For me, the choice is easy. The last time I saw my UTR ATF, I complained a bit at the beginning of our session that so many girls don't like for me to kiss them on the lips immediately after DATY - they seem not to like the taste of their own juices. So naturally, after I'd licked her to the first of several Os (I always try to give her at least 3 to each of my own), she pulled me up to her and slowly, longingly, licked my face clean. And then she whispered in my ear, "I LOVE the way my pussy juice tastes on your lips." Bingo!
It was nice to hear since I am not a 'wham bammer', preferring a longer date and bringing my own music playlist to enhance the desired pace of the intimacy.
"And I have a very secret "tupperware" party where 5 or 6 of my provider friends sit in a circle and I want you to show them what you can do with that mouth of yours. Anything that happens between you and them afterwards is your own business".
Unfortunately I have a hard time focusing on more than one thing nowadays (fast living in the 80's?) and I would have hated to disappointed so many ladies so it never happened. And I had images of led around the room with a leash and dog collar which was a bit disturbing and a little too much kink for me. Incredible invitation, though.
I usually think these things, but don't say them, out of fear for not sounding sincere. So I think if its said, she usually means it. We know that some things don't sound sincere, and don't say them. Or at least, I do.
For me, the choice is easy. The last time I saw my UTR ATF, I complained a bit at the beginning of our session that so many girls don't like for me to kiss them on the lips immediately after DATY - they seem not to like the taste of their own juices. So naturally, after I'd licked her to the first of several Os (I always try to give her at least 3 to each of my own), she pulled me up to her and slowly, longingly, licked my face clean. And then she whispered in my ear, "I LOVE the way my pussy juice tastes on your lips." Bingo!
My long-time ATF said this to me as our second appointment was ending about 7 years ago. I was her last appointment of the day and we decided to go have dinner at a Thai place down the street from her hotel that had been highly recommended. That was the start of what has been a great P4P business relationship but also a great friendship. Things like this are rare in the hobby but when it happens it's a a great fringe benefit to along with the amazing sex!
It seems as if the concensus is that you either want a good compliment on your skills in the bedroom, or you want to hear that you are wanted- that she isn't waiting for you to walk out that door.
I know - for me, as a provider, that I always want to be genuine with everyone I meet. I never want to seem fake, so there are times when I want to say something and don't out of fear that he will just think "oh she says this to everyone" so when I do give a compliment, it is something that I just can't help but saying.
I do notice that none of you have said much concerning providers complimenting your looks. Is it that they don't say it- or that if they do you don't believe it?
I finally got to watch American Courtesans, and one of the parts that stuck out to me the most, was when one of the ladies was talking about how she had a client who had some kind of disease that he couldn't walk, and that his mom would bring him to her, and all the other girls gave her a hard time about it. And she said he was her most important client because he couldn't make love to a woman, so she had to make love to him. That really touched me, and is something that I try to stand by in my work. I want to be what you are missing in the other parts of your life. So I always try to be genuine. So if you ever receive a compliment from me, know it is coming from that place - of really meaning it, not just saying it because I think I'm supposed to.
I really enjoy this thread - finally we're discussing something positive!
One lady said that I was the hottest guy she's met in the hobby, and meant it! It was a nice ego boost, but then it made me feel sad about all the schlubs she has to entertain (I'd rate myself an '8' IRL). But obviously looks aren't everything - I'd take a 5/10 over a 10/5 any day. Like everyone, I want to feel wanted.
For me, the choice is easy. The last time I saw my UTR ATF, I complained a bit at the beginning of our session that so many girls don't like for me to kiss them on the lips immediately after DATY - they seem not to like the taste of their own juices. So naturally, after I'd licked her to the first of several Os (I always try to give her at least 3 to each of my own), she pulled me up to her and slowly, longingly, licked my face clean. And then she whispered in my ear, "I LOVE the way my pussy juice tastes on your lips." Bingo!
Was visiting a city on buisness. After a first "date" I mentioned wanting to do a dinner type date and then some really wild stuff. Asked what the rate would be. She said something to the effect of "just buy me dinner and show me a good time" she was true to her word, spent a nice evening having dinner and then crossed a few things of my bucket list. A once in a lifetime, looking back I think it was a good safe fantasy for her too as I am several hundred miles away and likely wouldnt turn into a stalker. The whole experiance was like a real date, the whole night caressing and kissing even while waiting for our table and at stop lights in traffic. A pretty surreal experiance, we still keep in touch.
ok, if otc arrangements are on the table for "nice things a proviser ever said to me"...
i saw a lady recently and shared my fantasy about how i always wanted to tkae a lady shopping and have her try on sexy clothes for me in the store, all the time flirting and feelimg each other up in the aisles, with a bj in the parking lot, and then one on one time back in the hotel room, as she'd model the clothes i bought for her. haven't done this yet but i fully expect to pay the lady's rate for the whole evening, shopping, dinner & hotel room time included.
the lady in question made my heart (and other parts) glad when me she told me she'd love to do that, and only ask for the room time, w/shopping & dinner off the clock. we are waiting for the holidays and crowded malls to be over to try this.
actually, i can't say i've ever truly believed the ladies when they tell me how sexy i am or how handsome i am or that i am their favorite; but actions speak louder than words. many girls have let me enjoy their company for measurably longer than contracted for; one girl even let me at the end of the session get fully dressed and kiss her goodbye, which lead to dfk, which lead to clothes off and round 3...
to me, a little extra over time is even better than a "you are so sexy." it seems to me that showing me how much they enjoy my company means so much more than telling me. and trust me, these are the ladies i see again and be sure to tip well...
That was the nicest thing a provider has ever said to me. Other favorites - "You eat pussy like a girl", "You kiss like a girl" and "I should be paying you." I offered to let her pay, but she didn't really mean it
The first one was why don't you stay for the rest of evening (another 3 hours) and I will only charge you for only $$ (1/2 her hourly rate)? I was her last client of the day. Still, that was very generous of her. We fucked like rabbits that evening until I was completedly worn out. The second one was why don't I take you out for a night on the town (OTC of course)? This was after we already had a great romp in the sack. She even bought me champagne. We had a great evening dining at a nice restaurant and then listening to some nice blues at a club. She also gave me a tour of the town in her nice SUV. The first one was pure carnal while the second one was very romantic. It is hard to choose which one.
For me its the experience, how I'm treated and her response.
One was wondering how the hell she could have peed in my mouth while I was licking and sucking on her clit and pussy--immediately remembered about "gushers"; the second one a little while later surprised me.
Since I'm a night owl, falling asleep while we are relaxing toward the end of a meeting, feels like a compliment to me. I assign trusting, very relaxed feelings rather than exhaustion, which I can usually sense, to that occurrence
Was only in the room for 5 minutes during my first-ever session and I was nervous and apprehensive, and insecure, and standing there with my pants down with a semi. I was as inexperienced as you can be in EVERY way. She had looked at me with her mouth open and eyebrows raised, so I thought something was wrong and thus nervously queried her. When she gave her reply (which of course was more expansive), this 5 foot nothing (to steal a phrase from "Rudy") guy suddenly felt like a king. She was also a real sweetheart, a perfect first date.
Another lady telling me "You could be in porn" comes in second, certainly another line a guy doesn't easily forget!
Would you like to pop into the office for some sexy fun? request from a regular. This was invitation to help her entertain one of her gentlemen. big smiles all round. Hard work I know but I had to provide a live sex show.
Not sure why this still thrills me everytime I replay it in my head, but it does.
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Would you like to pop into the office for some sexy fun? request from a regular. This was invitation to help her entertain one of her gentlemen. big smiles all round. Hard work I know but I had to provide a live sex show.
But the most recent one was after a multi-hour session with a wonderful DC lady. There was a real connection, and as I was about to get dressed and leave, and she says "You're my last appointment today, stay as long as you like." Ah, bliss..
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