I don't think the intent is to inflict irreversible bodily harm.
I have one bf... He leaves crazy messages. "cant wait to see you sat. Balls deep!, ATM!"
he jokes when we are together and says things like remember what I said your working for me now!
we joke around back n forth pretty hard. I smack him repeatedly in face when we fuck and I am on top!
The way he does it all his tone he is so funny! The messages are so funny. He loves to say "balls deep." .. I had another fuck buddy civvie. He at one time would pick me up and drop me off to hotels in a black leather jacket and he is this smokn hot tony soprano esque italian stallion.We discussed how it made him look and us feel like he is a pimp and how he figured that probly makes me all horny. Sometimes there s something hot about the guy being in control and you are his little fuck toy sex slave whore cum slut just the thought and role playing a bit in that way.
Then sometimes its just fun to smack a guy across the face while your ridin him. and say how you like that huh? huh? you want to get knocked around little bitch? then bend his legs behind his head and fuck him like a bitch with your strap on.
The balls deep guy he is also full blooded italian and smoking hot.
I like being the bitch in charge. But i like the scenerio where i am a cowering frightened little girl getting taken advantage of by this overpowering alpha male thats gonna just come n take me.
ok now your fav scenerios!
I bet alot guys will say school girl scenerio. i hate that one . its boring.
The balls deep guy only likes hard core pse .
Bet you'd like to slap The Dungbeetle this hard.
PS: Based on this post and the ones below, you are as horny as a rutting minx today. Wish I was there. Sounds like you need to make a booty call.
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She secretly posts all that dumb shit he says (his posts are ads).
The Dung Beetle is a male submissive, his clients are the TER "man hatters"...
Just being in his presence makes them feel oh so masculine.
WOW..i think the roles should be reversed..you write dirty shit better than most of the reviewers on here..i would love you to be my " fuck toy sex slave whore cum slut "..most of the guys i know cannot bring it like you do..love you Angel. you have cum a long way..
he jokes when we are together and says things like remember what I said your working for me now!
we joke around back n forth pretty hard. I smack him repeatedly in face when we fuck and I am on top!
The way he does it all his tone he is so funny! The messages are so funny. He loves to say "balls deep." .. I had another fuck buddy civvie. He at one time would pick me up and drop me off to hotels in a black leather jacket and he is this smokn hot tony soprano esque italian stallion.We discussed how it made him look and us feel like he is a pimp and how he figured that probly makes me all horny. Sometimes there s something hot about the guy being in control and you are his little fuck toy sex slave whore cum slut just the thought and role playing a bit in that way.
Then sometimes its just fun to smack a guy across the face while your ridin him. and say how you like that huh? huh? you want to get knocked around little bitch? then bend his legs behind his head and fuck him like a bitch with your strap on.
The balls deep guy he is also full blooded italian and smoking hot.
I like being the bitch in charge. But i like the scenerio where i am a cowering frightened little girl getting taken advantage of by this overpowering alpha male thats gonna just come n take me.
ok now your fav scenerios!
I bet alot guys will say school girl scenerio. i hate that one . its boring.
The balls deep guy only likes hard core pse .
It's kind of a very sad back story, but she told me it was the only way she could come.
I'm not a real dominant kind of guy, but I am warming to the idea of being smacked around or whipped myself by a stern mistress who will reward me with some kinky stuff in due time.
There is a lot to the type of "power play" you are talking about. For some it can be a fun play time. For some it is a lifestyle choice. For some it can cross the line into abuse. The key is two consenting adults that have fun together. In the escort world it is difficult to move beyond "play time" as deeper levels of play require much deeper levels of trust. If you have built that with your regulars...more power to you! (pun intended)
I am primarily Dom, but have a switch side that occasionally would like to be controlled by a woman. I am not particularly masochistic and prefer more control play than BDSM, but as a Dom I function well with control and BDSM. I have been warming up to the idea of strap on play...when are you coming to DC next?
JB
by how one can switch from a dominate position to a submissive one?
I see that switch as someone having a preferred position(either dom or sub), but then, depending on whom they are with and the dynamic, feel comfortable switching. Kind of like bisexuality, the grey area between heterosexuality and homosexuality.
I came to this reasoning as it seems to be logical to me. I am not a part of that world so I am not versed in what actually goes on or the correct definitions
I don't understand why a person would want to switch?
I think it boils down to personal preference, but how can you have a preference if you can go either way?
Some people are bi but have a leaning toward one sex in particular. I would hesitate to say many ladies who are bisexual in this game lean more toward men but if a type of woman that they were attracted to came along, she would happily indulge.
To address the preference angle, sort of like this analogy, I like chicken and fish. One day I desire more chicken and on another day, the fish appeals to me. My overall preference is for chicken and I consume more chicken than fish.
you can't use analogies to explain something, it never works
is just that. A preferred way of approaching something. It does not mean I ALWAYS approach something the same way.
I PREFER hot fudge sundae's, but sometimes I want strawberry or caramel.
that you should have said "dominant." The word "dominate" is a verb, as in "to dominate." The poster doesn't get off on being dominant.
You're Welcome, and don't disturb Conan again.
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What if I said, I get off on being a fuck?
I'm using the word "fuck" as a noun in that sentence.
...but if I said I really want to fuck her.
I would be using the word "fuck" as a verb.
What's it called when a word can be used as a noun and a verb, but the spelling doesn't change?
BTW I thought dominate looked kind of strange after I saw it. ![]()
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The word "fuck" can be a noun or a verb. Dominate can't be. So says Conan.
It is forbidden, or at least that's what Bigvern said, all in good clean/dirty fun. There is included those who like clean and those with a preference for dirty
They just distract me from the topic at hand?
That and they never make sense to me...kind of like you don't have an argument.
I like asking questions, that have no definite answer.
...and if you prefer women to men, and you are a female. That makes you a lesbian.
There are many people for whom switching is a natural state! I'd get bored being in the dominant role all the time or being in the submissive role all the time. (Although there are definitely people out there who do pick one role and stick to it). Kink is so much more than just the D type and s type interaction- the dynamics between two (or more!) kinksters are incredibly varied and subtle, and can sometimes change at the drop of a hat.
Some people I exclusively top, some people I exclusively bottom to. It depends on our personal dynamic. I have to say, though, my favorite way to play is fighting it out... It brings out something totally primal in me. I can already feel my heart rate going up and the claws coming out just thinking about it
PS. joebunda90, great post. I have a hard time explaining BDSM concisely to vanilla folks- you were spot on.
Edit: It's not just that I would be bored if I couldn't switch- I would be totally unfulfilled. I need to be able to have both of those types of interaction in my life to maintain happiness. Sounds overdramatic, but kink is such an integral part of my sexual make-up and life!
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Robin,
Thanks for chiming in. It sounds like you have matured well beyond your years with your understanding of this.
The layers and subtleties can get very complex and often defy labels. Learning and understanding a new partnerthat is part of the joy.
JB
Was an intricate part of the experience.
It is, if power exchange is the experience you're talking about. It doesn't *always* have to be the same dynamic, unless you're talking 24/7 TPE- and that type of interaction is pretty nonexistent in P4P situations. With good reason.
Maybe I'm confusing domination and submission, with a session leaning on the kinky side?
This is why I ask questions, some of the response read as I don't understand what a preference is.
(I haven't read every post, so someone else might have said this.)
This is for SOME cases, not all:
A person with someone MORE dom becomes submissive. That same person with someone more SUB becomes dominant.
In the animal kingdom, a new Big Dog (chimp, monkey, coyote, etc) comes along and takes over the pack and the former alpha male "dom" is either crawling and subbing to the newbie or leaves the pack. If the new Big Dog gets snuffed in a fight, accident, hunted, it's not long before a former sub becomes the new dom
I've been pretty dominant and to describe me as a sub would be huge mistake.
However, some of my favorite encounters involve me being somewhat sub, i.e "topping from the bottom"
For reading this. Angel's stream of consciousness is both oddly entertaining and makes my head hurt.
You go girl!!
and chat a bit before as foreplay. HOT!
in 'that' tone and only 'he' could pull it off...........
"Good girl." lol
I'll let your imagination roam as to the events that transpired. So far, he's the only successful one to pull that one off with me.
School girl scenario seems creepy in my opinion . To each their own .
No school girls outfits in my closet .
Angel you sound like fun .
Did you let him choose the strap on size ?
I got slapped a lot harder than that when she found out I did her sister .
Good post Angel .
he jokes when we are together and says things like remember what I said your working for me now!
we joke around back n forth pretty hard. I smack him repeatedly in face when we fuck and I am on top!
The way he does it all his tone he is so funny! The messages are so funny. He loves to say "balls deep." .. I had another fuck buddy civvie. He at one time would pick me up and drop me off to hotels in a black leather jacket and he is this smokn hot tony soprano esque italian stallion.We discussed how it made him look and us feel like he is a pimp and how he figured that probly makes me all horny. Sometimes there s something hot about the guy being in control and you are his little fuck toy sex slave whore cum slut just the thought and role playing a bit in that way.
Then sometimes its just fun to smack a guy across the face while your ridin him. and say how you like that huh? huh? you want to get knocked around little bitch? then bend his legs behind his head and fuck him like a bitch with your strap on.
The balls deep guy he is also full blooded italian and smoking hot.
I like being the bitch in charge. But i like the scenerio where i am a cowering frightened little girl getting taken advantage of by this overpowering alpha male thats gonna just come n take me.
ok now your fav scenerios!
I bet alot guys will say school girl scenerio. i hate that one . its boring.
The balls deep guy only likes hard core pse .