When you make an appointment with a man what is going through your head right before he arrives?

Have I seen you before?

If so.. well,, usually remembering small details about you and what we enjoy together.

If not.. Is he a nice guy and of course.. I hope he is cute!

Often wondered that myself. I know I'm not a nut job but I can see where a lady might be nervous in first meeting. Especially if guy is nervous and takes a bit to get warmed up to conversation. I tend to be a bit shy at first as the reality sinks in that OMG I'm really here with a lady this beautiful!! Then I'm a mile a minute probally talk too much but often thought for the first few minutes I must seem like a socially awkward weirdo. So another question ladies what puts you at ease the fastest?

The gents that do their best to put the lady at ease. Those that will engage in some conversation at first, have the donation out in plain view already, & just their overall demeanor. Those that appear nervous, fidgety, or "dis-connected"... no matter how well they've been screened, ALWAYS put me on edge, lol.

You mean like this.....


Blue Flames

http://youtu.be/iQyzzs4rZBA

Makes sense so then I'm not as bad as I thought. Donation always ready quickly and am usually grinning like a kid in a candy store from the sight in front if me. Just curious I know it can be a sticky situation for a lady just want to do everything I can to make her feel safe.

up to doing one, I have to remind myself it will be over in an hour its just one hour. You can dp it, and i get super nervous about going or doing the appt. and hope they arent scary or rude or smelly or have badbreath.  . If i been workin alot and am in swing of it i am kinda like probly thinking about whatever it is i am saving for at that time and am ambitous about that project at hand. for the most part i am never like oh yeah i have to go make out with some weird stranger this is exciting, um yeah no.

I often wondered what ladies think going into a "blind-date"; like you said you often don't know anything about the client. I can see how that can be scary for a girl. I know it's no always possible but I assume you try to prescreen everyone; maybe during that process you can try to get them to give you more info to see waht they are like and what makes them "tick."
Some ladies on their websites post that they will not respond to any inquiries unless the "gentleman" takes the time to write a detailed "introduction" . I know it doesn't guarantee that he will not stink or have bad breath, but I think if he takes the time to put his "best foot forward" like that you may be more pleasantly surprised than not.

i know the guys real name, i knwo the name he is known by sevral other women by, i feel re assured i am not getn mangled, some how. i def like the screenign thing, If i do outcalls i am not as concerned with the references, because at least theres a driver outside that if i never came out theyd maybe have an idea where my body would be,

names and ages of kids, married divorced? never married, job/profession, who he has seen before?, tipper?, most prefered position/activity? etc.....

Most of the wimen I no, think my smell to be most seductive - nice and pugent... especially when I take my shoes off.... usually I go directly from the gym to my appointment, as i find the fresh sweat to be aphrodiastic and I have seen ladies swoon from the aroma...   often I bring a refreshment, retsina wine... sardines, and perhaps a cheese!  

Do you like coffee... I could bring a nice hot pot... we could swill it together.  As my skin is green, you'll know it is me when I show up, lots of gals find that very attractive.... some folks make fun of the hair on my head, but it is long and somewhat centered on my head.  well, when we meet, you'll C!

one of my UTR providers is a nudist.  Every time I go to her place she answers the door in the nude....  the first time I thought that just for me, but then I realized she was just a nudist - but what a turnon!!!!

See ya when you return to my city! hopefully

He'll love you )

...worrying whether she got everything written down on her grocery list for tomorrow, before said-dufus-hobbyist shows up and consumes the rest of her evening...

Just my 2 cents after 15 years hobbying...  

excited. Someone mentioned a blind date earlier, and that's exactly what it feels like to me. I have always loved blind dates and this gives me plenty of them. I love the gents who take the time to tell me about themselves, because that way I feel like I am meeting a friend. If I have met the gentleman before I am even more excited (if I like him) because I know what is coming. My body also always remembers a good time.

When I am in my hotel room and I have sent my "caller'' the room number I am waiting for him to arrive. Checking myself in the mirror, adjusting my boobs in my top, and checking my phone one last time before I put it away. I do not get nervous before meeting new clients, it is second nature to me by now. I am thinking that I want to get him inside nice and quietly and then make his night!!

would picture the elephant man, almost everyone has a chance to look a little better. Then they won't cringe at who comes a knocking.

For me it depends on if I have seen the gentleman before or if its a first timer. If it is a regular, I go over what we have done in the past and remember the little things that he specifically liked. If its a first timer, my heart races a little in anticipation and excitement. I have had first timers that looked nothing like their photo because it was taken so long ago and I wasnt sure if it was the same person!....lol

Hmmmmmmmm.......

http://youtu.be/Vlroey2IllY

...many facets to my personality...