The end-all, be-all?

I ask only because just today I had a really uncomfortable session with a client I've seen before without any faults. The chemistry just wasn't there today, (it was our first full-menu session compared to just the erotic massage,) and it felt forced to me and awkward. After thirty-minutes of this, I kissed him and told him I wouldn't charge him for this session and explained to him what we both already knew- This doesn't feel right!  

Now I understand that there isn't going to be chemistry with every session and part of being a Professional is knowing how to deal with that and make it comfortable for the client but today was just AWFUL.

He is a very active voice in the TER community and though he has already reviewed me, I'm so upset that he may go and alter that review with a terrible perception of me.  

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Especially since you gave him is money back. If he does, he is a complete jerk and a douche bag that you might want never to see again.  

See this is why there should be a rebuttal allowed for decent hookers who actually care about the service and their reputation as you do, BECAUSE you refunded his money.

I hope he is not one of the assholes that reside here for your sake.

By the way, for all those folks who complain about aliases, this would have been a great post to post as an alias.  

Maybe now you can have make up sex!

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I call BS

I can't believe the people who hide behind aliases....WHY??????

Wow! That was nice of you to not charge. Could be he had something on his mind and couldn't get into it. Happened once with me where things didn't go as good as normal with someone I have great chemistry with. Though she knew all about what was going on with me as we have become friends. If that was the case he will probably be back to make things up to you. Best of luck!

It takes 2 to tango & perhaps you were nervious in this newly upgraded service.  But you made a right call & were more than fair.  I hope he sees it likewise & omits a review.

You did the right thing and frankly more than most providers by not charging him. You may be worried about nothing if he's active he should know better. We are not supposed to fuck each other over, but it does happen and your best bet is to let it roll off of you and wait for karma because she's a real bitch and always seems to have the last word.  

Uh she's a provider so it's understandable to the adults...

I have a feeling he will reach back out.  

Check your personal message. It will put things in perspective.

with my former favorite lady. It came out of nowhere and left me feeling "what the F just happened?" Everything went wrong.She was hyper sensitive. preoccupied and towards the end of the appointment she actually jumped off the bed when I sat down next to her. kind of freaked me out.

 I saw her 6 months later and it was one of the best times I've ever had with her. go figure.  

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Nobody is always at their best;  missunderstandings or less than stellar sessions eventually will happen.  In this community, it is all too easy to find fault, get angry, move away and then on to someone else.  A short amount of time, patience, and reflection can actually enhance the " chemistry" and understanding for the next and future get togethers.