I want to get the opinions of the gents and the ladies here.
I had a TER guy book an incall appt with me while I was on tour recently.
I told him the certain area I would be in the city I was visiting and would provide my location an hour prior to appt time.
The night before our appt he emails and ask for exact hotel name/address the night before due to rain in the city he was driving from. I advised him for safety reasons and as a guy who has been around for a long time I would not be providing this info that far in advance.
He decided to cancel his appt  

Totally unnecessary to know the night before. If you’re driving in to a city the day of the get together, a full hour or two out so you can arrange parking is sufficient. And then the room as you arrive at the appointed time. That’s all I need or would ever ask for. Can’t think of why you need it night before. One more thing: if I’m driving in the night before and staying overnight in a nice city like Boston or NY, all I need to know is the city and then I’ll book a room at a random hotel. While I sure it hurt financially, you were better off with him canceling.

I would want the hotel name the night before to feel comfortable. At the time of booking days or weeks before, the general location would suffice. In New Orleans, the downtown hotels are clustered fairly close together and need to know if I can walk or Uber is important for travel time. Likewise, Chicago is pretty spread out and even if you gave a general location, with one-way streets, traffic, and set-up of hotel, I'd want to know the hotel the night before not the morning of Most likely I'm there on business and am on a specific schedule; speech during the day, with business colleagues at dinner, etc. The exact hotel room number you can give me at the last minute when you're ready for me to come up for my appointment.  

I ask general location if I'm traveling more then a hour.. Exact location a hour before is fine

You don't want to be late and you want the best way to get there. I'm sure why he wanted it that way.  
Why is it unsafe for him to know the place in advance?
If he was a bad guy it wouldn't make a difference.
That was my answer. Now to the smart people answers...

...gave me the name and address of the hotel she was staying in more than 24 hours in advance.  I told her that why that wasn't a good idea and she has stopped doing it.

No I don’t,I respect a lady rules and why would a guy cancel because you won’t give your location way in advance? Keep doing what you doing better safe then sorry!

Sounds like this guy was looking for a reason to cancel.
 if you know the general location, getting exact location an hour or two prior to time is fine.

The general area of the appointment is fine with me. As long as I know what side of the city a one to two hour
notice is sufficient. Of course living in Wisconsin, weather is akways a concern but that can be accomodated.

Most of the time the lady sends me the hotel address the day before without asking ... that seems to be common practice.  I need to plan accordingly especially if the appointment is early morning ... before I go to sleep I would like to have a game plan and know when I need to get up, how I will get there (Uber, drive, metro) yada, yada.  A general area in the city would usually be fine unless there is a lot of variance in travel time from where I am to that general area.  I guess that I don't really understand your concern.  I could see why you wouldn't give him your room number the day before, but letting someone know where you are staying after they have been screened and confirmed the appointment is pretty standard.  

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... it's perfectly fine to provide your exact location as to how you see fit. If you feel more comfortable and safe with your protocols then by all means continue what you're doing. It sucks to have a cancellation but that's better than compromising your practices that could possibly be that one time that results in a bad situation.

well over an hour to get to a hobby city near me. I want to be able to plug the address I'm going to into my GPS and just go there. It's been a while since I've gone to an incall like that (I usually ask for outcall) but I would always figure out in advance about how long it would take to get there and request to have the exact address sent to me at about the time I would need to leave. I always needed a bit more than an hour's notice, but certainly not so much notice as days in advance! If I happen to be within an hour of the general location, then certainly an hour's notice would be fine.

Maybe I’m missing something but I don’t understand why telling a screened client the name of the hotel the day before is unsafe? I can understand not giving out room number but if you trust a guy after screening well enough to see him, what’s the issue with hotel name? Not casting stones, just trying to understand.

Is fine by me. I don’t need the exact address or even the name of the hotel until I’m in the general area. Bottom line, whatever makes the escort feel the safest is fine by me. As far as him cancelling, like someone else mentioned, seems like he was looking for a reason to cancel.

I'm in The Boston area. Frankly downtown parking is really tough and a very expensive.  At least $20.. so i no longer will see someone in downtown Boston. Traffic is also a factor. Last year, i saw a girl in downtown Boston at 1 PM.  It took me over 2 hours to get home.  
So now, I have decided that if a girl is in downtown Boston.. I will pass..its fairly normal for me to book out at least a week. So I need to know in general where someone will be so I can book.

I’m in L.A. and I won’t go Downtown because of the traffic and parking cost.

What's the risk?  Do we suppose that LE will go banging on every door in the hotel room demanding to come in and see if anyone is kissing inappropriately?   Or maybe they will arrest all the sexy looking people walking through the lobby?
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Now I wouldn't put the hotel address in the ad, but for a booked client, the "risk" is practically non-existent.

I can appreciate both sides of the argument.  The ladies don't want to compromise their security by giving their location too far in advance, which makes perfect sense.  On the other hand, customers who may have to drive more than an hour to the location need more notice than an hour.  This often happens to me. I live in South  Orange County along the coast, and if a lady is in L.A., depending on the time of day an the traffic patterns,, it could take me an hour and a half to two hours to get somewhere and park.  Additionally, depending on WHERE she is in L.A., there are multiple travel routes available, and having an address allows the GPS in my car to give me the best route, taking into account the current traffic info, and a time estimate of how long it will take me to get there.  Its almost always over an hour.  

A lot of people come from quite a distance to see me. I generally tell them to plug in my location prior to etching our date in stone.  If it's your lunch break, you're in midtown and I'm in downtown; it may pose a problem.  I'd rather get the no go a week in advance than a couple hours prior.  
I do however respect everyone's own way of doing business.  

I want the nearest major intersection so I can plan my drive. I don’t necessarily need the exact hotel a day in advance.  

"Some" clients would go so far as to book a room at that very hotel in an attempt to "stake out the location" before meeting her and even with the hopes of "accidentally" bumping into her.

It puts me at ease if I can quickly google-search my route and parking options as I always avoid the hotel parking lot. It's like anything in life. If you have something important first thing in the AM, you often don't sleep well if there are loose threads in your plans.

And when she is in LV, I believe she is outcall only (like many Vegas ladies).

Sounds like something  BrokeBackStabber would do.

but I can't think of many cities where you can't get a person "close" without naming the exact hotel in which you are staying.  

Not sure who you are seeing but most providers do not give out their hotel address the night before.
My concern someone who has my location a night before what prevents him from sitting there in my hotel lobby watching? I have heard stories about guys getting location night before and guess what the next day he does not show up for his appt. Which now poses a risk for the provider AND her clients. Not sure how long you have been around but I have heard of bad stories regarding screened clients knowing exact location too far in advance. There are quite a few who have no discretion at all.

Yes better safe than sorry. His follow up emails to me left a lot to be desired and was quite rude.
I ended up with a same day cocktail date request from a great gent and was actually a longer date than what this guy was requesting.

Google has good traffic prediction, but only on their desktop app. You can set the date/time and it'll tell you what it's expecting for that time of day. It's only so useful in LA, and sometimes gives you a +\- 2 hour window, but it's something.

I never do this. I let the young lady set the rules for location, etc. If she's comfortable with me, we have more fun.

Is to know whether or not the incall is on or near a bus line. I don't have a car, so if she'd not on a bus line or available for outcall, I can't see her.

I didn't even see this response when I responded here. This has happened and other similar situations to providers so I don't understand why guys say if he is screened what is the problem?  
As PS mentioned I was not in Vegas.

I always have at least an hour drive so I would want to know east side, west side, downtown. That's sufficient then the actual hotel an hour in advance.  Several ladies I see when they travel through town stay at the same place each time so they tell me, "the usual place" but I don't press it.

I do expect a general area or close landmark ahead of time so I can plan my travel time. I don’t expect to know the exact address until very close to the appointment time and don’t expect the room number until I am parked at the address. At home I want a general location, i.e. downtown, airport area, Waikiki, etc. If it’s Waikiki, then it’s nice to know if it’s on the zoo end, the harbor end, or central Waikiki.  

I'm a planner.  If I'm going to a hotel in my hometown I like to know the nearest intersection when I book, so that I can plan alternate parking (2-3 lots), public, and near a restaurant, but not a hike from the hotel . . .  try explaining why you are in a bad part of town and your car got broken into without a plausible other reason for being there. - Alibis don't just happen.  The room number should be withheld obviously until very near the appointment.  The hotel name is something that is often provided anyway, but VERY close something nearby is sufficient.  Exact hotel is helpful though, you can read hotel reviews and figure out if there is a key card for the elevator, get a layout of the lobby to see if there is a chance to discretely kill 15 min while I wait, get the parking situation (cost, valet, complaints of parking break ins, etc.).  I do all this work too even if its my hotel on a trip . . . I can provide alternate parking, I know if I have to get her . . . and here is the kicker . . . the provider ALWAYS knows the exact location of the outcall before they even book . . . and some demand hotel room number to book . . .  to that I try to push off until closer to time, but they still have it usually a day in advance.

“I would want the hotel name the night before to feel comfortable.” what’s uncomfortable only knowing a close General location? I think 2hrs or a little longer is sufficient to manage the logistic you mention.

Agree that LA folks need this information several  hours or a day beforehand.  

I am a newly retired old fart who has been a TER member for over a dozen years who has seen hundreds of ladies over that time period.  About 90 percent of those ladies provide the name of the hotel the day before - typical two text system.  As far as the other 10 percent go, I just always let them know that I am not driving anywhere until I have an address.  About 99 percent of ladies that are repeats provide this information.  Over the past dozen years, I most of the ladies were mid-tier (3-5/hr) and now I only see upper-mid ladies.  

I will give a gentleman a general idea, such as the Galleria area (Dallas), but I do not give out the exact address until he confirms by text the day we are scheduled to meet. I do not divulge my rm # until arrival. Any additional information prior to same day is unnecessary and a safety risk.

I don't think that it is fair to say that he was looking for a reason to cancel.  Depending on the city it might take minutes to multiple hours to get to a specific location.  Maybe he wanted piece of mind to ensure that he was not late?  Maybe he reasoned that if she wouldn't accommodate a basic request like this that she most likely also wouldn't accommodate other requests?  Who knows?  

It's been a while but it seem that you did what I was accustomed to.  
I would get the general area (Doing incall in LA) Say, Culver City, Pasadena, Encino when I made the first contact. Then on the day of, to confirm she'd throw in the address,hotel. When I arrived at the hotel then I would get the room number. Never had an issue.
But if I may add, I saw your initial post. And what that guys said was a dick move. What was the point? It was to sting you, It's what I got out of it.
So, you were probably better off not seeing this asshole. Would've been a hard to please kinda guy.
So, don't sweat it....

but somehow I just can't imagine riding a bus to go see a hooker. Don't you at least have Uber?

I don't see what prevents the client from booking a room in the same hotel AFTER the visit.  I don't see how a couple hours makes a difference.

I've had people drive several hours to meet me in all kinds of weather.
There's probably girls who give the hotel a day in advance....i'm not once of them.
A relatively specific area is usually MORE THAN ENOUGH: Gold Coast, DTC, Buckhead, etc.
If he was huffy about not getting the EXACT hotel the day before I say you def dodged a bullet.

General Area of town is always appropriate the night before

if he's someone I've seen several times, I'll let him know the night before. If he's one of my favs, a few days in advance. Sounds like things turned out better for you in the long run.

I gave a pretty lengthy and clear description of the situation. Never had an issue either way. I'm a good client.

I don't know who you seeing Jaydalee, if anybody. Its pretty common to get the hotel in advance, and I haven't been refused when I've asked.  

thank you for trying to make a snide comment. lol
I travel to LA ,NYC,SF and Tysons Corner just to name a few all major cities.
If you have gotten exact hotel name the day before that is great.
But there are quite a few ladies who do not work this way.
That is the beauty of this hobby everyone does what works best for them.

I have been Wisconsin twice and I am planning to visit next month.
The last gent drove 2hrs in the rain/snow to see me he did get location 3hrs ahead of time.  
But we are talking about some light rain the night before and none the day of the appt.
Funny I managed to find my way to an outcall  in visiting city I was in through the rain in a city I have never driven in with hotel room# given an hour prior. I usually give the general area after screening is done so a guy is not waiting for a general area an hour prior just exact hotel name .

Something about it being nasty weather the day of appt.
Funny the night he was requesting info it was raining the day of the appt no rain at all where I was.
The way he acted you would have thought it was a blizzard. lol

let me know more than likely the day of the appt it would have been some bs.

Perhaps not the room right across from the provider scenario.
But the "screened guy" showing up hours earlier sitting in the lobby,drawing attention to himself,trying to accidentally bump into a provider.
Ladies having to pack up and leave because someone could not be trusted with this info way in advance of appt date/time.

For first dates:  If its an early morning appointment, I would prefer the location the night before because I am not a morning person and want to be prepared when I wake up.  If its later in the day I would like  a couple hours notice at least since I am in L.A. and traffic can be very unpredictable. I’m not too keen on the last confirmation and where she is being when I’ve already driven there because there are flakes and I don't want my time wasted.

You give him your hotel location days prior if he booked/screened in advance?
I am talking like more than a day in advance?
Just trying to understand because I have guys who travel 1-3hrs to see me.
I had a guy fly to NC to see me from another state and he did not get my location days in advance.
If that is how you work I respect your choice but every lady is different just like you said.

I am glad as well. I rather spend time with a gent who respects my safety and knows how to use a gps
The tone of emails turned real nasty and entitled when he realized he was not getting my hotel address 10hrs before our appt time.

If the provider told me The Strip, that could mean anything from Wynn to the crappy west wing rooms at MGM.  There are plenty of other nasty rooms in strip properties, Linq, Casino Royale and Circus Circus.  I’d at least would want to know the hotel name in advance.  Doubly so for downtown Vegas.

he would give the money to a friend in need who could use the money more than me. There was no point in that comment but to be an asshole.  
Everytime I go to LA I do this. I might say I am 5min from LAX or I am 5-10min  to Santa Monica etc.
And LA guys have had no problem. Some of them have been late but they admitted to not leaving when they should have to avoid traffic. I drove out there this month so I know what the traffic is and can be for guys trying to navigate socal.
But the guy I am talking about seemed to have a bug up his ass about not getting the hotel address 10hrs prior.

Thank you for your response xo

I can definitely see from a guy's standpoint about traveling/distance. And perhaps a landmark in the general area would need to be disclosed depending on the city in advance. But still not giving a guy who I have never met my hotel address the day or days before an appt.

That's why I book a day in town and a day in the burbs.

I would expect the address the day off the date or a few hours before. A day in advance? He is either an idiot or had something in mind. Good for you that he canceled.

He likes to use his bike to get around as much as possible. His preference he will Uber/Lyft as a last result (bad weather pretty much).  
Resides in DC and usually sees me when I'm somewhere in Arlington or Alexandria.  Even then though telling him  Pentagon City or Rosslyn or Ballston or Landmark area of Alexandria is more than enough.  
I will say though a guy like Van who prefers riding the train/metro or bus can deal with a landmark or a metro station if a guy on a bike can deal with a general neighborhood.

Neither here nor there but I recall reading that bicyclists tend to have low sperm count (it keeps their sperm too warm.)

and it backfired on her. Guy got upset that she gave him the hotel on the same street as hers not the exact location.
When told he was going to have to drive half block down the street he decided to cancel.
Said it sounded shady he wasn't going to risk it.

I live in the DMV and it has the WORST drivers in the country. My road rage has gotten so much worse since I've moved here. Having said that, if I at least know the general vicinity of the area beforehand, that's fine. However, when I know the commute is going to be longer than an hour (which can totally happen in the DMV), it's good to have an exact address maybe 2 hours ahead of time so GPS can give me the fastest backroads.  

Since Jaydalee started this thread let's use her as an example. She has 210 reviews, if she has been hosting in flea bag motels I guarantee you SOMEONE would have called her out for it. If you are really THAT worried that the provider you have booked with is going to be hosting in a dump, maybe you are booking the wrong providers in the first place?

the provider's and my own safety/discretion.  As stated by other posters, unless the lady has a TER presence/reviews, or other reviews (from a source/reviewer I trust), is someone who has been referred to me by someone I trust, or I can be ABSOLUTELY sure it is "safe" and she is someone I would definitely want to see, then she is not going to even be on my "radar."

As long as they are verified or I already know them...absolutely.  
If some bottom scraper website takes my info and posts it on their site; I don't give those gents the time of day.

But my bus card is paid for by the casino I work at. So why pay extra money for a ride? I don't know how  things are laid out in your city, but in the Twin Cities,  you have to go way off the main drags to get outside the bus line.

I don't know LV or those hotels, but do their current "star" ratings match up with your assessments?  I ask because, Jaydalee can say something like, "Don't worry about the accommodations. I only stay at 4 or 5 star hotels."  Although many 3* hotels are very good, clean, and comfortable.  (I'm thinking about some funny text messages on my way to visit someone on short notice.  She got a room at a 3*, but it was perfectly OK.)  Anyway, "4* or 5* location" at least tells the client that the as-yet-unnamed hotel is NOT Motel 6 or Red Roof Inn.  
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Do each of those LV properties have a range of rooms, from nasty 0* to 5* (but somehow still earning a 4* or 5* rating) or are they a consistent 1*-2*?

In addition to pretty much using his bike to get around he also does bike races.  
He used to be a nurse (now practices law) and has a few kiddos so his swimmers seem to be working lol.

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I don't ask but 99% of the women give me the hotel information the day before..Sometimes they will even text me the hotel before I even confirm the appt which I find is not necessary. lol

I think most  of the guys on this thread who are saying what’s the harm in giving out the address a day ahead, to a screened client, would never even think of doing something like that. So they don’t consider that there are actually weirdos out there who would do stuff like that. Of course GaGambler and I also would never even think of stalking a hotel or doing anything like that either,  but we know there are idiots who would do that, and we know ladies it has happened to!

Well, if that is your belief then you should respect the decision of a client not to see you if you don't give him the address. It goes both ways.  What was best for your client was to get the address in advance. You didn't give it to him, so you should respect his decision and not berate him.

I posted a question here and people answered including you.
No one else has had this reaction even if they did not agree with me.  
I did not berate anyone dude you seem to have an issue for whatever reason.

And alter some things on when need be depending on the city.

You are right. Nothing prevents a client from booking a room in the same hotel after the visit. However there is only certain things that a provider can plan for and prevent. They don’t have control of every situation. They do have control of when to give out the location information prior to the meeting.

I experienced this myself driving there recently.
I can totally understand.

And you’re right it’s what the vast majority of girls do. I’ve never been offered an address day before and I’ve never asked.

I give my location in the confirmation email because I've also had guys cancel when they discover the exact location, mostly because of traffic concerns - I try not to book in sketchy areas.  I WON'T give the location until they're screened to my satisfaction.  As far as safety issues, I implement situational awareness at all times and always have due to life circumstances.  I recently gave my ROOM NUMBER to a screened client who said he had arrived and he never came to the door!  That was a first for me but I didn't freak out or switch rooms I just charged it to the game and ate some carbs!!

Sounds and reads like berating to me.

If it is a motel it is rated as such out here the star ratings are not going to be high.  
Although I do not do Incall unless rare occasion. My hosting is done while I am on tour.
I never ever stay at a motel or a type of hotel where the doors face outside.
My accommodations are 3-4 star and I have never had any gents every complain about accommodations.
The hotels he mentioned in Vegas are all ok except for casino royale and circus circus.
If he is worried about a crappy room in the west wing or the linq(which has been remodeled)or downtown hotels that are perfectly fine such as Golden Nugget or Downtown Grand. It begins to sound like is he reviewing the room or seeing a lady?lol

When I am on tour,  I prefer to give the Hotel name and address the morning of the appointment, unless it is an early morning appointment.  I do give a general area, street name (if several hotels around the street, etc...) I have learned that in some cities this may not be enough and do offer it the evening before if it is a morning appointment. I don't really like giving my hotel name sooner than that.
When in Vegas at my in call I give the cross streets then the actual address in a 3 part message the day of.

be no big deal in a place like Las Vegas, where I a provider says, "I'm at the  MGM Grand", because she hasn't given you any info that could result in a security issue for HER, but at least you would know where to park and how long its going to take you to get there.  However, if its a small boutique hotel (less than 50 rooms), and she's telling you a day before, then I agree with Guts, she must be a rookie.

Locally, the drive time difference based upon location is north of 30 minutes easily. I don't need a exact name/address but a location area to plan ahead (Airport versus Downtown for example) especially at rush hour.

I don’t need a room number or the exact hotel. Let me start with that. However, I live in Phoenix and this city is huge. It’s really spread out. I always ask general questions so I can plan the drive. Some ladies incalls are really far away, while some are not. If her incall is in Old Town Scottsdale, or Downtown Phoenix, or North Phoenix, and I’m coming from the South Tempe area, I may not even make it there in an hour if the traffic is bad, which it will be between 3pm and 7pm. Driving to Old Town Scottsdale from where I live is a lot  easier  than getting to North a Phoenix or North Scottsdale. It can take an hour to drive across the city for a drive that would take 30 minutes with out traffic. Then the risk that I’m late and miss the appointment goes way up.

It is really up to the gal. I usually give my hotel name/location a day or two before and then give my room # 10 to 15 min before the appt.

again, it depends on the size of the hotel.  Its more likely in larger hotels that they will tell me more than a few hours in advance if its girl I'm seeing for the first time.

There are plenty of valid reasons not to give the exact location of your incall until the guy needs to travel to said location. There are so freaks out there who don't respect a girls need for privacy and will do all kinds of creepy stuff. What you describe as your system is standard and sensible.

Yep there are creeps out there and some of them unfortunately are members here.
For some reason a few guys on this thread don't seem to get this and that is okay.Some of the responses here from ladies who will give location days ahead time when confirming an appt after screening.
Every lady does what works for her.
I always give general location of hotel when confirming appt so he knows if airport,downtown,etc but hotel name not until the day of. Some cities will require more notice and I will adapt depending on the city and time/day of appt.

Your rules re: not giving out the hotel name til the day of seems reasonable.  If you give a general area, such as (midtown East, NYC) or in "such and such" neighborhood, it should be good enough.  If he doesn't like it he can book somebody else who will indulge him.  You are a well -known TER provider and have been around on many platforms, you are no fly by night outta nowhere.  You do you.  I am sure your biz can handle one less client once in awhile.

and unreasonable people will always look for a way to be unreasonable.

Unless you are at the only hotel within a few miles, say, "Plan to be near the 'MSO Grill/Forever 69/Duck Face Photography' in 'City Name' 5-10 minutes before our appt. I'll text the hotel address tomorrow and the room # when you arrive."

Most cities, especially at some times of the day can be a bear to navigate even with 2 hours notice.  Some folks don't live in the city proper and getting into town may need advanced planning.  Therefore I think knowing a general area such as downtown or airport area is a reasonable request by the client.  100% agree that if the provider does not want to give the exact location due to safety concerns that it is unreasonable to demand it.  

customers, too.  Many times I have left an incall and there was another customer who was there more than 30 minutes early just hanging around the building.  I've gotten to where I can spot a monger just by his body language.  

Oh I bet you can - just like we ladies can spot our female counterparts 😉
Hanging around is a very common problem and it’s such a tell-tale sign to hotel staff. Common sense should prevail...

Canceling because the provider won't give the hotel name is out of line.  I get that he wants to plan his travel in advance, but there are risks in giving out the hotel name that far out.  So in the end, it's a matter of who's more risk-averse.  Instead of canceling outright, he should have asked for the location of a nearby train station or landmark.

i ask for closest Main Road Intersections...just so i know where im going and how long it will take me to get there...and then say i will call when im there to get real location...

If in a large city say like LA or NYC, don't need the specifics but nice to have general area. If I'm in LA and staying in Santa Monica, it would be nice to know if you are down in OC. Don't need to know that you are staying at the Newport Beach Marriott in room xxx. Just, "I'm in OC and may be 90 minutes away in traffic.  Can't think why you would need specifics that far in advance but we all have our malfunctions...

I've been in awe of you for years and I'll adhere to what WE decide if you let me meet you. That's all there is to it. I'm very well aware you're in demand and you may want to meet me, but I have to have the foresight to book with you well in advance not only for my convenience but your's also. Not just for me but for you. Does that make sense?  

Jaydalee, he's a clown. Walk on by sweetheart. You're better than that

And another thing, JAYDALEE, if you let me see you! It's MY honor!  

When traveling outside the US in cities like London or Tokyo where I usually take a train, I also feel better if I know the nearest station a little more than an hour in advance. Sometimes you’ll need 60+ minutes to get from your location to that station, plus maybe another 20 minutes to get to her exact location. But I’ll be upfront and tell her where I’m coming from (hotel x by Kings’ Cross) so she understands and can adjust or decide I’m not a client for her (that has happened a few times in London, but in Tokyo the agencies are more open).  

I dont ask fo exact info, just nearby vicinity works, like closes parking or a street that is nearby.

I let the ladies know how far I am from the general location where they are staying and ask them to give me a lead time. So if l am 30 minutes away, I would ask them to give me at least an hour notice on their incall location. Maybe a little more time, if l know there will be traffic, parking issues, etc.

Location definitely plays a part depending on which city and also what is going on in then city at the time.
I have adjusted my requirements when need be. I was just in LA this month and due to traffic/drive time I provided location more than an hour prior. I always give the general area not location after screening .
But definitely not the day before.
Great to see you posting

If I ask to meet you. Of course I'll be hurt if you say no because you and I talked a while back...

from the ledge before you fall into a marriage.  Although, I admit, you could do a lot worse.  A LOT worse.  Lol

If a gent arrives early I ask him to wait in his car and not the lobby.
You would think that would go without saying but unfortunately some don't have a clue.

You think she's going to give you a free session or discount for your White Knight abilities, you're such a pathetic mark. Keep on stepping bro.

I think everyone else has moved on and forgotten about this thread, just sayin...

Dude, c'mon, you're responding to my post. LOL

with someone who clearly has a personal issue. Everyone can share difference of opinions but when a person just wants to be rude for no reason that is his problem not mine.

this threAD should just die.

On Good Friday no less, You should have waited until Easter for the resurrection of a dead thread. lol

He has risen!    ...and it isn't my dick since COVID-19 and shelter-in-place. My favorite provider is here on tour here and almost broke down and said what the hell but stayed strong. That and she was booked solid.  

Flat mode actually views almost exactly like Tree mode, but the most recent posts pop up first at the top of the page. So even if you reply to a ten year old thread it resurrects the thread, how fitting to have this conversation on Easter, or Passover for all you Jesus killers. lol

has anyone taken a poll   ie   yes on location vs no on location !!!?!?  

Providers, what's the downside if any to giving the exact bus/trolley stop in advance?  It's exactly the "approximate location" that is OK for drivers, and it's exactly what this client needs.   More than "is she near a bus line" but no more risky for the provider ... or is it?

Despite the ridicule others have taken trying to keep this 2-month-old thread, you asked a question about bus stops.  I think the bus you are asking about has already left the station.  

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First of all, We (Escorts) Should be specific as to what our location is in one sense. For instance, If an Escort says "I'll  be in South Jersey"; Then you need to be specific (What part of South Jersey).  All or most areas (Like Jersey)  are sectioned out into Counties, Cities & So forth. But at the same time..........Escorts.......Stand your ground. In your AD  or email put your rules, any price discount, Specific location & the dates that you will be at that specific location.  
The reason why clients want this information is so that they can check & see how close that he will be on any given day. And Hobbyists, Please show the Escorts the same way that they are treating you or the way that you want to be treated. If you (Client) contacts an Escort, then please be specific as to what you are looking for and why you are inquiring about the Escorts specific location (If you have to give here dates, times and location where you are going to be so that she gets a general Idea of you and Etc. Escorts, Should be getting the "FAKE BILL" marker that detects fake dollar bill and use it before you start your session (This way you do not lose much if you have to tell the guy who gave you the Fake Bill(s) that he has to leave. Do not hand him back the fake bill(s). Take a white envelope and mark the envelope as "FAKE BILL(S)" & Place the Fake Bill(s) in it as away of proof (Incase he calls the police).

but aside from being old, on what authority are you on this board telling everyone how to run their business?

Maybe back away from the keyboard for a while, smh!

Like Jayladee said, no smart lady does this.  A dmv lady wouldn’t do this either.  I doubt you’ve seen 100+ ladies and I doubt even more that 90% gave you the hotel name and address the night before.  There are 90 ladies who give the hotel name out the night before?  Then why aren’t they here steadfastly defending you.

are you a cop?  lol...

I do not travel.  
However I do not think it would be safe to give information about where you were staying days in advance.  
Giving a client a general idea ( city and exit ) along with what kind of a hotel it is should be sufficient. ( 3 stars , 4 stars ).
If he is persistent for more details and wants to know actually where you’ll be staying sounds to me like it may have something to do with his personal issues need for power/control. Those are the dangerous ones in the business so be careful.
A good client will respect your wishes, not question why, not hassle you for details, and go with the flow.  
Stay safe!