Is it normal for standard, GFE sessions to eventually become boring to you?
I used to be perfectly satisfied with a slow, sweet, GFE encounter but I am becoming really bored with "normal" encounters the longer Im a provider.
If a guy isnt pinning my ankles behind my ears and banging the sh*t out of me, kinky, talking dirty, aggressive, face f*cking, CO (F, B), I am not really into it.
Is this hobby like drugs? -- At first, its good but eventually, you need stronger stuff to get the same excitement?
Anyone else find themselves getting bored with normal sessions? Maybe I should retire before I start doing midgets and donkeys. (JK)
In a way they're right. In another way it's only natural. A 15yo adolescent male needs VERY little encouragement to have wood and/or climax. By 25 we're looking for High heels, fishnets, etc to accessorize and further stimulate. By 40 we're looking for carnality that would have scared the shit out of us 20 years prior. By 45 we're unconscionable, sodded perverts.
I'm 55 now, and although I have no desire for "midgets and donkeys" I DO however derive great pleasure from MANY things that would make the Church Ladies head explode.
Me, my self, and I can probably leave you satisfied like no man has done before. lol Not really. I'm very vanilla and "normal"... prolly bore someone like you to death but I completely agree with you that the typical stuff are getting boring....
I recently saw a porn flic where the girl does ATM constantly... I thought that was very wild but something I'm not into and don't find very arousing. But it's pretty damn dirty alright and if a girl wants to do it, well I guess I'll comply. lol It did get me thinking though, how the hell did they get her ass-pipe/tube so clean that there aren't any traces of her recent meal or a hint of fudge stains. HD quality porn shows these details and I couldn't find em. I'm sure there are traces when it's really magnified but it wasn't visible. Maybe those actresses did the colonoscopy cleansing thing and then drank water for 2 whole days?
Another wild thing a lady I know seems to like so much for some bizarre reason is, during a doubles session she wanted me to cum ON another girls punani and let it drip, just so she can lick it all off.
Kinda too wild for my innocent virgin eyes... but I can't complain. ha
gateway to banging midgets and donkeys. But you can probably have lots of fun until you hit rock bottom. Somewhere during that descent to hell you will find yourself lusting for genuine jackasses. Please contact ME at that point.
but on the other hand, the majority of gals I see are into mostly vanilla GFE, and they are so good at what they do, that I never get tired of them. It's a routine but a comfortable and enriching ceremony that I look forward to and which rejuvenates me.
On the other hand, I've met some new gals lately who do some kinky stuff and I find that invigorating too.
I think the lesson is that we need to find what balance works best for us, and don't be afraid to change things up now and then.
What I look for in the gals that I see is the activities that I couldn't/didn't get from the wife. Not that I wasn't trying to get her to "increase her menu", but she didn't want to explore.
Hence I see gals here for what could be a great GFE session, but I also concur with HH on delving into "taboo" activities.
But I don't have a lot of interest in midgets and donkeys, and there are some other BDSM (fetish) related activities I have no interest in. But the ones I do I find gals that are willing to indulge me
And it certainly doesn't seem like there is any shortage of gals that appeal to me that are not OK with exploring edges!
As I get older I find myself liking vanilla more and more but at the same time I prefer women who offer a full box of chocolates. Even though I don't usually feel compelled to eat the whole box of chocolates in one sitting it is nice to know the other flavors are there if I happen to be in the mood.
I hear ya, I have same issue with providers. Alot have "don't do this or don't do that". Most want basic wham bam thank you mam and be done with it! so many times I want to say what Homer Simpson says "Boring". I have met a few who are into rough kinky stuff but they are usually not around that much or are butt ugly etc.!!
Most guys, including me, probably feel they have to be a little careful not to reveal their true kinky nature, for fear of scaring you off. Because let's face it, for every one like you, there are two that wouldn't be happy about a client getting more physical with them.
My biggest complaint is that most providers have a set program they follow, and yes, that does get boring because it's predictable and kills spontaneity. But it's what they feel comfortable doing, so they stick to the program. As a result, my experiences with providers have ALL been less exciting than sex with my various GFs over the years, and that's been my biggest disappointment in the hobby.
If a woman tells me she likes a good physical fuck, then I'll toss her around like a rag doll if that's what she wants. And face fucking? You don't need to ask twice!
I think most guys on this board would love the opportunity to get you out of your sexual malaise if you gave them a few hints that it's OK to do so. Whether providers or GFs, it's women that set the boundaries of what's OK, so just let your men know you're tired of vanilla and want a little Rocky Road.
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