I was having a session with a lady that I have seen many times and the condom broke. This is the ONLY time this has happened to me.  I wasn't aware that the condom was broken until she asked me to stop and check. Sure enough, my knob was bare.  Now I know what bareback feels like with the provider.  Neither one of us got upset about the situation.  She just asked me to change the condom and we continued to have fun.  I was wondering if this is common and how do other providers or clients respond when this happened to them?  Would your response be different if you had only had sex with the person for the first time as oppose to having shagged the person many times? I was also wondering how common it is for providers to get pregnant by clients?  Hold the turkey baster jokes.Lol

It happened to me when I first began providing.  Pregnancy has never been an issue for me, so that was not a concern...contracting an STD/STI, was.  I had appointments booked for the following week, and I cancelled them.  I waited a week to give the 'possible cooties' time to grow, and then I went to my doctor and had STD tests.  Thank goodness, they were negative.  I wanted to wait at least 6 weeks, to be tested for STI's before risking infecting anyone...so, I took a 2 month hiatus.  Thank God, I had no STD's or STI's, and so then I felt comfortable booking appointments again.  

FYI: I always require a condom (standard type, or a female condom) during FS, but I was concerned I might give someone an infection during uncovered DATY, if I had contracted an STD/STI.  Maybe I'm overly cautious, but my client/friend's safety is paramount to me!

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are you saying that you use a female condom ... that's what I take  
"I always wear a condom during FS" to mean. If so, how many guys prefer wearing a condom more? None, some, most ...

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those nipples at least until I have a chance to adore them ... xo

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Which is one of the reasons that birth control (and STD protection) with condoms is not 100%.    It has happened to me once with a provider.  I figured it out nearly immediately - we had just really gotten started and all of the sudden - it just felt WAYYYY too good.  Impossible for me to imagine that you could have a break and not notice it.

Stopped immediately - installed a new cover and finished up....  I wasn't worried about pregnancy because I was fixed a while back.... but the STD thing is a real issue.

Bottom Line with this - if you don't want more children - depend upon something else AS WELL AS condoms.   If you are a hobbyist - consider a vasectomy if you are finished with having children and are not interested in becoming someone's permanent meal ticket.....  

I happen to know a gentleman who managed to become a surprise daddy; mommy was a stripper.  And now mommy doesn't have to work anymore.... and mommy has no interest in daddy any more.   Daddy figured out that mommy is going to cost him well over a million dollars...  That arrangement started out as "sugar daddy" type of thing.

I hear ya!  I really didn't noticed that the condom was broken.  It was a bit funny because I told her right away that my plumbing was fixed and I was shooting blanks.Lol  It was funny because it seemed like she was disappointed when I told her that no bullets were coming from my gun.  Some providers have told me stories about how some of the guys they have seen have placed holes in the condoms on purpose to have bareback sex.  I guess this is why some ladies prefer to place the condom on themselves and use their own condoms.

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I mean, it shouldn't happen regularly. If it is, your condoms are probably not being stored in correct conditions. It was most  likely due to friction from lack of lubrication.  

Once the condom breaks, there isn't much to do at that point but change to a fresh one. I'd recommend getting tested as soon as possible though, just to be on the safe side, whether it was your first meeting with the provider, or the hundredth.  

Any responsible provider should be on birth control, no exceptions.

Who wouldn't get checked after doing these deeds.  I hope the providers and their clients get checked regularly.  I was checked and everything was roses.  Don't know if she did the same.

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there is a high risk of catching an STD while hobbying. keep that in mind.

be careful, get tested as often as possible and if you catch something get treated before you see anyone else.