iDK what to do.

you are willing to spend, the easier the relationship that leads to sex goes.  Take $$ out of the equation and while not impossible, it is more difficult, the exceptions!  

While in school, you are judged by the opposite sex as how successful you are likelyto be in later life so in that instance it is not how much money you spend it is how much money you are likely to have (goes for men and women).  With women though there is also the how can she enable my success factor.

then there is also when young - the bodacious bod factor!!