Marry a young-un and marry often, lol

That's how I can tell when I am falling out of love, I quit putting her first.

Women get turned off to sex when the idea of luring a guy is off the table when we finally say " I do"?
After reading the posts and talking to other dudes, I wonder what gives. Most clients who are married will complain about no or little sex, and the women use childbirth, menopause , pain during intercourse and any number of reasons to say no.
It seems it's a lure and bs. Why do we bother? The hopes that the hot chick we marry will stay hot? That she will continue to want us and swallow? Do we look at those other guys and all feel that wont be us? WTF?

good question!
one thing is for sure, i wouldn't mind trying another LTR with the right women, the right women for me that is. ( gonna be fair to females and say, their are good ones out there)
i've been with a few ladies,where the sex has been, just as good as with a provider, but, they have other issues i don't want to deal with!!!  
Then the ones who have their heads on straight, suck in the sack!!
just can't seem to win at the relationship game these days.

*Tiz why we PFP*

Very good point!
We put everyone and everything ahead of the one we love.
Having date nght is very good advice!!!

Men marry women thinking that they won't change.

Women marry men thinking that they will.

well put.
i made to broad of a statement!
i did put her 1st for many,many, yrs, and to her, it didn't amount to a hill of beans.
a person can only be expected to take so much!

Went from living in a brand new $300,000 house on the golf course, to living in a motel on a weekly basis!!
Ya know, i don't give a shit, i'm happy!!!!
So, to you out call ladies, i already have a room!!!!   lol

We get bored with you too.. we want something new.. we know your routine, we know your technique..etc, etc.. and yes, she is still pissed off because you didn't do............

it is not lady like, polite or nice to say to your spouse. Honey, I love you but can iI suck another ?

I was married for a while and loved my husband.. sex stopped. I was bored and frustrated and horny alot until the minute he wanted to...........( even I was confused by it) Guess what.. He left me.. we lacked honesty amoung many other things.. The sex was even good..

Also, those little comments you make.. about stretch marks or size. etc, etc.. you can't take back.. she always remembers those things.. she takes those to bed............. It's hard to feel sexy when she knows you just need to get your fix..........( this is an art that takes a certain mindset)

I love sex and I love my side job.. but that does not mean I want to spend my life with you

And it can go both ways.. I was married previously, got hitched at 19 & HE was the one that started getting lazy.. personal hygiene, lazy, didn't want to work.. the last straw was, when he didn't even want to watch the kids while I went to work all day & nite.. yea, bye, bye, lol Communication is key in relationships, & there are good women & good men out there.. you may have one, & not even know it, as you don't communicate like you use to in the beginning. Many couples also become "comfortable" with each other as the years go by. There are so many different variables, as every person is different, there really is no way to determine how the relationship will be 10 years from now.. I guess it's kinda a YMMV situation.

But women are still more likely to do more of the housework and more of the child-raising than the husbands, even when both are working, and often even if both are working equally. This can lead not only to tiredness from having to work so hard even after paid work is done, but it can also lead to resentment. And guess what is often the first to go when the woman starts resenting the man? SEX.