Starting to see a lot of girls asking not to be reviewed. At first I thought that this was a way for certain providers to give less than stellar service without dealing with the consequences of being outted...now, I feel extremely different.  
I am one of those girls who prefer not to kiss and tell. With every good review comes higher expectations and a bad review (IF unjustly given) can really mess you up inside. The act of grading me after a session is starting to affect me like it does a few others..  

My usual parting words to a provider after a session is "would you like me to write a review of our glorious encounter?" I have yet to get a "no", but if someone did I wouldn't question it. I suspect that some ladies are very curious as to what I'll write, which is why some of them have giggled a bit when asked. And its not like they won't know it's me writing it, so I don't fuck around with someone not wanting our playdate captured for all posterity.

That's why a lot of us stopped writing reviews years ago. I tried it in a large regional group and found that if I called it the way I see it, I would be banished from mongering sooner or later if they ever found out who I was.  

In my opinion is the hobbyist right to review or not review.  

I'd write a review if a rip-off was involved or other situation that I felt mangers need to know about.  I haven't had to do that yet.

Before my first tour to the US I never had reviews - I thought the whole thing was painfully tacky. Of course that meant that when I landed and was ready to take bookings the phone was silent )
I got to San Diego and a nice guy set up my profile on here and did my first review, even mentioning that I wasn't really a fan of the concept, but from that I got more bookings and a few more nice reviews and now I have another new one posted I've had more enquities about my April tour than I had before it went up - I think it seems to be expected here - at the very least as a verifying tool for guys to see you are who your website claims you are and not LE or an alien.
Just my two cents worth

...just don't see the need to have over 100 reviews saying the same thing. I would never want someone to think that I'm trying to slack off and asking not to be held accountable for it.. I admit in the beginning when I found out I was entertaining a well known reviewer..my performance was on steroids.. That's not to say that non reviewers got shitty service..  My feelings now have changed and with having somewhat consistent reviews I think that it's only necessary to recieve a review if the service was completely different from what was expected. Whether good or bad.

I always respect the ladies wishes to be reviewed or not.  This is why I always ask if they would like to be reviewed after our meeting.  They get what they want!   Like the previous person wrote, I would only write a review against a providers wishes if there was a pimp situation or a dangerous situation for others to avoid.  I would admit that I will usually avoid providers without reviews because I don't know if they provide the services that I am looking for or if they are legit providers.

the only reason i can think of to not honor her request would be if the session was so horrible i had to warn others about it.

No!
But then I usually actually like the provider I saw

...cherry picking? Not at all. I love unbiased and logical honesty.  

At the very beginning of my hobby days, I was afraid to write reviews, and participate in the forums. I was a lurker. If you asked me not to write a review, no problema.  

Depends. If I wanted to see her again and she asked me not to write a review, then I would not write a review. If the session was really bad and I had absolutely no problem burning that bridge with her and never seeing her again, then I would write a review. In my short time here, I have never been asked not to write a review or had a really bad session.

not every session needs to be reviewed. My default setting is to NOT review unless I feel a review is needed for a particular reason or unless she ASKS for a review.

Not a no-review policy.   Just ASKING.  Do you consider that to be manipulation?

I won't respect your privacy if your using it to rip other hobbyists off or take advantage of them. Otherwise, I have no problem not writing reviews if asked.

Yes , this may be the case as well , I have seen this particular provider who provide services that were not given in general .

I will not write a review without your clearly expressed permission...

If u ask certain people to not review u but other people to review u. In my opinion. That's manipulating the review system. I'm not saying I'm right or that you're wrong. I'm just stating my opinion. In ggs case I often see guys eager to review them. While in the ts world I find myself asking them to review.  

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

Not a no-review policy.   Just ASKING.  Do you consider that to be manipulation?  
   
 Because when I have recent reviews, I will typically mention this to every new friend.  You see, they often ask or otherwise offer to write a review, to which I reply, "Oh thank you, but no, I already have PLENTY. LOL."    
 Or I'll manage to work that into the conversation on my own.  
   
 Personally, I just frequently feel like I get way too many reviews.  So nowadays I tell my clients that's how I feel.    
 I won't state that I don't allow reviews, just that I'd prefer not to get any new ones at that time.    
 You know what?  Quite a few still write away.    
   
   
 So I can only imagine how many reviews I'd be getting if I DIDN'T drop not-so-subtle hints.  LOL.    
 Actually, I don't have to use my imagination: last year, there was a particular week where I met 8 people.  Eventually, 7 of them wound up writing a review.  THAT is when I started commenting to guys that I just don't need any more. To keep the amount flowing in down a bit. :-P  
   
 Oh, and I don't look at writing OR receiving reviews as a "right".  This system is a privilege, for all of us, IMO.    
   
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 NOONER: (noun) A sexual encounter during lunch hour, especially one that is illicit.  

As others have indicated, I would usually respect a provider's wish to not be reviewed.  The exception to the rule?  See my review of TS Frida for a perfect example.

If she says no I respect that. If she says yes, I let her read it before posting.

Let me make this clear: I am only speaking for myself; these are my own preferences and reasons for them.  
I have no clue as to others' policies and their motivations.  

If a guy was going to write a positive review and the lady asks him to please not do so, I don't see anything at all wrong with that.  

Jeezus, that review of TS Frida is, well, bizzare!  I don't care how experienced a man is, that scene was bizzaro land.  
I'm not trying to be mean, but maybe a 2 or 3 tops?

I disagree that asking a client not to review you means they are being deceitful, and the original post wasn't about choosing good reviews only or cherry picking, it also wasn't about having a bad session and then asking them not to review.

And one lady who told me she prefers to not be reviewed, not one of which did I review.

I feel the same. I once asked someone not to because his hygiene wasn't great. So I did him a favor by politely asking if he could please not review me.  I'd very much appreciate it. He went ahead and reviewed me despite my request not knowing about himself or why the experience wasn't great. I could altogether turned him down at the beginning but I didn't. I wish I didn't tolerate and speak up but that would make him feel so bad and I didn't want anyone to take the time to come see me being turned away or leaving feeling bad about themselves.  I now might be able to find a different approach to this. So that I don't have to turn them away but I don't have to tolerate either.  

If the request is made after the envelope has been delivered, especially if the provider advertises or posts here, expect a refusal.  After all, it is TEReview, not TE-noReview.  Don't expect to have it both ways.

You said,  "one time there were four reviews in a row for this one lady from me. When she asked me not to write anymore, I understood, and stopped."
TER rules say you can only write one review for a given provider and that, if you write a second, it replaces the first one.  So unless you have multiple accounts (a big no-no), or are talking about other sites as well, it doesn't seem possible for you to have done this on TER.
Perhaps I've misunderstood or you weren't precise in what you wrote, but I'd like to have you clarify this.
Thanks

I have been doing this for a good while and have had above average dates without relying on reviews and writing reviews, I use this site mostly for the Ads........ultimately YMMV rules, have had bad dates with highly reviewed ladies and good dates with ladies that have no review

First thing that crosses my mind when I think of you ... well. It's not a review. More like a preview .... of things to cum, if it ever comes  
to pass.

If you are legit and as advertised, I would not review you unless asked to do so. Even then likely not. But if you wasn't as advertised yes I would. I believe in mutual discretion and feel it is bad form to review your lover paid or otherwise without her consent. Now if she is dangerous, or not as advertised I owe her nothing and owe my fellows a warning. Every lady I have reviewed anywhere gave consent to be reviewed. Even with consent I don't review anymore for personal reasons. And at this time I am still on a break from the game.

Did you ever contact him to tell him why the session didn't go as great as he would have hoped? And did you ask him to remove it?  

Yes, Johnny, that was an incredibly bizarre situation.  But I'm one of those people whose life has been defined by the bizarre.  I've had all kinds of experiences that most "normal" people never have.