What is the best way to handle the donation for a dinner date? Wait until we get back to the room, or how do the providers respond to that?  
 I have heard bad stories about giving the donation out prior to being in the room. Providers heading for the exit after receiving the donation.

Seriously, when has anyone heard of a well-reviewed provider doing a dine and dash?

My best advice is to use someone who is verified and has good reviews so you know she's legit. It's very important that she receive your donation upfront so she doesn't spend the whole date wondering if you're sincere.

Personally, I like to receive the donation at the start of dinner. Put it in a nice card or gift bag and just exchange that way. Nothin weird about that. Plus, any provider worth her salt won't run on you after you've given her the donation!

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Reminds me of a blond with a fat ass I saw last week, working the drive thru.

What do you do if you get burned on a diner date, provided the meal was paid for?

That's why you're FATvern.....

If you're willing to do incall, grab some carry out and head to her place. Also, there are some ladies that offer dinner at their place, on them I offer dinner and it not only saves more time for play but it's really easy. No to and from the restaurant and I highly doubt she'll haul ass out of her own place lol it really only takes a cab ride or uber if you're not in your home city or you don't have a car with you.  
Hope this helps  
XOXO,  
TL

..."Thought you might enjoy reading this when you have time." Of course, I only date providers who know how to read. Lol

Not the sort of person I'd want an ongoing thing with.

I love this idea, I'd love if someone gave me a good book to read!

Not a question of getting lucky or a reduced rate (except the usual multiple hour rate), it's just nice to get acquainted with her (or catch up, depending), and look forward to what's in store.

yesterday's dinner-concert date was cancelled due to a brief stay in the hospital. Plan on revisiting soon as soon as tomorrow night.  

I guess I'd prefer to have the donation before playtime begins. Whether that's before dinner, or when we first arrive behind closed doors, doesn't matter to me. But if I've screened you, and feel comfortable with you, the donation shouldn't be an issue. (There was one recent exception - I got a bad vibe. Also when I worked w/an agency, I always wanted the donation upfront unless I was told he was a regular client, or something. Because those were people I didn't know and some of them hadn't been screened well, or even at all.)

We went to dinner before playtime so I usually just meet upstairs drop off my bag envelope is usually somewhere visible.
Or if meeting at the restaurant first I wait until we are back in the room.
I have gotten my donation many times upfront before dinner.
Never headed to the exit stick with well-reviewed providers and that should not be an issue.
I have also had a gent give me a very small gift bag at dinner with the donation.
Or have dinner after playtime then no worries about the envelope

1-2 hour dinner date. paid in a greeting card. I love those!

a book or a card or some little gift that can easily contain bills.  not a big problem.

...and make her flip through 1,200 pages looking for the donation.

I always invite the provider to my room first where we can take care of the donation and if she brought a bag with her supplies, she could drop them off and not have to carry them to the restaurant.  Then we either head out to dinner or we have each other for appetizers first ...which often happens. LOL

never do a dinner date on the first session.  Most rip-offs like you describe are first-date experiences.  Once you know the provider is legit and will go through with the session as advertised, there are little worries about her "heading for the exit" after getting the money.

I'm always starving hungry after a wonderful session with a beautiful lady. So I've taken a few of the ladies to dinner afterwards. It's always been so comfortable and being able to enjoy the company after being sexually satisfied takes the pressure off both of us.  
Besides, sexual play on a full stomach is nowhere near as much fun for me.  
Just my preference.