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Providers and John’s, I need help getting a provider birth control pills.
IJMiggs 1845 reads
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A provider/friend of mine doesn’t have health insurance.  I promised her that I would help her and was hoping that I would receive some assistance on this  site.  For all you guys/gals buying Viagra or Cialis online from online pharmacies, can you please let me know who are they best sites?  I will let me little angel pick out her pills and I will be sure to cover the cost.  Thanks in advance.

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-- Modified on 6/17/2020 12:24:58 AM

...organizations.  There is usually very little or no charge at all.  She can contact NARAL, The Center for Reproductive Rights or the National Women's Health Network to find a clinic near her.

of the old saying, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink."  I assume this is in preparation for BBFS between the two of you?  What assurances will you have that she is taking them?  When she starts, it takes about ten days to be fully effective against pregnancy.  In the interim, accidental pregnancy is still possible.  Are you going to monitor her dosing regimen?  

 
Unless you WANT to be her baby-daddy, this seems a little sketchy to me, but I'm known to be suspicious of things that look TGTBT.  If she's a provider more than a friend, this also portends that she will be doing BBFS with her other customers, which increases YOUR risk of STD.  The fact that she doesn't have an OB-GYN of her own seems suspicious to me, as well, especially if she's a provider, as you say, unless, of course, she's underage and needs her parents' permission.  

 
In this situation, which I have been in only once, we chose to use a spermicide.  If you use it properly, its nearly as effective as a BC pill.  She injects it into her VJ before you start (its deep near the cervix, so does not interfere with DATY), then she flushes it out with water or a douche solution, along with your dead swimmers, after you are finished. The most obvious drawback is it gets a little messy if you are doing MSOG.  Its a little bit time-consuming so not practical for her to use with ALL of her customers, but if you are someone special to her (more than her typical customers), which was my situation, she should be willing to put in the extra effort to get you your BBFS.  

... the old saying, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink."

I thought it was, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't lead a horticulture."

Originally, it was . . . . "You can lead a horse to water, but a pencil must be lead."

IJMiggs104 reads

You have been in a situation with an underage escort?  That is extremely illegal, wrong, and you should be given the George Floyd neck restraint.   Don’t you ever try doing that with such innocent youth again!

being obtuse for humor's sake.    I can't imagine anyone who got past grade school being so stupid that they don't understand that a paragraph break introduces a new thought or topic unrelated to the prior one.  

randomly getting BC pills is very dangerous..     women's bodies require a delicate hormonal balance.   she must see an MD for this.   there is a great variety of BC pills, it is certainly NOT a one size fits all.   most women wind up on a different pill than they first get prescribed   so any full time provider must have a regular MD ....  to do so otherwise is foolish on her part.  

and as others have stated if this is in regards to having BBFS ...  again not a good plan.   even if you are the "only" one women's gyn area is sensitive and requires scheduled MD visits.    even You can cause complications.    

so ..  she needs an MD ..  planned parenthood is a good start til she can afford a private one.  

IJMiggs83 reads

Thank you for the advice!  My provider friend has been on the birth control she needs for about a week and the grin on my face is ear to ear!

watch that grin ..  BC doesn't take effect for 30 days min.

haydenhightower91 reads

I seriously question any provider/lady that does not have enough initiative to take responsibility for her own sexual health.  No client should have to be doing this for a provider. It has to make one wonder how irresponsible and chaotic the rest of her life is....major red flag..

-- Modified on 6/30/2020 3:47:12 PM

In California, you can get a brief consult with a participating pharmacist and they'll prescribe them. Saw it on a sign at my local CVS in a Target store. Google it.

And there are online sources as well, with a consult.

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