I've been noticing a recurring theme on my appointments....


Out of the 12 or so providers I've met with, 12 of them say that I'm a great lover.  I'm no statistician, but that's an abnormal bell curve if I've ever seen one.

Have you ever thought why providing is such a popular occupation among psych majors?

Personally, I think it's balancing karma - what could be vaguer and more useless than a psych major, and what could be more concrete and useful than sex?

You may quote me on that.

if it is possible to find happiness in marriage... in this current society.

Like you, I've noticed a lot of providers are psych majors or actually have a psychology degree....  more that you would expect in the general population.  My stripper friends also number more psych majors or psychology wanna-bees that you would expect.   SOME  are in this hobby trying consciously or subconsciously trying to figure out their world.   SOME grew up without the benefit of both parents.   Which is way as a divorced dad of a daughter, I stay close to my daughter... and watching my ex wife's brothers, I also make sure I stay close to my son....  I don't want my daughter seeking the approval of a substitute dad - if I can provide that to her... and already at 12 or so, I can see the effect of my approval on her.  

I also don't want the witholding of that approval to result in the tragedy I witnessed a year ago....  when one of the nicest, and most beautiful woman I know, took her life... sadly, her dad had refused to take her to her honors awards program at her college - yea.  she was a dancer - but also a person....  with human needs from her dad, that he failed to meet.... and every day I struggle to provide something of me... to my kids....

why?  that is only supposition...

other women are in this profession - because they like sex... and choose to get paid for having a great time...

(even a mortician!)

But the one field that I've noticed more than the others is nursing or physical therapy.

It makes sense to me.

I have also seen two gals who do social work which is similar to psychology.

I've also noticed a tendency for gals to be in the legal field.  I guess the oldest profession shares something in common with the second oldest profession.

And I met two ladies who are now in medical school. I would happily go to either one for a physical.

You need to explain to them when you are laying flat on the couch, they are supposed to be sitting in the chair, not on your face.  LOL

LOL....too funny! When someone asks me what I do for a living...I always tell them I'm a physical and psychological therapist!

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... I FUCKING GUARANTEE that many of them are pulling your leg as well as your johnson!  They're telling you that, b/c it plays into their hands.  Even IF (and many are) they ARE still in college, they may be majoring in something else.  Why tell you "psychology"?  B/c it's NOT the truth!  That's the point!  They don't want you knowing all the details of their personal life!  I'm not saying that all of them lied to you, but wake up and smell the obvious!

I would not, nor could not, answer for all those studying psychology. I went the "art" direction and in the business field for many years. However, I have noticed that friends and mere acquaintances who have extensively studied psychology have had a lot of problems with their own families. I think they want to make a difference in other's lives and -- in some strange way -- it's healing for them to help others while analyzing themselves.

Actually, some of the most kinkiest people I have spent time with since I have been in this business have been psychologists, judges and accountants.


Hugs,
ciara

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