harsh but true, jar! mrphilly, if she was carrying an std like gonorrhea, chlamydia, etc, you are at some risk - but of course, those infections are treatable. herpes is a concern. your risk for deadly disease, like HIV is very low. if you post an e-mail address, i will be happy to send you specific web sites that will answer all your questions.
I need everyone's input here. I was just with a provider this evening and, thinking back on the experience, I think the condom broke. I didn't complete the act because I ran out of time, so I did not even suspect that the condom broke until well after I got home. I believe it broke because when we first started (cowgirl) she was somewhat dry and as she sat on my member it was difficult getting in her, but when she got about half way down, I almost felt a snap and then my penis went in her much more easily. We only went for about 5 minutes like this, and I didn't get a good look at the top of the condom when I pulled out because, at the time, I suspected nothing. I believe that just the part that covers the head broke.
Has this ever happened to any fellow hobbyists? Would anyone care to share the results (STDs and such). I'm really scared about it. I'm usually very careful; for example, I only DATY once with a provider, whom I knew was clean. The provider from this evening has only been in business for 2 months or so. Would anyone provide some input on what you think my chances of catching something are? Let me also say that her specialty is BBBJCIM. Am I screwed or what?
the wearer against serious injury or death.
That label is inside every motorcycle helmet sold. You're taking a risk when you throw your leg over a motorcycle OR another human. Hopefully your provider takes care of herself and nothing will come of it.
Wash up real good. throw some alchohol on little mrphilly and hope for the best. If you have a SO you may want to come up with a good excuse for not giving her any until you check out clean. Having a spaz attack won't help anything though. Honestly; If you are afraid that your provider is actually an incubator for every STD known to the CDC what are you doing there to begin with. From now on drive a Volvo & wear your seat belts.
And remember that if you've been exposed to HIV, it may take up to a year for you to test positive.
Well, this has happened to me a few times, but usually I become aware of it pretty quick and we all wash up together! I carry around anti-biotics and microbrials just for this kind of emergencies. The fact that you didn't notice it may mean it never happened! If you are convinced that it did, then you need to get checked out in a few days. Get yourself to a doctor or clinic in a week or so. In the meantime, take all your vitamins and stay healthy.
Good luck! Also getting an STD is not the end of the world.....you will overcome!!
you can do but sweat. It is unlikely you need to worry but never rule out the possibility. Its like russian roulett, 6 chambers and one bullet. Do you8 feel lucky today
harsh but true, jar! mrphilly, if she was carrying an std like gonorrhea, chlamydia, etc, you are at some risk - but of course, those infections are treatable. herpes is a concern. your risk for deadly disease, like HIV is very low. if you post an e-mail address, i will be happy to send you specific web sites that will answer all your questions.
You said "it was difficult getting in her, but when she got about half way down, I almost felt a snap and then my penis went in her much more easily."
Maybe you broke her cherry!
April Fool!!
Your message could spark the start of my denial phase.
Once, years ago, I had the same thing happen with a girlfriend. I didn't notice a snap, but suddenly, in the middle of the act, everything got much better.
In fact, at the time I came almost instantly when that happened.
However, there was no question when I pulled out that the condom broke. It was obvious. I don't imagine you could mistake a non broken condom for a broken one. It seemed more like a cock ring than a condom.
It might be different if you didn't cum. Maybe someone else who has had this happen will chime in, but I think if you didn't notice right when you were taking it off, then it was probably not broken.
That said, it's always a good idea to get regular checkups. Especially if you notice any unusual symptoms.
For whatever reason, something's just not right about the description in this post.
Unless you're Stevie Wonder, you'd know if it broke the minute you pulled out (if not sooner). There's broke and not broke, but no maybe.
She took the condom off me immediately. I only got a look at the bottom 3/4 of my unit and, although I wasn't looking for breakage, I didn't notice anything unusual. The brief look that I got at the head did seem unusually clear, but that could just be me making it up in my mind because of fear. I've had a condom break in the past with an SO, but, since I had continued for a while in that instance without knowing, it was obvious when I pulled out. This time, as soon as I pulled out, she took it off and started to lick my unit (like I said BBBJ is her specialty).
Relax! Provider or not, anytime a condom breaks its a risk...whether
you picked her up at the bar or an ad....but, believe me, I'd feel alot safer
breaking with a good provider, instead of someone from the "Bar", excellent providers are VERY VERY educated on how to stay safe(due to the nature of their work) and most are usually super clean due to daily "vechile maintenance"
& the fact that, you must look & smell good everywhere! so, keep an eye on your pee pee with any girl & always bring lube or extra raincoats if YOU want to be a pro in the sheets, too. hehehe kisses!
but before I get to that, a word of optimism. It's rather unlikely that you got anything. The condom may never have broken. Assuming it did, she is very likely clean. Finally, brief exposure over a very limited area does not necessarily mean you're infected with anything.
BUT, the only way to be sure is to be tested. Unless you live in some remote rural village there is sure to be at least one clinic in your town where you can get a broad spectrum STD test with complete confidentiality. It'll set you back a few bucks, but what's that compared to the peace of mind?
If the worst happens and you do have an STD you can get an early jump on treatment, and you must inform the provider. You'll probably be really angry, but get it out of your system before you contact her; the idea is to protect her future clients, not to piss her off and make her defensive. And she may not even know she has anything (if in fact she does).
Chop the damn thing off...