits, etc.. I am into that, but I am also into thick (not model thin), voluptuous, mature providers who provide good service. I talked her into giving me a chance and she did, we had a wonderful time and I have since seen her 2 or 3 additional times over the years. I would suggest reaching back out to her to plead your case (depending on how badly you really want to see her) although I don't know how you can persuade someone who thinks you're "gross" in a world where publicly the majority of people would say we are all gross. But to each his or her own I guess.
I give reasonably detailed reviews - enough to get the provider a 9 or 10. But for the first time I tried to book a provider (on TER with similar reviews) and she banned me as "I was gross" ????
But you also gave her the option to read yours, something you didn't have to do. She has every right to decide what is "gross" and what is not. Take it as a learning moment for you.
Once you give her your TER handle, this becomes a possibility. This is why some people review under an alias. I did have a girl once who said she worried I was more into PSE than her GFE but she only asked if maybe I should see someone else. I assured her we'd get along fine, and we did.
I reached out to a provider, I wanted to see, and she said after reading through some of my reviews she feel like a wouldn’t be the proper fit for her, I was like…what? but that’s life in the hobby.
I have been declined many appointments due to my board presence, reviews, good trolling [Yes, there is good trolling v/s bad trolling. think good trouble v/s just trouble...LOL]
It doesn't deter me one bit from writing reviews, posting or booking appointments with my TER handle.
You just graduated to the next level in mongering.. Congrats.
it's just what happens. Some provider's want nothing to do with clients who actively use TER and/or write reviews. It is what it is.
I'll admit that I will look over someone's reviews and/or whom they've seen previously. If I get the sense that I'm "out of the norm" for them, I won't decline them but I'll politely reach out requesting confirmation that 1) they genuinely want to meet me and 2) recognize that I am out of their documented preference (re: if they typically see slender women & not curvy and/or plus sized women). The responses are always overwhelmingly along the thread of, "yes I want to see you because you are different from my normal M.O."
For a provider to read a clients reviews, now not so much. I once had a "mature" provider initially decline to see me because she thought I was into a certain type i.e. thin, petite, young, fake tits, etc.. I am into that, but I am also into thick (not model thin), voluptuous, mature providers who provide good service. I talked her into giving me a chance and she did, we had a wonderful time and I have since seen her 2 or 3 additional times over the years. I would suggest reaching back out to her to plead your case (depending on how badly you really want to see her) although I don't know how you can persuade someone who thinks you're "gross" in a world where publicly the majority of people would say we are all gross. But to each his or her own I guess.
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