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Live by the golden rule, BE RESPECTFUL, ask for consent even for a handshake. Don't stare or laugh or talk loudly during someone's scene.  

Take a shower, smell nice but not ober powering. Fast if possible, do not eat spicy or gassy foods. Do not expect to play, just be ok with observing. Anytime I have ever invited a single male to play, I invited them and they were not pushy or overbearing at all. That shit does not fly. Stay as clean shaven as possible. I think these are some good bullet points for you to start on.  

Ps- don't get drunk. Be sober so no lines are crossed.

I just got invited to one and never been to one. What are some things I should expect? Since I'm new and they don't know me should I expect to be the weird kid in school and left alone? How is someone of interest approached? Any hits and advice would be greatly welcome. Thank you in advance

on such little information.  Let me ask you . . . . .  Is there an admission charge?  Do you personally know the people sponsoring the event?  Do you have any personal friends that have been to one before hosted by the same sponsor(s)?  Is it in a location in a good part of town?  Do you have to bring a female?  What kind of screening was attached to the "invite?"  Will there be a mix of civvies and providers there, or just one or the other?  Will it be in a private residence or a commercial building or hotel? How many are expected to attend?  If you can answer these, you will likely hear the good, the bad and/or the ugly about what to expect.  Otherwise, we can only speculate what kind of situation you are walking into.

Yes to admission cost. Do not know any of them besides the person who invited me. Good part of town and invited by female friend. I have no idea what types of people will be there. I want to thank you for asking these questions. I'll surely use it next time I talk to her.

generally have an overwhelming ratio of men to women, and the women are either pro's that are going to be charging for their services or ugly civvie women that can't get a date in real life.  If they charge an admission AND admission is by couples only, you will have a reasonably good chance of fucking someone decent.  If you get there and the girl you brought is the best looking in the room, chances are SHE will have plenty of options, but the women other guys brought may not be nearly up to your standard, even for a quasi-free fuck.  

 
I don't go to these because when I did over 10 years ago, they turned out to be a total scam and waste of my time, mostly "Delta Mu" sorority girls or 100 guys and ten girls.  One of my friends who is bi-sexual still goes to these because if there aren't enough hot women to go around, he will proposition a hot male.  If you can't get a guarantee that there will be about the same number of women as men, you may find yourself in the same boat.   It's like a pot luck dinner.  There may be plenty of stuff to pick from, but most if it looks so bad you don't want to try it.  

 
With that said, if they have photos of previous events they have put on that shows that the women are not all cows, it might be worth a try, those are going to be few and far between.  Most successful sex parties are couples only.  I have gone to some of these with a FWB girl I hook up with from time to time, and they can be quite enjoyable.  Usually in a private residence, and there may be an admission charge to cover food and alcohol.  

 
The other questions I asked all go to separating a legit event from a scam.  Get as many answered as you can by someone you trust before you sign on.  That's my advice.

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It's actually a question you need to ask the organizers of the party not us. A party such as this can take several forms.. It all depends on how folks want to organize it..

 
I have been invited to one, but didn't go as I feel sick.

Live by the golden rule, BE RESPECTFUL, ask for consent even for a handshake. Don't stare or laugh or talk loudly during someone's scene.  

Take a shower, smell nice but not ober powering. Fast if possible, do not eat spicy or gassy foods. Do not expect to play, just be ok with observing. Anytime I have ever invited a single male to play, I invited them and they were not pushy or overbearing at all. That shit does not fly. Stay as clean shaven as possible. I think these are some good bullet points for you to start on.  

Ps- don't get drunk. Be sober so no lines are crossed.

Very helpful. Thank you for your contribution and sharing your experience. That is all I was asking.

Even if you see something sexual happening, wait to be "invited to participate" since you are a 1st time guest.

And no cell phone pics or videos without them knowing...lol

It was the best night of my life.. probably 13 or 14 providers to 11 or 12 guys. Buffet food. Open bar. In a huge hotel suite. Living room kitchen.. 2 bedrooms.. 2 bathrooms.. a library. I was sooo nervous.. had a drink.. talked.. a gorgeous provider suggested we retreat to.the library .. then we  all had bathrobes.. had a great  time with her.. living  room.. BBBJ while I had a drink.. Group room.. had sex with 3 others.. watched a lot of sex.  Jumped in on a gangbang. Then once again in the library with a porn star.. $1000.. Best money I ever spent.. fantastic

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