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micktoz 43 Reviews 545 reads
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.... knowing that she is an escort means that the man in the seat opposite her, on another night  really could be me. If it was two civies, it's not happening for me and I am just envious.
It changes it from thinking what a lucky bastard the guy is to, what a lucky bastard and I want that too.  

Such a different view of a man and his date. Just like when I read a review of a lady that I see and enjoy, I insert myself in and decide if I want that too.

Thanks for the thread.
Posted By: ttcttc
I was in a bar in DC and was seated so that I was looking directly at another table, which much to my surprise had an escort who is visiting town right now and an older gentlemen. I recognized the escort's face -- gorgeous, young, lithe, AA woman.  Wearing a very flirty dress.  Playing the perfect partner -- all eyes on him, smiling, touching his arm, occasionally touching his shin with her amazing heels.  It was tremendous fun and of course I was trying not to be obvious but probably was all too obvious.  Hard to imagine that time with her would not be incredible.    
   
 Just sharing, no real point, except that it was incredibly fun to watch.  

ttcttc2889 reads

I was in a bar in DC and was seated so that I was looking directly at another table, which much to my surprise had an escort who is visiting town right now and an older gentlemen. I recognized the escort's face -- gorgeous, young, lithe, AA woman.  Wearing a very flirty dress.  Playing the perfect partner -- all eyes on him, smiling, touching his arm, occasionally touching his shin with her amazing heels.  It was tremendous fun and of course I was trying not to be obvious but probably was all too obvious.  Hard to imagine that time with her would not be incredible.  

Just sharing, no real point, except that it was incredibly fun to watch.

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Skyfyre646 reads

For his sake I would hope the older gentleman:

1)  is single and free
2)  is not a politician
3)  is not a priest, an educator, a judge or any other morality-based profession

Just my 2 cents no real point either :

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NoYellowEnvelope646 reads

... that being on a date with an escort is immoral.  Thus a college professor, for example, who might be single or widowed and is simply seeking female companionship, is immoral if his companion of choice is an escort.  

Posted By: Skyfyre
For his sake I would hope the older gentleman:  
   
 1)  is single and free  
 2)  is not a politician  
 3)  is not a priest, an educator, a judge or any other morality-based profession  
   
 Just my 2 cents no real point either :D  
 

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sympathyforthedevil545 reads

No. Just out of Americans puritanical  bounds.

Posted By: NoYellowEnvelope
... that being on a date with an escort is immoral.  Thus a college professor, for example, who might be single or widowed and is simply seeking female companionship, is immoral if his companion of choice is an escort.  
   
Posted By: Skyfyre
For his sake I would hope the older gentleman:  
     
  1)  is single and free  
  2)  is not a politician  
  3)  is not a priest, an educator, a judge or any other morality-based profession  
     
  Just my 2 cents no real point either :D  
 

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NorahLucille541 reads

Always wonder if my dinner dates look obvious. Would you have thought anything of it if you didn't recognize her?

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mrfisher489 reads

one time my dinner date complained that some crone was giving us the stink-eye while we dined out at a fancy place.  I decided to give her something to really stink-eye about and shameless pawed and ogled my date to make sure she had a wonderful dining experience

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MasterZen419 reads

of the prurient whenever an older man and younger woman (or vice-versa) appear in public as an "involved" couple - especially here in the good 'ol conservative USA. But curiosity isn't of itself a giveaway of the nature of the relationship. It is the "fit" of the couple that really matters... is the conversation smooth and are both interested in what the other is saying, or is conversation stilted and attention drifting?  

I've done many, many dinner dates and find we attract the least attention when we are relaxed together, conversation flows smoothly back and forth and we let the rest of the world in our little restaurant venue fade into the background. Conversely, I've picked out some truly awkward-together May-December couples and gotten the "Provider date" vibe from them.  

Just my 0.02.

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GaGambler481 reads

We were at an Italian restaurant that we went to quite often and a couple of tables over from us were "one of those couples" that just look out of place. Him, over 60 and white. Her late twenties, black and pretty hot. They as you say were quite "involved" and I have to say it was pretty obvious they were a hooker/john couple.

My GF kept going on about how "inappropriate" they were and I had to remind her that she was thirty years younger than me to which she responded "we're DIFFERENT" "We look like we belong together because we do" I didn't have a comeback, except to say "yes dear" lol

but you, and her were absolutely correct, some couples look like they are a "real" couple despite major differences in age, and others just scream hooker/john by contrast.

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jaydalee502 reads

I have been on many dinner dates here in Vegas throughout the years and sometimes people glance and then go back to what they are doing.But there has been a few cases where I see people out right staring as I walk by with my date or as we are being seated.
To the point where the fork is in midair they keep staring and can't even focus on their own table.lol
I am not dressed inappropriately for where I am dining but I think the age difference and many of the gents I see are older and white.
We usually laugh and joke about it...c'mon it is Vegas.
Let them look...that's what I say:)
To the OP I am sure it happens quite often especially if a provider shows her face and has striking features

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GaGambler495 reads

It's funny, there is a restaurant/bar in Dallas I go to quite often where I started noticing a LOT of middle aged white guys who were obviously on "first dates" with young black women. You could tell by the body language they weren't actual couples, but they didn't give off the hooker/john dynamic either.

A drinking buddy and me started paying attention after seeing the first couple that kind of caught our eye and we saw it time after time. I am thinking the place had gotten a good reputation for either SD/SBs to go to on first dates or maybe some kind of interracial dating site as we saw 50 year old white guys with 25 year old black girls who were obviously on first dates for it to be simply coincidence.

I don't mind at all when it happens to me. I much prefer it when my date is so hot that women hate her and guys drool over her. lol

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AdinaAndrews543 reads

I have received those stares quite often, as I have often dated older, white gentlemen. Not only in the business as 'dates', but also in real life. I imagine sometimes people may have viewed us as hooker/john just because we were not comfortable together, or didn't 'match'. But I have also been on dates with clients where we just have an amazing chemistry, so we could come off as a real couple. This day and age, it is so hard to tell, I think.  
Interracial relationships are becoming so common, how do you know if it is just an awkward first date, or if it is an arranged and paid for 'date'?

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GaGambler358 reads

I already said "I didn't know" I "speculated" that it was most likely either an SD/SB first date, or a dating site that specialized in interracial dating. This didn't happen once or twice, we noticed it a good dozen time over a couple of month period.  

Once or twice I would have chalked up to an "awkward" first date, after a dozen or more times, Same pattern over and over, a well over forty white guy with a 20 something black girl who obviously had no familiarity, SOMETHING was up. I still don't know for sure as I didn't go ask them. lol I am pretty sure they were NOT hooker/john dates. They just gave off the wrong vibe as most hookers are pretty good at getting past that "awkward" stage rather quickly

It is funny, I have an 18 year old sugar baby right now who is black, (I am 57) and we go out in public all the time, so far no strange looks or comments, the only thing close was when we went to get "pedis" together, the Vietnamese woman asked if we were BF/GF, at 57 that was GREAT for my ego. lol

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AdinaAndrews365 reads

I was basically agreeing with your assessment from your previous post.

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JakeFromStateFarm361 reads

I've been out with lots of gorgeous young women in various public places, mostly restaurants, and we get lots of stares but almost all of them are at her, not me.  Unless it's a quick glance with the presumed thought: "What's she doing with HIM? Oh, yeah, he's a sugar daddy or a whoremonger for sure."
In my case, all the women were white, though one was half Chinese.  I've been with more than a few AA girls but for no particular reason haven't gone to dinner with them.  I'm sure it will happen eventually, but my point is I don't think the stares have anything to do with the ethnicity of my companions.

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GaGambler393 reads

If the two people are of the same race, some people will assume they are related.  

When it's an interracial couple, that is less likely.

but yeah, I pretty much agree with you that it's the hot women that get the stares and not the ethnicity.

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BrooklynKallway268 reads

Yup! 😉

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GaGambler410 reads

and they are looking at him in disgust because he's supposed to be stuck with someone like her and he represents one of the few men who "got away" and are able to see a young hot woman of any color and it drives those old bats crazy.

I suppose Old black women do the same when it's a old black man with a young hottie of any color as well

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mrfisher467 reads

An older AA guy (looking a bit scuzzy and probably drunk) came up to me and asked me what the hell I was doing with "his" woman.

I turned to my escort and said:  "Why'd you never tell me that you were his woman?"

She broke down laughing and the guy, probably confused a bit, took off

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BrooklynKallway405 reads

I couldn't have handled it better lol too funny!

Xo

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BrooklynKallway408 reads

Truth!

The green monster 👾

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stucaboy484 reads

instead of just walking, hold your AA gals hand.

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GaGambler253 reads

instead of walking with your arm around her waist, let your hand drop down a bit until you are holding her ass. lol

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Duplicitouslust267 reads

Jaydalee, just wondering if when you go out with someone of a different race and a pronounced age difference has anyone accused you of being an escort? Also have you seen anyone you knew while you were out and have they commented on how smooth that you were performing during the course of your interaction with your older male counterpart?  
  The reason that I was inquiring is because of the looks and the non verbal communication that transpires when you are out in public with these men.  Also the questions that they have in their mind's about how you met and how long you have been seeing each other. Also I am thinking that they are looking at you because I am sure that you are the princess of sartorial splendor when you do go to certain venues , as well as the fact that you are an extremely good looking woman as well.  Also I know you might get certain looks when you are in town in terms of where do I know you from especially when your entire gestalt is in order.

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micktoz546 reads

.... knowing that she is an escort means that the man in the seat opposite her, on another night  really could be me. If it was two civies, it's not happening for me and I am just envious.
It changes it from thinking what a lucky bastard the guy is to, what a lucky bastard and I want that too.  

Such a different view of a man and his date. Just like when I read a review of a lady that I see and enjoy, I insert myself in and decide if I want that too.

Thanks for the thread.

Posted By: ttcttc
I was in a bar in DC and was seated so that I was looking directly at another table, which much to my surprise had an escort who is visiting town right now and an older gentlemen. I recognized the escort's face -- gorgeous, young, lithe, AA woman.  Wearing a very flirty dress.  Playing the perfect partner -- all eyes on him, smiling, touching his arm, occasionally touching his shin with her amazing heels.  It was tremendous fun and of course I was trying not to be obvious but probably was all too obvious.  Hard to imagine that time with her would not be incredible.    
   
 Just sharing, no real point, except that it was incredibly fun to watch.  

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camote16372 reads

Once I was having dinner with two blonde headed twins 30 years younger than me waiting for their aunt to join us for the movie later. I didn't think anything of it til now. Wonder what people thought me. I'm Hispanic, they were white. Another time my friends daughter was in town an we went to dinner an I didn't think anything of it. Last week I was on a "date" with a Hispanic girl 30 years younger but people could've thought I was her uncle. I think as long as people act normal an not ackward, others won't think much of it.

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Posted By: ttcttc
I was in a bar in DC and was seated so that I was looking directly at another table, which much to my surprise had an escort who is visiting town right now and an older gentlemen. I recognized the escort's face -- gorgeous, young, lithe, AA woman.  Wearing a very flirty dress.  Playing the perfect partner -- all eyes on him, smiling, touching his arm, occasionally touching his shin with her amazing heels.  It was tremendous fun and of course I was trying not to be obvious but probably was all too obvious.  Hard to imagine that time with her would not be incredible.    
   
 Just sharing, no real point, except that it was incredibly fun to watch.  
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