Something hilarious happened to me the other day and I wondered if perhaps it has happened to others. I was with a gentleman friend and things were getting heated. The dirty talk started to come out and we were both participating willingly. Then I noticed that he suddenly said something of the submissive BDSM variety, along the lines of being bound and whipping him for being a naughty boy or something like that. However, I know that this man would not be actually interested in such an activity so I stopped and looked at him a little strangely. He stopped too and said, "why did I say that? I wouldn't actually want to do that at all," We both laughed and continued on but it happened a few times after that.
I started thinking that perhaps sometimes people (mainly men) say things that sound "hot" in theory but they don't actually find the real activity "hot" as it were, it's just heat of the moment talk.

However, one could get themselves into trouble saying things with someone who doesn't know you're not really into such practices who then takes it a little too far.

Has anyone else ever had someone say something a little odd and then retract what they said after?

I will look down at the lady furrow my brow, stare longingly into her eyes, and then with my best De Niro voice say "You...your good you!!!"

He could very well be curious about it, but not ready to admit it to you or anyone else. (Maybe not even himself)

I have said a few things here and there I wish I could retract, but it's usually because it was inappropriate or unnecessarily graphic/vulgar. Mostly with friends rather than providers.  I tend to be much more careful with providers.  Around friends tends to be more relaxed and that's when truths start escaping.
Sometimes the brain can't hear it until the mouth says it, and by then, cat's out of the bag.

I would react with a comeback. I tend to like it alot when I bring out something in my gentlemen friends. Makes life all the more interesting. SInce computers have been so widely used, I find that the imagination has gone to the outer-limits in some. Doesn't bother me in the least. Anytime I get to partake in someones role-play or fetish, I am thrilled and eager to play. Who is to say ones flavor always needs to be vanilla. I know mine isnt. So, I don't expect anyone elses to be.

I just enjoy the moment for what it is. Pure and simple fun and exploring ones mind

...some times the thought of something really dirty is all it takes.  That and I've often had sexual turrets syndrome, when I'll blurt out cuss words when cumming or getting fucked real hard.

you would be amazed at what goes on in your subconscious...

He knows you can help him with it.  I think he consciously means it and is shy.  As a saying goes, Many a truth has been said in jest"

and fortunately I know several women who love to have me do so, but obviously not all do.

I have one long time favorite whom I spoke to about this, and she decided to give it a try, but found it wasn't for her after we did so.

However, she likes to have me describe the whole process of my cum squirting on her face and dripping down her cheeks while we are doing mish.  It turns her on to see me get turned on by it.  

In a way, it's just about as enjoyable for me, and she is happy with it too.  Sort of a fantasy-sex play thing.  It's even better because I can always draw from the mental image I have of the one time she did allow it.

There was another gal I saw regularly who made me think we were doing BB when (of course) we were not, just another big fantasy thing.  She would go on and on before I penetrated while I was rubbing around her clit with my covered cock about how she can't stand not having my bare dick inside her.  Her "torment", made me hotter and hotter and when I finally did penetrate and she gasped and moaned, it was a real turn on for me.  I sort of doubt she was quite as excited as she made out to be, but I had to hand her very high praise for such a convincing performance.

I've known many that like feel of the warm sperm on their skin.  Between their breasts and on their face they just don't like it in their eyes.

I've found that "I love you," " I care about you," or even "I really like you" are some of the more foolish, counterproductive things a man can say to a woman.