This is kind of a provocative question but I love hearing all the different answers I receive to my questions.
Men and women: if you've been with partners ( providers included) of different cultural/racial backgrounds or travelled to different countries to experience sex in those countries ( as some men do visit Latin America and Asia on sex tours and have specific preferences of these ladies) do you think that a person's cultural background or race makes them 'better' or 'worse' in bed? Or is it too generalized to say that?
I've heard from many men that ( from their experiences only, this is not a statement of any truth) some of them believed that women in hotter climates ( hence, Latin America and Southeast Asia, such as the Phillipines and Thailand or Indonesia) tend to be much more affectionate and open sexually.
Interestingly enough I once took a class in college about how climate shapes culture in various countries. But sexuality was not one of the topics covered.
Many cultures are much more demonstrative of affection ( such as hugging ,kissing, etc) than others. Being Japanese American, my family was never really big on these things. But that hasn't dampened my passion in any way LOL.
Well I don't know whether a client is Jewish or not until he either tells me or of course by the last name ( though we know many Jewish immigrants in the past Anglocized their names). But what I HAVE experienced has been very different than you. Most of the Jewish men have been extremely conservative and wanted me to dominate them sexually....not exactly something I think makes a good lover.
and it is true in my experience of four decades that when you are dealing with cultures that do not repress sexual expression, a relaxed and joyous attitude acompanies a wide menu and a desire to both experiment and to please.
However, American stereotypes of other cultures presumed to be more "open" are not always correct.
America is slowly becoming a more sexually open and relaxed place for the most part, but there are so many microcosms of culture within the US that it difficult to generalize, and there are forces at work attempting to combat this trend.
I also have arrived at a number of personal and anecdotal conclusions about sexual expression vis a vis race and nationality. They work for me.
But I don't think I will share them here. I don't want to take the heat lol....
but I will say that in my case, birds of a feather do not necessarily flock together....
....with 93 reviews LOLOL I'd say you have a lot of experience with different 'cultures' )
The common stereotype I get about Asian women is that we're 'librarian' types on the outside and animals in the bed. Well I don't even give the appearance of being that studious type. I get some e mails though from men who have what I call an Asian fetish. They don't give a shit what I really look like, as long as I'm 'Oriental' and I know the 'sex secrets' of the Orient.
My personal discovery also about black and Latino men is that while they have the reputation for being great or animalistic lovers is that they are far more conservative than many Anglo men, and many times the women of those backgrounds are too.
But this is all primarily through the business. I've often wondered if men would be different with me, of those different cultures, if we had met under circumstances not pertaining to provider and client.
in Saigon. During my military career I have "hobbied" all over the world, and enjoyed "civvie" relationships with women of all kinds as well.
I will tell you this - probably the best (and certainly the longest) personal relationship of my life was with a Japanese lady I met in Nagasaki, who then lived with me in Pearl Harbor Hawaii.
I will not comment on "oriental" stereotypes (LOL) but I will say that Keiko was an interesting specimen.....
after being upcountry and it was like a fantasy oasis after a year in the desert. I used to play tennis at the Cercle Sportif and cast longing glances at the beautiful Matis (French-Vietnamese) girls lounged around the swimming pool. Most of them had boy friends and were unavailable, but one day I arranged a match with one of them. I was a pretty good player but she nearly beat me and it was a fun match. Afterwards, I said I'd love to see you again but I'm leaving for good in three days. She said "it would have been fun," and walked away. Later I read that the actor David Niven had taken her to Malaysia for a jaunt. Back then, most of my American friends had live-in Viet girl friends and said it was the best sex/love arrangement they had ever known. As for the Viet girls, they said, "Americans boom-boom too much," but they knew how to take advantage of it.
I've seen some service men and I don't mind that they prefer Asian women, but what they don't understand is that I am NOT from those countries, and so my cultural background is so Americanized it isn't even funny. I speak nothing but English, I don't look like a little or young girl, etc. I don't mind it when they say that they do like Asian women, but when they say things like " Little Brown Fuck Machines" or start saying things like that, I refuse to see them.
One of my favorite customers was actually an army guy who actually had married several Asian women and he knew they wanted to come to America. He married five, all from Thailand and Vietnam, they got their citizenship, etc. But then he decided he wanted to go back there to retire, where he could live on his pension, and then he asked me, " Wanna be wife number six?" LOLOL I thought that he was joking but....he wasn't!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think that its a preference based on personal attraction. I have white friends who solely date asian woman, black friends who solely date white women, and middle eastern and white friends who solely date black women. I purposely ask them about the sex, freakiness and sensuality of the women, and each experience for the most part mirrors the other. I feel the experience is intesified on what one like to look at. On average, there "are" anatomical differences between white, asian, black/black hispanic, hispanic, middle eastern, african, native european, native american, and south american woman, and that difference is what enhances one's experience sensually and sexually...
...but then I just figured that's my preference and I can't do anything about liking vanilla. LOL
I've struggled with it though. I know that if a man of ANY color ( aside from Asian of course) said that he had a 'thing' for Asian women that I wouldn't date them. I don't want to be fetishized that way. I hang up on men who start talking about the wonders of Asian women when they served over in Asia in the army or navy.
Yet I've never been attracted to any men other than your basic white bread man. Nearly every man I ever dated or married ( once) were of Northern European heritage ( Irish, English, Scotch, Scandinavian, or German) and as far as being good in bed, the only comparisons I have with men of color have been from working. I'm not sure if that would be a comparison though. Had we met under different circumstances I wonder if the sexual experience might have been different. Who knows?
I think you'll find some common themes across certain cultures in their sexual expression, but I think you'll also find that mirrored in other social expressions.
You also have to separate men & women for each culture, I think.
Suffice to say they are all different, and ain't that grand!
I agree that its difficult to ever call anything better or worse without a way to empirically measure it.
I have traveled the world on business and I can say, without a doubt, that cultural and geographic differences definitely change the way people express their sexuality and the "way" they have sex.
English woman are much freer with nudity, Philippine woman are very aggressive once the "act" begins, Thai woman tend to be passive, South American woman insane!, etc...
Does this make one better than another? Not necessarily like everything else, its all about personal preference.
this is a tough one. let me see if i can answer this truthfully as possible without offending anyone. (contrary to my nature, as i normally say whatever is on my mind. i am trying to learn tact)
German women rule. lol. i had this one partner (that...GASP! I stole from her husband, but i dont think he ever found out) that was just....a dream. She was tall, dark red hair, ice blue eyes and an ass to die for. I lusted after her for a whole 3 months before the company Xmas party, when I made my move. The tension leading up to it had us both at work going insane though. Whew! That was some awesome stuff. While stationed in Germany, I found out that German women liked me, so I...um, had relations with a lot of them. Brazilian women are just crazy in the bed (or on a pool table, but that's another story)
I have a new found love for Asian women though. They are so prim and proper, so cute and adorable...and then when I get a hold of them...lol. There is one here in NYC I found that is just so much fun! She is really quiet, polite...but when we had a double date recently....she let loose this...other person! She tried to keep the screams to a muffled holler and she was BLUSHING!!! Oh my gosh.You had to be between her legs and look up at her face in order to fully appreciate the picture she made. She was trying so hard to remain prim and proper and..well, she lost that fight.
African American women are just....sigh. Lusty and not ashamed of it. I love it.
I myself am half Chinese, half African American. (talk about culturally confused). Part of me wants to remain prim and proper. Laugh at the right times, soft words...no screaming. Quiet and gentle orgasms.
then there is the other side of me that doesnt care what I have to do to get mine...I will do it. Not only will I do what I have to do, but I will let EVERYONE know when I got mine. Uh...this one guy in LA I visited...sheesh. I dont think I have ever screamed that loud before. I think the neighbors two towns away heard me that day. As if I care. I was getting it DAMN GOOD.
I did not grow up with a lot of cuddling, hugging and shows of affection but that hasnt stopped me from doing such. Granted, it takes me a minute to really warm up to someone and feel comfortable enough to do so.
I personally think race or culture does play a part, but it is up to the person to accept themselves for who they sexually are. If someone is truly comfortable with who they are sexually...then hey! Sex with everyone is going to be enjoyable, especially if they find someone as sexually comfortable as them!(like me. hell, i have a TS girl fantasy STILL unfullfilled. Working on that...)
I'm anything but. So it's funny that while I asked this question, I often am stereotyped by the occasional client who is looking for the 'geisha' who looks proper and prim and conservative but is really wild. I don't look or behave either proper or prim LOLOL.
I've heard that women in the Netherlands were very open-minded, and the same with Eastern Europe as well. My personal experience with German MEN has been that they're very conservative too, and just aren't into a lot of affection. But neither are Asian guys I meet either.
I don't really think so. I've been with girls of all heritages and I don't think any one stands out above another.
I have agree. I have great times with ladies of different ethnicities ( Latin, African american, Jewish, and on and on) and I have also had badd experiences with the same. Too many factors at play to be reduced down to someones race.
Any lady from anywhere in the world be it Asian, German, African, Italian, Latin, European, or any other nationality just as long as they were raised in the USA. Our melting pot of cultural, social, religious freedoms and individuality combine to produce the best lovers. Makes no difference where you were born and even less where your parents where born but it makes all the difference in the world where you were raised.... IMHO of course.
I adore Latinas: the skin, eyes, breasts, ass, you name it. I generally have a better time with them. I have noticed that Latinas of Puerto Rican, Dominican or Cuban backgrounds (ie, they got some brown sugar in their heritage) generally have amazing control of their pussy muscles.
One never knows for sure but can say I met a nice gentleman from indian background meaning he was from india. He was very sensuous cannot begin to describe where he learned, got mannerism. First when I arrived at his home he greeted me by holding my hand kissed it affectionately besides having chocolates and 9 roses. I told him my favorite number was 9 did not mention roses, chocolates. I've never had anyone do it quite like this does create a wonderful wonderful lasting impression. On another experience I met a nice gentleman at his apartment he was equally sensuous that's still one of my weekly friends, so who can say, but I'm very sensuous what can I say Guess one has to be around during days with your own castle alone (just residence not really castle days to catch me in los angeles to experience the glory. This established romancer has been sensuous for years. Bye for now. Hope the 4th was great everybody. July 19 Mon 7:30 pm
I never really made the "warmer climate" connection before but it makes sense. My preference for several years has been for South American and Asian women. I always attributed it more to their being born in another country and raised by immigrant parents. This sort of upbringing has a profound effect on a woman's sexuality and in the way she interacts with and responds to men.
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Guess one has to be around during days with your own castle alone (just residence not really castle