what's up?
wtf am I supposed to do with that? lol
Some men get carried away with the textingand emailing. I'm all for the occasional "hope all is well!" text every now in then between our dates and after we've already met. But the texting me all day and 30 emails a day is NOT ok. Especially if I have yet to even have a date with you. So no your not getting my # prior. And after you do have it please be respectful with it.
our scheduled date. The address the night before makes it easier to plot my route to the hotel or other incall and also determine when I need to leave.
Obviously, the room # can be sent by text a few minutes before after I have either called her to say "I'm here" or sent a text. I have had providers indicate a preference of call / text prior to our date.
Most guys know that they should not become a PITA with a lady either by email or text.
If I use a hotel (rare) I provide the hotel name the day of, and the room number when he ARRIVES. I don't have issues with anyone blowing up my phone, because only guys who are confirmed will get the number. I also use google voice so if they do send a text, that only goes to my PC and not to the phone. Calls come through, but I can't really recall even one time in the last 3 years a guy just called me out of the blue. We decided on a time we would converse, he called, and that was it. No random texts or calls just to say hello after the fact.
Waiting for the Puddy Tat.
Yah, but I told your ass to and you did. Good boy bwahahhaa. Wait no, I called YOU dummy!
I don't mind giving out my # but as far as location...I will give you a general area but not my exact location.
I do this for my own safety. There is no reason for a client to have my exact location until the day of. As long as you have a general idea of where you are going there is no reason to have it and IMO asking a lady or pressuring her for exact location in advance is just suspicious. It raises a red flag and makes me uncomfortable. But that's just me personally!
ladies give me an address of a library or restaurant. When I call them 5 minutes before the appointment, they give me the final directions or sometimes stay on the phone with me for turn by turn assistance.
It is called a two call system for a reason.
I gave one guy the street of my incall (so he'd know where he was going), but not the exact address. He showed up two hours in advance and emailed me that he'd arrived and was hoping I could make time for him then. I told him no...then I felt paranoid about leaving my place to get stuff I needed! I was worried he'd be watching my street and would approach me. He was ridiculously hard to push out the door after the session was over, too. With regulars I'm more relaxed, I have one I'll tell as soon as I check in, even if he's not coming till later.
I provide my number day of, and in some cases, day before. I only use the phone to confirm dates and give/ask directions. Some guys really do abuse the whole phone thing...I won't answer random calls, and if they ask about that, I'll tell them that I only turn my work phone on when I'm expecting a call...and don't return calls because *I* would not want to interrupt *them* at some inopportune moment (lol). Most guys get the hint, some don't. I had a regular client a while back totally abuse the phone thing...he thought nothing of randomly calling me - it happened in the middle of dinner w/my family, when I was with a guy I was dating at the time, and at another job.
Most guys wouldn't dream of pulling that nonsense, but for the few who do, we need those precautions in place
ottom line is a provider has safety....Until there's a knock on the door. It's all about Safety, Safety, Safety. You know the saying "You don't know what you had 'til it's gone"?? .... Check out The National BlackList.Some scary stuff on there. I've known providers that got their face caved in by Drug/ Roid fueled Fk'ers. She don't know if he's 5'5" & 135lbs or 6'6" and 320 walking through the door. Aggressive/ Passive...
AND when she wants to leave the Biz.... she needs to be able to sweep her footsteps quickly. I've seen some that are amazing at that .... and most that are poor at that. They generally leave something that is searchable.
Throw-away email, throw-away phone, disable website, de-list on public boards, fake names and just disappear when she's done is the way to go.
I was introduced to them in 1998, 2 years before I graduated high school. The song is titled, "Don't know what you GOT until it's gone." Just sayin.
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Bottom line is a provider has safety....Until there's a knock on the door. It's all about Safety, Safety, Safety. You know the saying "You don't know what you had 'til it's gone"?? .... Check out The National BlackList.Some scary stuff on there. I've known providers that got their face caved in by Drug/ Roid fueled Fk'ers. She don't know if he's 5'5" & 135lbs or 6'6" and 320 walking through the door. Aggressive/ Passive...
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I just have to say....She **should know** what is walking through her door if she is screening heavily. She should know if he is known to drink/smoke or does drugs..Screening really needs to involve more then if he is LE or hurt/robbed someone. Just sayin.. 
xoxo~Aerial~
General area where I would be for new friends not the exact location..
Several guys come to mind right off. There are crazy people on both sides of this hobby.
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Would you divulge your credit card info to a company you didn't know , never dealt with before , without a security guarantee, the day before you buy their product ?
Your thoughts if any ?
I think you are playing a game , seeking laughter or pain .
Your question was lame .
Some guys she had not seen before ,would burn up her phone the day before , and then no show .
A drunk might show up at 1 am the night before instead of his 1 pm appt . the following day .
If you think before you ask a question , some answers will come to you , especially the easy ones .
Posted By: escalade1964
about providing your incall hotel and / or your phone # if you have not yet provided it
prior to the day of the date? Do guys blow up your phone all day or stalk the hotels?
Your thoughts if any?
