Just out of curiosity, how long did it take you to find your ATF provider?

I don't really believe in it the way reviewers and most board posters describe it. For me, that status is always a happy surprise. Like: "Wow, not only is our chemistry awesome, and her rate reasonable, but I'd prefer to see her than roll the dice on another 9/9 or 9/10 I've never met. Plus: OTC!" That's the thing, with me. There is no ATF w/o OTC. But I never say that or ask for it or do a sneaky lazy stay over. If the chemo is right the OTC will follow. So it's all highly conditional and always a surprise. Nothing to be expected or expressly sought.  

I do have favorites, even hookers that have become serious girl friends, but I still don't ever call any of them an ATF.

It took me about 3 months. My last gal had moved out of state. So I had to find another playmate ASAP. I had a list of 5 gals that I was interested in seeing. My current gal was at the top of my list. She was so great that I never did see the other 4. Even today she's still great and I see her on a regular basis once a week.

... and another few months before I realized she was exactly the kind of provider I'd been looking for. But part of that delay was because I was working out of town 100 hours a week for a couple of months so I couldn't get back to see her.

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at the auto parts store and I'm set.

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Ha ha, you are a manly man!

Was with Sexy Toni, a well regarded lady back in 2004 who toured in NYC who has since become legendary.  In fact, I saw her tonight...see my posts on the NY board.  She is special to me, as are Piper, Chloe Wilde, and a few other other ladies whose friendships have endured, and a few not.  

Ok I think I need some clarification.  To what extent is an ATF above and beyond a "regular?"
I knew right during our first session  that my main regular had something special about her.  She isn't a higher-priced provider at all but we clicked right from the start.  She knew what I liked and how to do it without even asking me.  By our third visit she was practically finishing my sentences.

ATF = is a provider you have seen more then once because you both had great chemistry and had great sex. When you see one person over and over in this business, ATF turns into All Time Farce!

I don't think you can seek it out or look for it. It just happens.  And I think when it does happen, it's pretty apparent from the first moment.

You contact the ladies that spark your interest hoping for the best, and every once in awhile, something happens, and the two of you really click. It's random. It can't be predicted. There's a personality component to it, and there's a sexual component to it. It knows no bounds. It can happen with any race, culture, and age. It always happens when you least expect it. It's a beautiful thing.

...I like variety. There have been a few providers that I have seen more than once, but usually I always like to try someone new.  
However....there was a recent playdate that might have me thinking differently

Of course to me ATF= Asian To Fuck.

encounter....I fell in love (lol) immediately.  The halo effect of this girl lasted weeks!!!  At that time-way back in '07 I think-she was with an agency in Charleston.  I wrote her a review for her agency and gave her a tag line for her dates, that she still uses today.  Then she disappeared and I just saw random visitors to my area.  Then I had to quit for a while-going through a divorce-but once it was over, I found her again.  YAY!!!!  I now see her as regularly as I can.  She lives several hours away and seldom works in the area. When I can, I meet her half-way, or we have an overnight at my home or hers.  Don't get me wrong, I've had some really really good experiences with some really hot women, but this one has a spell on me.  What can I say?  

for me, the ATF is the ONE that if you could, you would be with all the time...sex or no sex...she puts something on you Mr Clean can't take off. All these girls leave you with an afterglow-a halo effect if you will-that dissipates after a day or so.  Not hers--it lasts and lasts.  She's the one that drifts into your mind when you are sitting at the beach chilling and enjoying the day, and you think...you know, I bet X would enjoy this.  
I usually have a regular, but not the same as my ATF.  My regular right now is one damn hot sexy fuck that is really really good at what she does and really seems to enjoy it.  Unfortunately (sniff) she is leaving the area in a couple of months and it will be frog kissing time again until I find another.

The very first time I tried this, I didn't know what I was doing, of course, and got hung up on 3 times.  The 4th call worked, and I met my my wonderful ATF.  How many hit the jackpot like that on their first time?