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You are intelligent and articulate.
You'll have a PM from me soon.
Meanwhile, to directly answer your question ...
No. I do not expect a discount for giving a provider oral.
Many many providers have posted that all of their "orgasms" are fake. This means that in many cases anyway, oral is simply something a provider tolerates for the pleasure of her client -- not herself.
In general, (I said generally, not in all cases) a woman is decided less likely to enjoy sex *at all* with any man who is not her chosen mate.
Even if her chosen mate looks like Quasimodo, sponges off of her to live and can't think his way out of a wet paper sack; as her chosen mate, he is infinitely more capable of bringing her sexual pleasure than a non-chosen client without regard to that client's virtues.
A woman's sexuality is complex and lies mainly between her ears. A third of women are anorgasmic anyway -- and I see no reason why that wouldn't apply equally to providers. Moreover, while many of the responses of the female orgasm have an autonomic aspect; those responses can be overridden by her conscious mind.
A client can be twice as handsome and otherwise super-attractive and do the exact same things to a provider that her chosen mate would do; and not produce orgasm simply because of her consciousness that he is a client -- at least in some cases.
So ... why in the world should a client expect a discount for giving you oral?
The answer then is "no" -- I would not expect a discount for giving oral. Any man making such a request has a serious misunderstanding of the female organism.
HOWEVER, because some "orgasms" (I'm not saying that ALL are fake -- some are indeed real.) are accompanied by really bad acting ... bad acting that I believe should be discouraged ... I believe that any woman who claims I have given her more than 10 orgasms in less than 3 minutes owes me $100 for every "orgasm" over the tenth.
I know this topic has probably been done to death. In fact, I just spoke on this a few days ago. But I just had two people contact me about discounts in the past 15 minutes and it really irritated me.
I guess the new thing now is to offer to give the provider oral in exchange for a discount.
As much as I love to give oral, receiving oral has never been at the top of my turn ons, probably because I love penetration so much 
But even if I did really enjoy oral, I don't see why I should give you a discount for it. Maybe back in the day this would have been exciting for some females, but now there are so many men and women that give oral that it is no longer hard to find a way to satisfy that urge.
So excuse me if I didn't jump out of my panties (if I was wearing any, lol) at your offer to give me oral.
My enjoyment of the session has no effect on the donation. Whether I had a miserable time or one of the best times of my life, the rate will be the same.
I just wanted peoples thoughts on this. Hobbyists: do you think you deserve a discount in exchange for "gratifying" the provider in any way. I know that most hobbyists don't expect this, but I wanted to know your thoughts.
Prviders: do your ever offer discounts for this reason? I just wanted to know if it was just me or is this an acceptable practice.
Thanks
Luckily no one has ever given me $100 bill and asked for change back
I used to not do 15 minute sessions, but I had a few people suggest that I do them (not hobbyists but other providers in the Atlanta area)
I do believe my rates are too low, especially for the amount of effort I put into my sessions, but I am also realistic. I'm a new face (became a provider in February but actually really started taking a lot of calls in May). In Atlanta, it's very competitive so I looked at a lot of other providers and tried to lower mine a bit.
That's why I get really pissed off. You're already getting a really good deal and you still want to haggle with me. Once I receive a text or email that is asking for a discount, I immediately block that person from contacting me.
I know it may be a little extreme, but by that point I am so turned off with that person that I don't want to see them. Period.
I just looked at your CV website. You're already offering 30 for $100.00. From the pics on your website, you're more than worth it. If you lived in vegas, with those prices, I'd be seeing you once a week.
As far as the pics go, I think you'd do better with less outside ones. It might make guys think you do, or have done, streetwalking. A few of you in a tub fillied with bubbles or sprawled out on some satin sheets would look awesome.
Any discount for this advice?
you have so few choices of those to give you oral pleasure
And, times are really, really tough for me
And, we're experiencing a flair up of solar storms which have driven me temporarily crazy.
I think that about covers it.
Could it be that you are looking for attention here on this board.
For someone who offers 15 minute sessions and change for large bills, it could be possible I guess. rofl
You are intelligent and articulate.
You'll have a PM from me soon.
Meanwhile, to directly answer your question ...
No. I do not expect a discount for giving a provider oral.
Many many providers have posted that all of their "orgasms" are fake. This means that in many cases anyway, oral is simply something a provider tolerates for the pleasure of her client -- not herself.
In general, (I said generally, not in all cases) a woman is decided less likely to enjoy sex *at all* with any man who is not her chosen mate.
Even if her chosen mate looks like Quasimodo, sponges off of her to live and can't think his way out of a wet paper sack; as her chosen mate, he is infinitely more capable of bringing her sexual pleasure than a non-chosen client without regard to that client's virtues.
A woman's sexuality is complex and lies mainly between her ears. A third of women are anorgasmic anyway -- and I see no reason why that wouldn't apply equally to providers. Moreover, while many of the responses of the female orgasm have an autonomic aspect; those responses can be overridden by her conscious mind.
A client can be twice as handsome and otherwise super-attractive and do the exact same things to a provider that her chosen mate would do; and not produce orgasm simply because of her consciousness that he is a client -- at least in some cases.
So ... why in the world should a client expect a discount for giving you oral?
The answer then is "no" -- I would not expect a discount for giving oral. Any man making such a request has a serious misunderstanding of the female organism.
HOWEVER, because some "orgasms" (I'm not saying that ALL are fake -- some are indeed real.) are accompanied by really bad acting ... bad acting that I believe should be discouraged ... I believe that any woman who claims I have given her more than 10 orgasms in less than 3 minutes owes me $100 for every "orgasm" over the tenth.
that there are some men who think they are doing a provider a favor by DATY when in reality, most providers just go along with it and certainly don't Need another guy DATY on any given day. But there are clients out there that are pretty delusional about a lot of aspects of their experience. It's the illusion that contributes to the pleasure of the experience. Unfortunately, a good provider doing a good job sometimes only makes that man's delusions worse and then he acts inappropriately, forgetting that this was a service and the point of the service was to give him satisfaction and make him feel like one hell of a lover.
But under no circumstances should the provider feel she should get less money for doing one of the acts that this client wants. That's ridiculous. So Cynamon, don't let it get to you. Stand your ground. You are who you are, and all men have different things they are attracted to. Some want to see "highly educated" or "older and well travelled", or "feisty and street smart". Some men want the "student" fantasy, but when it comes to business, a deal is a deal is a deal. Stand your ground.
And yes, it is the lower end clients that try this stuff. Unfortunately, in this economy there is a lot of gray area. There are men who can only afford 200 trying to see $500 ladies and trying to do it by being manipulative and sneaky. These are just tactics and ploys they are using to try and get over. Delete, Delete, Delete.
Hang in there and don't let the strong and differing opinions upset you. People here have had a very broad range of differing experiences that has shaded the way they see things. These are valid from their perspective but don't work from yours.