Has anybody here experienced a cancellation by a provider without notifying you?  This happened to me once.  After being stood up,  I tried to email her to ask what happened but no response. I would call her but the phone number got disconnected or changed.  But when I pretend to be a different person by using a different name and different email address to reach her, she would then respond. So this indicates she was not kidnapped so why she stood me up?  I thought about telling you her name but I would be doing her a favor by giving her a free advertisement at my expense. So anyone got stood up by a provider before?  If yes, did you try to get revenge on her? If so, how?

Get use to it and move on. No reason to seek revenge. Let your hobby buddies know she is a no call no show.

Sounds like you did something to creep her out.  It happens.

But I found out from a provider in here, that has since retired, that this woman is a flake. So I think sometimes fate isn't a bitch.

Only happened to me once and I just scratched her off my list.  Any attempt at revenge is pointless, and IMO you already invested too much time and energy into it with the fake name and email address thing...kinda sounds like what a nerdy kid does when he doesn't get a return text from a cheerleader.  Move on and find providers that value your time, there are plenty.

You, sir, are the very definition of creepy.

hobby long enough and it happens to just about everyone. Based on your last 2 reviews, I'm thinkin' maybe instead of being pissed at her, you should thank her. Who knows could've been another crappy date.  BTW the term for what you experienced, it's a  NCNS.  

I would love to let my hobby buddies know she is a no call no show.  But to do that, I would need to tell what her name is.  This may bring curiosity to some hobbyists and they may end up trying to contact her to give her business.  I would be doing this "no show provider" a favor by giving her free advertisements at my expense.  Why would I want to do that? She is pretty hot though.

There is recent precedent of this happening in p4p, so I'm told.

Do you have anything upstairs let me spell it out to you like this.  
Easy now Dexter did it ever occur to you that they to have lives of there own.
 Since  none of us here know what you said in your emails we only have your word on it.
But as for (Revenge ) because you got stood up really just grow a brain and deal with it.
 Because in case you did not know your attitude makes  you look like a real creep show.  
 
      Listen real good now  can you hear ( MOVE THE FUCK ON

I have been wondering what I did to creep her out. The problem is I cannot think of anything.

Hey, she cancelled on me without any prior notification nor explanation.  I don't waste my time like that.

Hey, I am not upset of her cancelling on me.  But I am upset that she did not give me any prior notification.  She just made me wait for her for nothing. I don't know about you but that is not a way that I waste my time.

Well look, I know she did not get kidnapped or involved in a car accident.  It would then be reasonable for her to notify me about the cancellation so I did not have to wait for her for nothing.  Make sure you have all the facts and see the whole picture before you judge.

You asked about taking REVENGE out on a WOMAN!!!

Dude you're not going to win or garner much support here.  These girls take some risk in this profession and things like creating fake identities and revenge are going to be noticed and remembered and as Tobi says they're creepy as hell....and even if you did get the benefit of the doubt that you simply chose your words poorly, by your own admission you went to some pains to contact her despite being blown off...to what end?  C'mon man, you weren't trying to make sure she wasn't kidnapped, you know exactly what happened:  she blew you off for reasons known only to her (and maybe to you if you sat and gave it some thought).  So again, move on and chalk it up to experience.

Hey Creep !

Well look, I was not upset of her cancelling me. But I am upset that she did not give me any prior notification. She just made me wait for nothing.  When I said revenge, I don't mean bodily harm. Perhaps that was a poor choice of word. What I meant was to get back at her like writing a horrible review about her or bring down her website by hacking into it. BTW, the possibility of her being kidnapped or in some terrible situation like a car accident was running through my mind until I found out that that was NOT the case.

NCNS is too common.  I don't think OP is a stalker or too creepy (but I could be wrong!).  

You're gonna get her back?? Really... Why would you even lower yourself to those methods?   Maybe she felt you were not a match/fit...etc...  Don't waste your time on the petty stuff & seek out another!!!

this is a sensitive subject.. Im sorry that happened to you.. it sucks.. just move on and learn a lesson.. its par for the course..
just move on.. there are plenty of ladies..

It seems that you are the only one that understands me.  But why she never called or explained perhaps will remain a mystery.
 

Posted By: impposter

NCNS is too common.  I don't think OP is a stalker or too creepy (but I could be wrong!).    
   
 He got NCNSd and wanted to know what happened and that she is OK.  Maybe she had a good excuse to be incommunicado for a few hours or even a few days (car accident?).  But no reply.    
   
 Maybe she got a bad vibe, a bad reference or something else and doesn't want to see the guy.  Unless it is something really bizarre (uses secret email code to read people's brain waves?), she can say that she doesn't want to see him and that he should try someone else.  No details ... it wouldn't be a good session because she would be too uncomfortable.  
   
 With no contact whatsoever, it can be too mysterious and worrisome.  I remember my first NCNS by a very popular and well reviewed provider.  I spoke to her 15 minutes before the scheduled time from the mall next to the hotel.  Everything is good to go.  At 5-of, no answer.  I'm calling every 15 minutes and calling her booker, too, to let her know what's up but no answer.   I see a couple of cop cars around the hotel (turned out to be nothing).  I'm leaving VMs just asking her to assure me that she is OK. After 1.5 hours, I gave up.  No reply to my "Are you OK?" email for a couple of days.  Finally got a reply and it was a lame excuse ... but she comp'd me for my trouble and we had a great time at our next meeting!  
   
 NCNS happens.  An acknowledgement of some sort, assuring us that you're OK, will put us at ease, even if you don't want to see us.  
   
 OP: You confirmed that she is OK with the fake / 2nd email address.  Now leave her alone and move on.  
   
 

Hey dude, I'll say it again. I was not upset of her cancelling on me but am upset of no prior notification.  Perhaps "revenge" is a poor choice of word. I did not mean to do bodily harm but to get back at her like by writing a bad review about her or hacking into her web site to bring it down.  Absolutely, no bodily harm was meant.
 

Just have to accept what is.... is.... and yes as others have stated, move on.. You never want to put yourself into a situation where you'll end up on a provider blacklist and you might end up not getting a date with much of anyone at that point..  

The same girl !   Yes I know I am stupid lol
I believe the last three times I tried to make plans with her she canceled with me the day of our appointment once just a hour before we where to meet.  
I am a believer in the three strikes and you are out rule!  
Yourrrrrr outttttt !!!!!!

You want to hack her website and fuck with her business all because you got stood up? If your language is any indication of how you behaved towards her prior to your meeting, I would have stood your creepy ass up too. Get some fucking therapy, man.  

When it happened to me, I posted about it on my regional board and the reviewers' only board.  I did not out her name publicly, but told the story of what happened.  I told everyone to PM me if they wanted to get her handle, and many did just that.  After that, like the others said, move on.  There are plenty of quality providers out there to waste time fretting over one bad apple.

I guess we needed a counter balance to CPA's thread about a BSC hooker who wanted to out and sue a guy over a cancellation made weeks in advance.

But in the women's defense, there are very few of you that even get "dishonorable" mention in the SPOTYS. The SPOTYS seem to be dominated by men.

It's funny though, if you check out this douche bags reviews, most of his "dates" don't even have websites to hack. lmao

Really? Guess if we all act like complete assholes to each other that eventually  the Matrix will shift and everything will be sunshine and daisies. Providers will be on time. Every experience will be a 10 ... wait, how can a "once in a lifetime" thing happen again, oh that's right ... Matrix., and the best part, providers will refuse to take money because we are sooooo damn good. Fuckin A. Total rockstars in bed ... 4 pops in an hour. No problem.

she finds you a creepy motherfucker, she can out you and destroy your life to get back you for being a complete douche bag? I would have said hack your website but you don;t have one and she can't write a crappy review about you so she has what she has at her disposal.

This is what I call coming to bat when needed. Thanks JD, you really are a decent human being when it counts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But being the douche bag that you are, you'll just change your name, email etc and carry on being a total turd.

What in the hell is wrong with some people I don't know but I wish the poor breeding stock would just remove themselves from the pool. Hacking her website or writing a bad review to ruin her business just because you were left with your dick in your hand... for probably obvious reasons to at least one of you...

Repeatedly it was pointed out to him about the "revenge" comment then that morphed into "hacking into her website." Wtf?

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I hope the girls who whitelisted you see this shit and remove their endorsements.

That doesn't sound healthy and maybe it was a good thing the provider never met you. Straighten up. Do what the others have advised and move on.

A provider I had already seen and I thought had retired. I responded to an email advertisement she sent to her client list, made an appointment for three days later, and then she never responded when I asked for the hotel info the day of. First time this has happened to me with a "reputable" provider. It was more of a let down than I thought it would be.  Oh well. Made an appointment that evening for a different provider who turned out to be, perhaps, the hottest I've ever seen, and for the same consideration. All's well that ends well.

Having bleed all over the GDB and gotten raspberried by a couple dozen smart-alacks, don't you think you've already made such a fool of yourself that absolutely nothing you could do in retaliation could ever even the score? Face it, she punked ya.

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