I have the opposite problem of ED. I stay hard as a rock the whole session but sometimes can’t finish.  (I don’t watch too much porn and I don’t masturbate too often (once or twice a week)).  Is this an insult to the ladies?  They usually see it as a challenge.    

The "challenge" to make you cum is part of that process.  If they can get you to cum they can get you out on time.

I seem to have the same problem. I can go a very long time before cumming. Every woman I have been with has remarked.  
“Are you going to cum?”
If wearing a cover, almost never. They seem disappointed, and maybe they think it’s their problem. Sometimes it is, sometimes not. I tell them it isn’t that there is something lacking with them. I won’t blame them for my problem.
If they ever know how long I have gone before cumming, they wouldn’t feel so bad. I don’t always finish in an hour.
The only reliable exception is a really good prostate massage..  Bingo! I have to really work to keep going .

Then there’s that little self doubt that will creep in.But they get over it very quickly.
Of course I’m referring to the ladies who take this shit seriously.
The CG’s and low renters won’t give a shit.

Then it's not the typical SSRI antidepressant failure-to-finish side. The SSRI effect is very well documented in the literature the manufacturers distribute with every prescription. If you don't have that anymore, WebMD, Mayo, and other web sites state the effect very clearly.
 
No, if you can cum, just not in the company of hookers, it's a mental thing. What may help, and BBFS providers love, is for you to finish the job yourself. Get yourself to the point you're ready to come, pull out, and jerk off onto her whatever. It can be hot to watch your cum pooling on her belly, dripping off a nipple, or what have you.  
 
As an alternative, have you asked them for a HJ when you're ready? I still love watching my cum drip down over they're hands. It's hot.

Is whether YOU care?  If YOU care, book a longer session, if you don’t, let them know and they won’t care either.  

Medications are not the problem, I have no trouble finishing solo.  Last time I was able to finish when she finally used her hand.  I actually didn’t jerk off for two weeks before my last session thinking I would be ready to explode.  Turns out, that was a huge mistake, it was very hard to finish. Next time I will jerk off the day before.  I’m always horniest the following day for some reason.  

Maybe it's the condom then. Seems like the past year or so I have more trouble getting over the finish line. I would never even suggest BB, so I don't know for sure.  

When I was in my forties I could last for as long as I wanted to, back then i was in great shape and really enjoyed being inside of a young lady and wouldn’t cum for a long time, now that am in my sixties I sometimes have a hard time staying hard, but I still have a wonderful time, I just enjoy being in the company of a beautiful woman, I had stopped  p4p for awhile because it was frustrating for me, not to be able to finish, but since I got back in I have found just hanging out with a awesome provider is just as rewarding as it was when I had no problem finishing!

Stee,  
  I know that I do care (Only because when I am with a client. It's for mostly pleasure purposes). My question is on a scale of 1-100. What is your satisfaction level?! I mean I always get the highest satisfaction that I possibly can get with each client. If you are ever in Atlantic City, NJ. Then Text me and let me know the things that you want to do.

Isn't it somewhat paradoxical that you, who claims to have this deep connection with your clients, who adore you and you reciprocate back, wouldn't care if the guy climaxes or not..

there are other reasons she may not care. Maybe she's just not being judgmental? Or maybe she knows there may be a medical reason that has nothing to do with her service?
PS: Don't worry, I'll go back to being a miserable prick in 5...4...3...2..1...
ROR!

Telling us you are impotent.

I honestly just want you to have a good time. Relax and do not feel pressured if you can or can not release. I know that sometimes there are factors; E.D, medications or nerves; which If that is the case let it be known before hand. Letting us know will make the session more enjoyable for both.

Definitely not impotent..  Just ask ya mom... She will tell ya..

You worse than a granny-fucker. You're a great-granny fucker!
Ew.

Douche and scum trying to gang up because neither are good enough either together or individually. The mom reply, and your felching partner has to chime in too, pathetic.  Typical replies from the low life scum of the earth .

You must not have heard of advancement in AI.  Now you can take recording of a person's voice and make that person say outrageous things. There are funny videos making rounds on Social Media where Bush, Clinton, Obama, Dump, and Biden are playing Minecraft on Discord, and they talk outrageous shit..  

As a true professional I know that there are many factors to play here. Personally, climaxing is not everything. Depending on your personal issues it may not even be a possibility. Having a hard cock that works sounds great, do you make the ladies climax? You may have a lot on your mind. Stress is a big factor.

You respond right on cue like the well-trained slave you are.  Your reliably repetitive and dim-witted reply is duly noted but utterly predictable. Just like your always thin skin.

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I really have no problem with it.  Like I said, I enjoy the whole process and finishing is just one part of it.  I will certainly let the ladies know from now on.  

I've had this problem for years and initially felt shame and embarrassment bringing it up to providers.  I thought they would take it personally and I usually overcompensated with the "It's not you, it's me" talk.  Just like the OP, the problem is the opposite of ED, truly opposite as he describes.  I can get hard and stay that way for an hour of longer, no blue pills needed.  But finishing is far from the main reason I do this.  I am looking for intimacy, companionship, and yes sex, but my pleasure is pleasuring.  

No, it does not bother me if you are not able to. But some gents unfortunately want orgasm to be the goal and that can take away from a fun session. It only bothers me if a client acts like it is *my* fault, which thankfully seldom happens. The journey is often the most fun, not always the destination.

It's tough to cum nowadays for us oldies.....(mid 50's)
especially with a condom.

I don't mind at all if my client finish or not as I understand every men is different, and I've had a good handful of men who come in just to enjoy me and my service without the need to finish.  So if you don't mind, it would be great to communicate that.  

Mid 50s is NOT old....you have a ways to go buddy!!!

I realize I have no problem finishing while looking at some of the porn I pleasure myself with.  Would providers be insulted if I wanted to look at my phone during a session?  Do many guys want to do this?

Look man, if you can't nut with a 3D woman, you have two options, one, swear off 3D women altogether, buy a fleshlight, call it a day. Or two, get yourself right.  

I admit that going after your mom was a very cheap pot shot even by my ultra low standards.  

Are you bragging again?  Lol

You are correct that I need to make some changes.  I'm in good shape, the problem is 100% mental.  It's not that I jerk off too much it's that I never get to have sex (that's a whole other story).  The rare times I do get to have sex, it's a completely different experience than I'm used to.

You took the bait and fell for it hook line and sinker and are still
 Stealing, copying and plagiarizing my lines, sayings and phrases from the P&R board. Obviously you wrote them down for future use. It is understandable though, since you look up to me and admire me that you do so.  

You were doing so well until you totally lost control (again) and couldn't help yourself by posting again on an ancient thread and using another one of your feeble Urban Dictionary put-downs to boot.
What a pathetic spectacle you are.
And you don't even know it.
I own your wrinkled, old ass.

For the last word that
you take the bait again.
You are so easy to control and manipulate.

It’s kinda understood that we’re here to help w your release of pressure. Dicks that don’t  cum are more work. When u don’t cum, a lady will likely find herself searching for a solution. It takes a while to realize that these penises are responding like a Strap-On.  So the job is “connecting “ w the person, the human,  and that’s a deeper level of work. Maybe let her know upfront so she doesn’t spend all her energy trying to breathe life into a dead horse.

Let me just say that you are a lucky guy.  I wish I had that issue.  It has taken my years to not climax within 10 minutes,  and I watch TONS of porn and jerk off at least twice a week.  Once, I was in your predicament, and I told my ATF that "it was okay.  I didn't need to cum."  I'm not in this hobby for the orgasm, I like the excitement and the variety.   Of course, my ATF wasn't having it.  She said, "lie back" and went to town on my cock with her mouth and hand until I came.

Also, a work ethic thing and they are providers, so they are going to provide!
It's their job, is how the girls I see, see it.

them about the porn, some might not, but I bet most will!
Or show it to them and ask for them to duplicate the moves!

I agree with CDL.

I agree. Guys, You should email the female first or text her and lay everything out on the line.

For many years, I saw a lady in LV that for a time was known as one of the top ladies in LV.  If it said her name, some of you would recognize her.  But she retired a few years ago.  So, I will not mention it.  Anyway, what she told me (and I have heard this from several ladies) is that you don't have to climax to have a good time.  The important thing is to have a good time and a lady will do everything within reason to make sure that happens.  If u don't climax don't sweat it.  Its not the end of the world.   I suppose when u are in your 20's you probably fill a bit asharmed.  But the older gents (like me) will know what I mean.

Hi Steve,

Some do others don't. They tell you that they don't but if you're attentive enough you'd see a shade pass over their faces sometimes.  

Last week I saw a provider for FS and followed up the next day to get a massage at a CMP with HJ completion.  Then Wed I get an unexpected text from my recent hottest thing on the market who wanted to see me; I had to rose to the special request of course!  She gives me an extended 90 session and we went hard in multiple positions, it was hot and sexy the whole way through but still I didn’t cum. She had another appointment to tend to so time  was out and I was happy regardless.  Then she tells me to come back tomorrow around the same time and she will tel po she’s going outside 😱.  I couldn’t believe she was going to follow through but sure enough the next day she text me and we met again… I lasted about 5 min and came hard!!! She spends the rest of our 45 min time together chatting with me and I gave her a massage.  We’ll be long term partners!

Agreed!