Guys - do you talk dirty ? Do you ask first ? Or do you just start ?

Ladies - do you talk dirty with your clients ? Do you ask first ?

I do not have it

Sometimes the session heats up and it's just raw fucking and sex.  Other times, it's more intimate and more like making love.

"Fuck my dirty asshole" is not something I'd hear or expect to  hear in the latter.  

Amber,

Sometimes she goes first, sometimes I go first... it really doesn't matter to me.

I just go with the flow of the session. I don't keep a running count of who goes first or second. It's NOT important to me.

sunrosc

on how much dirty talk there is. Sometimes its just a few naughty words that make the moment just right. But, other times you just want to make sure every word goes along with every pleasure. Also, as I say it its just as hot to have my partner talk dirty to me!

xoxo

Maybe a "Oooo your cock feels so good" or something. But I'm not into all the "Fuck me! Harder! Harder!" stuff.

Just me.

What a man wants?
1) A Lady in public
2) A Whore in the bedroom
3) a Chef in the kitchen

And actually #3 is not that important

thats the truth..some will talk dirty from start to finish..some will when the moment dictates..some never will..to me there is nothing more erotic than to hear your partner tell you how it feels or telling you what to do to please her..intimacy and passion should be expressed..never bottled up..

Posted By: rachelriley

I do not have it

hahaha I'm embracing my inner slut as well!

I don't have it all the way yet but I have been practicing & my clients love it so far. They say that my southern accent is sexy!

Saying how it feels etc is fine...I was thinking that talking dirty was that kind of really hardcore type porn stuff. That I can't do if my life depended on it..I would laugh at myself.

KMSL you crack me up!

I can be awkward sometimes , always hornt but not always as suave as i d hope to be. I noticed if i do talk dirty its always toward end of session, must take me that long to get reeady to talk super nasty, If i do too its with out a doubt stuff that turns ME on, Which is talkn really derogitory, about myself. actually! I never have started out n been like hey I wanna be your filthy cum slut in first % mins appt, if the spirit moves me n I am super hot then toward end appt I START LETTN THINGS LIKE THAT PROBLY  most guys be afraid to say theyd prob get s;apped , i start randomly sayn some pretty wrong things. the dirtier n more wrong n more derogatory the better. if n when I talk dirty n I do it to get myself goin not them, ..............No I never ask. I have never once asked. I will sometimes ask them to call me some names while spankn me hardn i think i have seen alot of hesitation, Its usually along lines of call me your filthy little personal cum dumpster. If I am in a mood to talk dirty at all......Its gonna be really derogatory , almost humiliation based comments I will ask to be said to me, Hmm we all have different things that make us click right? When i have asked I can tell some guys or clients have been hesitant but when they do start sayin it i can feel thier dicks get bigger. so i guess they like seein me get turned on more, and i think alot guys like being dominant n dont even know it yet til some dirty little whore makes them do it,

I just wanted to hear a man's perspective darling. I'm trying to become a Hoefessional lol

Saturn,
That's what I thought too.  
I think macdaddy is confused

But, it has to flow naturally. It doesn't just happen. I have to "feel" it, sort of like a primal urge. When the kitty in me gets the urge to purr, I tend to become... verbally colorful.

I don't talk dirty with the ladies, unless they start. But it is only hot, if it is in the heat of the moment and genuine (OK, I know this whole thing is a fantasy, but at least make me think it is genuine) and if the timing is right. If she says shit like, "Fuck me with your big hard cock, you stud," I know that is full of shit, and it does not turn me on.

On the other hand, a very simple dirty word or phrase at the right time from the right person, can be very sexy to me. For example, One time I was with a young college gal, (provider) girl next door type. We were having a very sensual session. Massage, lots of kissing, cuddling, small talk but no dirty talk. some DATY, then she was giving me one of the most awesome bbbjs and she pulled off, looked at me with her pretty eyes and said "Wanna Fuck?" For some reason just something about the way those words came out of that mouth was just uber hot to me! Most people probably wouldn't even consider that dirty talk.

Amber,

'Hoefessional'? cute play with words, I kind of like it, too. Maybe you're the first one to create a new name for professional providers.

Like I said in my post, it doesn't matter to me either way. I've had sessions that go from one extreme to the other.

Either verbally or non-verbally, as long the provider is enjoying herself , that's all it matters to me.

sunrosc

Perfect,

Regarding the 2nd paragraph...

Yep, I've had a few providers that said the same thing after the sensual session... one said to me, "Put your cock inside me"... she said with a purring sensual voice (not the loud obnoxious porn star voice)... wow, that was perfect timing when she said that.

Sometimes talking dirty in the right sensual way can add a great mood to the session.

sunrosc

I' ve seen providers who appear to have taken a vow of silence. I've seen others who appear to be auditioning for a gonzo video.  I remember a well-reviewed and high fee provider who got so ahead of herself with the dirty talk that she forgot where she was: "Oh yeah fuck my tight sweet tits!"  Tight "tits"? I was banging her doggie at the time but apparently she got her script lines mixed up.  Just do what works for you ladies--the less it feels like acting the more you and your companion will appreciate it.

is beside the point; the words that turn me on are those that involve the lips and tongue a lot. Harsh, spitting words may be dirty but they're just plain coarse.

able to do that on cue. I am not a porn star or an actress, so if what you're doing does NOT feel good, you will know lol. Other than, "I am about to cum, oh, like that, or fk me," I am not into the fake, dirty talk and I can't do it on the spot. That's about as stupid as asking someone to smile, when they are pissed off or asking them to sing in their best voice after a night of drinking and yelling.

I do.  And enjoy it both ways as long as it is natural and not forced.

I don't want to hear someone reading from a script.  If it's in your nature to talk dirty, fabulous, but don't force it.