...falling in love with a provider is certainly the oldest message board thread.

Closely followed by, (2) is CIM safe and (3) why are rates so expensive. In fourth place is inane flattery of board hunnies. Actually that could be first, lol.

But here it goes:

1. Just one, but we emailed almost daily for two months before we met.

2. Nothing.

3.  No.

4.  To fall in love means to overlook quirks.

Seriously though, I've seen exactly one provider so far (review should be posted shortly) and I began to have feelings for her just minutes into our session.  I didn't think it could be so easy, but a good provider will have you daydreaming about her for days after you see her.  Her quirks will be the last thing on your mind when this happens.

But you need to keep reminding yourself this is really just a fantasy and form of recreation.  No matter what, don't let her know you're in love with her.  That's probably the surest way to guarantee you'll never have a session with her again.  

I've been doing this for a while and never had that problem until end of last year I suddenly found my self in that position Boy, I can tell you this. For god sake, don't let it happen to you. It can ruin you. I've seen over 15 different providers but there's one that really led me on (at least that's how I felt). I really thought the feelings were mutual. The funny thing is she's a seasoned provider. It took me about 15 times of seeing her before I actually fell for her although since day one I was fond of her and thought she felt the same way. I didn't feel she was for real until she started cooking dinner for me. I hope I hadn't read too much on the things she said and did to me.  Meanwhile, I'm struggling about and fighting that feeling. I just try to cope with it by staying away from her for a while and staying sane.

Easy on #1....  Zero (0)!  I fall in love with a provider before I even see her!  That is no lie.  Only with a few have I not had a yearning for...  I simply look at her pictures, exchange some e-mail and voila - LOVE!  I am NOT KIDDING!  I would not see her if I were not at least in lust... and most of the time that turns instantly to love when the door opens.

What type of things do you to protect yourself ?

I simply do not see a provider more that a few times...  if that.  Some only once.  you see, I truly am in this for the variety and the fun of meeting all these neat ladies.  (and the sex is not that bad)

Do you have some rules that after x number of sessions you no longer see the provider anymore ?

Yes, the moment I think of doing stupid things, I do not see her anymore....  

Have you ever fallen in love with a provider in such away you overlooked her quirks ?

Please get real.  You ask this like you think civies do not have quirks....  let me clue you, I will take a professional escort's quirks anyday over a civie who is over 40  yrs old and has never been married....   ya know, the ones with cats!  meow....

So who am I in love with this week!?  why, the next provider that I see!  lol!