How was it the right call? You asked nothing, you learned nothing and she made nothing.
with your decision. It's your perogative to ask as its hers to decline.
But the final decision is yours ... it's your money. I started to offer some suggestions until I checked you out. Are you a newbie or a veteran of the wars? Answered.
With 45 reviews I'm surprised you're even asking the question. Don't you know this shit yet?
btw, you don't mention anything about her pro pics or looks. Is she hot, beautiful? Same for her reviews. No mention! Maybe you can share a link to her revews?
I think you're still in the pre-rude phase of exploration
You could have said "with all due respect such and such I've been burned in the past with photos and would really appreciate if you could send a selfie (fully clothed need be), I"m no crazy photo-collector I just want to make sure it's you" that she probably would have understood. I know I would have, you hear and you see everything in this industry a sensible provider would have understood.
You should never be afraid to ask something...always remember this...every session you have with a provider is a fantasy, with that said in your fantasy things go the way you want them to go. So you asking question regardless of how "rude" it might be isn't going to ruin your fantasy. Trust me.
I do think that asking for a picture and continuously asking for pictures for your personal spank bank are two very different things. If you genuinely want to see her but want to see the untouched version then that's perfectly OK.
I regularly post candid photos of myself so that clients can see that I am who I say I am without having to ask me for more photos. I don't think it's rude to ask for them, necessarily, but I always decline to do it when asked. The way I see it is, if you're still unsure about meeting after seeing my website, reviews, ads, and Twitter account... you should probably just find someone else lol.
Some providers expose themselves more than others (pics, blogs, websites, etc). If she is not doing a good job sealing the deal (in other words if her marketing is not enough for u to pick up the phone) then you should just move on to someone you feel comfortable seeing based on her marketing and how she presents herself.
If whatever u can find online about her is not enough. It must be because that's the level of comfort in which she thinks should be enough to get costumers. You asking for more than what she's willing to provide, shows lack of confidence in your decision making and shows distrust towards her.
Not a good combination. When people ask me for pictures.... I just ignore that person, because I think I put a lot of effort and time into my marketing. If that's not enough to seal the deal, I don't wanna meet that potential client. Seasoned hobbyists are usually more observant to these little details.
Asking for personalized pics can lead to dragging conversations and explicit talk.
If what you have seen isn't enough to convince you then move on.
I guess it all depends on how much you wanted to see her. Since you dropped it so easily, I have to assume you weren't all that interested.
Speaking strictly for myself, if it were me and I was very attracted to the "woman in the pictures" I would simply book the appointment, but with the caveat if IMO she turns out to be something other than the hottie in the pics, I reserve the right to walk without paying a dime.
If she takes it the wrong way, you're out. Probably better to move on to the next one.
Its not rude to ask for a picture if all they have are professional pictures. While pro pics are great, having a mix of the two seems like it would be more authentic!
