I can never get a provider to open the door.

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Reading your post, i can see few possibilities on "why" they didn't get back to you:

You mentioned having "high standards" - sometimes a lady gets a cold feet when she is contacted by a gentleman that could be very critical or hard to please.

If the ladies in question knows your TER handle and see the list of the girls you saw, with such legends like Nikki and so on, that can also be intimidating. Personally, I do avoid meeting guys with a list of 10 providers because I am not a 10. I think others think the way I do too.

Reading your reviews, I see a variety of things you are into...including tantra and TS. Well, some ladies do not see guys who also see TS, they think is unsafe. I don't have this kind of prejudice, because many guys do see TV/TS and never post a review, but having them on your profile cuts down the number of girls willing to see you.

Just my 2 cents - I might be wrong and you really are in a bad luck phase.

BDG

Consider making and announcemnt of your travels to various areas. (Sample Link) Realize this is not the style for everyone, but has worked for me over the years.

With my post below I recieved 4 PM's of ladies that did not post on the thread, but were willing to meet me. Course DC, for me, is kind of a stomping ground also and I participate on their board for that reason (something else to consider)

Since I am now booked for my trip again to DC, I know it does work. With a little humor and advance notice, it's all good.

Now, since that is not maybe the style of most, I would agree whole-heartedly with BDG comments, as reasons why maybe some of the ladies you have in mind are not responding.

BTW, if I new who BDG really was she would be on my list, even if she were not a 10 (her's words). lmao

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i have only tried to email 3 ladies in Nashville so these numbers are hardly statistically significant, but only one has answered at all so i am beginning to think that it might just be part of some healthy caution for providers to be picky about when they respond.  i obviously have no idea, but i was kinda hoping that's what it was.  Otherwise, i may be learning that ALL women are avoiding me and not just the unlucky ones that i approach in a bar.  i admit i am a newb so i hope i'm not doing something stupid, but, if anything, i err on the side of saying too little rather than too much in an initial email.

The real reason, i'm sure, is just that people are busy and don't always get time to quickly answer emails.

Thanks in large part to Samantha and the all time great provider ms.Tigress!  she is sooooo cool!  Ms tigress is totally fun, intelligent and just a nice person.... try her.  She - or Samantha will curl your toes!

of seeing T-girls, some gals are not comfortable with that.

You are being hard on yourself. I think it just might have to do with it being summer and more ladies probably travel now than in the winter months. Or it could be that more providers are becoming pickier too??

I too have had this happen to me lately. Replied to a few, got some returned messages that they were either traveling on the dates I had asked about or on vacation or it was their personal day. Then there are the others with no response.

It seems that if you really need it, you should have a list of at least 10 to contact and maybe you will set a date with one. Use agencies too if you don’t mind using them. They will set you up quicker than some independents out there. If you prefer independents and you can wait months on end maybe set up an appointment well in advance.

To answer your question I usually only try once. I know when I am traveling how many days I have open, if the lady can't meet me or suggests another time (which usually is a day I am no longer in town) I go to my other plan. Hit the clubs and bars. It’s all good because that plan saves me money, LOL.

Good luck in the future