Ok, ok...As you can see I am new to this board!  Just about two weeks ago, I was thinking of ALL of the things that I have done in my life, and the things that I want to do in my life!  It SUDDENLY came to my mind that I have NEVER hired an escort!  When I was 18, I thought that I wasnt a man until I bought my FIRST porn...Now, Im thinking about escorts!!  I am SO GLAD that I stumbled across this website and became a member!

Im in Memphis, TN, and travel through Nashville on my way to Atlanta a lot where I lived for 4 years!  Im trying to get my nerve up to actually do this thing!  There are SO many!

Anyways, I have also wanted to get my penis pierced!  I had rather have my tongue pierced, because oral rocks, but because of my profession, that is out of the question!  

Can anyone shed some light on the BEST pierce for stimulating BOTH partners!?!?

Also, will some providers NOT play with me because of it?

Thanks in advance for the help everyone!  Im REALLY enjoying it here!

DrBudBundy

I have a 4g Prince Albert - most women have enjoyed it, some quite a bit. A few haven't liked it which is no problem, I just take it out. None of the genital piercings are particularly stimulating for the man, but there are women who love them.

Regarding piercings, they are my dementia of choice, as they leave little telltale sign after they have been buried; i.e. a small scar, very unlike a tattoo which requires  much more dedication, thought and committment.  (That in and of itself requires some respect. )  But to make this short and sweet,

Another gent on the board ... I think actually it was on the Los Angeles Board brought this up once before ... wish I could direct you to the archive but perhaps another reader can.

As the owner of two pierced outerlabia, I can testify that as of at least 4-5 years ago, the Red Cross determined that any humanoid  pierced anywhere on the body is not allowed to give blood, even to a dying relative, for the period of one year.  This may or may not have changed ... the blood dept of Red Cross is a good place to check with this type of question.  

Your urine is sterile to you.  Only to you. Urine or secretions of another on you  can infect you for up to a period of at least 3 weeks.  But this was 5 years ago. Again, this may have changed.   I went to "The Gauntlett"  (has or had other outlets, NYC, London), but the one where I went in West Hollywood no longer exists.  I chose this outlet for their reputation of cleanliness, sterilization of instruments and handling thereof.  Also their professionalism with alternative sexual variances and/or preferences.

Regarding sexual practices, you will definitely need to either abstain or else do EVERYTHING in a protected fashion as pertains to your freshly bejeweled genetalia for that same three week period of time (particularly I refer to bj's, the rest is always covered, but of course.)  

Not that you asked, but I think pierced genetalia is sexy as hell, kind of a sexual surprise of a GOOD kind  Why not bejewel one's pleasure tool? I did it as a gift to myself for my birthday...jewelry i did not wish to remove when I worked out.  Also something secret, specially for a lover to discover... and when i discovered a lover's prince albert after having danced salsa with him for 3 months ... wow, i knew i had found the right guy!  (Course he's off impressing another lady now, lol!)

xoxo
ff

Oh..additionaly ... I forgot to mention that I did have a tongue piercing once, and it fell out...an hour later was too late to put back in, the hle had closed up.  I never bothered repiercing ... my dentist told me that tongue piercings cause a lot of cracked teeth.

The aftermath of a tongue piercing is fascinating ... one's tongue swells so there is little differentiation in what one is you are chewing ... food or tongue.  Go on a liquid diet of ice and cold things to keep the swelling down.  For about a week.  Again, no oral sex.  Suppose you could do the dental dam, or saran wrap thing with oral sex, but then what do you do about kissing?  I wasnt in this biz then so it was no big deal.



cheers


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Thanks Puck...And you to Felicia for your responses!

The Prince Albert is what I am thinking of getting!  Either that OR the Frenum (ladder!?!?)  or something like that!

However, the PA is the one that I have read the most about creating great stimulation for your partner!

Is a 4g a big pierce?  Is it the beginners size?  Have you had any reviews on other penal piercings?

Urine is generally sterile, unless a person has a urinary tract infection.  However, piercing the penis has different consideration than piercing one's labia; most penis piercing pass through the urethra.  This acts as an obstruction to urine flow and provides an area for bacterial growth, which greatly increases the risks of developing a UTI.  The obstruction also has the effect of altering urine flow from the penis which makes using a urinal very difficult due to spray.

I have been considering a piercing called the frenum.  It is placed just below the head of the penis and does not pass through the urethra.  The others add too much risk for my tastes.  As for concerns of providers, I have talked to the ones I regularly see and they have concerns about the possibility of torn condoms.

There are a few sites that provide discussion areas for more information that you may want to read before piercing.  They have the good points and also some horror stories for perspective.

DrX

Good points DrX...

I can also see why a woman might be concerned about the condom breakage...

the only penis piercing I've ever encountered was a ring placed below the head.  Whether or not it passed through the urethra, I dont know, but it did not seem to pose a threat to condom use.  As far as sensation or pain, as a partner, I really noticed nothing - maybe because of the condom, but the piercing was mor a visual excitement.

Definitely care and good hygiene are a must!

xoxo

ff

So, Felicia...You have only encountered ONE pierced penis!?!?  And it is funny that the one you described was one of the TWO that I was thinking of getting...The other one of course being the PA!

Well...Looks like the decision is made!  PA!!

The the Frenum (ladder!?!?)  That DrBudBundy mentioned?  Darlin if you get that...OK from a womans stand point?  I was with a gentleman that had that and he didn't have a ring in it, it was a barbell.  WOW it was wonderful for me.  And he had a condom on also but I sure could feel that YUM YUM.  I use to have my tongue pierced and like FF my dentist talked me into removing it so I did.  But the men loved the feeling of that pierced tongue on them.  NOW as far as myself feeling a pierced tongue? My exgirlfriend had one and oh my I loved the feeling of that, it was wonderful.  She had her tongue pierced 2 times. VERY nice and sexy and erotic.  

Ok time to go make a phone call. *wink*

RED

4g is a fairly large ring - It's generally started at a 10g 0r 12g, allowed to heal and then stretched one size at a time until it's comfortable. I've heard good things about the apadravya and ampallang piercings, but the healing time is much longer, on the order of 6 weeks to 2 months.