Okay, I maybe on a rant, but a very worthy rant.

If you email me for an appointment -- no offense, but I don't care if you're posting on TER. Perhaps I don't have a V.I.P. membership, and the White List means nothing to me. Or . . . perhaps a gentleman can email me that he's "so and so" but that doesn't mean that you're who you say you are. Am I supposed to just believe that when you walk into my incall that you're so and so from TER? I don't think so.

Email me for an appointment. Please don't PM me. Also, give me the references I request from the first email, not someone whom I've never heard of and your TER name. Give me your real name and reputable providers with websites (not just email addresses). H E L L O!  These email addresses could be undercover Elle.  Give me a break, guys!  I am not talking about all of you, so don't go on a rant about this posting. But please, give me the information I need or don't bother trying to set an appointment with me. I'm not a horny prostitute waiting around my home for a call, all dressed up and madeup for you. I have a life, another job, a few degrees, etc. Please don't insult my intelligence by making yourself look like an idiot! I'm sorry, but this gets tiring some times. I know all the ladies out there can relate to what I'm saying. If you want a street lady, then go down Van Buren -- God bless them!

I don't know about you guys, but my privacy, location and safety are very important. Geez! Do men write me when they're horny and stupid or what?  

Hugs,
Ciara

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I've always wondered why the only one that gets any safety and privacy is the lady? Over the years I've been ripped off by more woman than I can count. The one problem I've always had with giving name, rank, and serial number is with identity theft it does make me a little nervous because let's face it neither of us knows if the other is legit. Just a thought.

if they don't give you what you ask for, don't bother with them.
It will be their loss!

Guys, it doesn't take a whole lot of brains to do it the right way, and you may get to spend time with a beautiful, sexy, intelligent lady.

Just my opinion...
B

-- Modified on 7/12/2007 5:18:06 PM

I, too, get fed up with emails that say "i'm bob can i see you tomorrow for an hour" Guys, it is not hard to read my site and provide a few pieces of information for screening. And perhaps use complete sentences and capitalization while you're at it! No offense to the wonderful and thorough gents who contact me through appropriate methods- it's just that I get emails such as the above on a daily basis. Help me help you and provide the info I ask for on the first try- I don't have time to pry this information out of you!!!~

XoXo,
Marea

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It just takes the fun out of it. You think to yourself, "No wonder God made woman after man. He had to perfect what he started."  Sorry, guys, I couldn't resist saying that. You know I love you, but I'm humorous and think like a man sometimes.

Hugs,
Ciara

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please correct me if I do, but you stated 'please don't PM me', then express worry (rightfully so) that I might be LE.

  This is the part I could be way off on, but it seems to me that if I PM'd you from my TER handle, and you could see that I've been a regular around here for over a year, that would reduce your fears of LE. Of course, I would include my real name, as well as other requested info, but it seems to me that there's a certain amount of safety in a long term TER guy.

  I understand how frustrated you gals must get when us guys can't even follow simple instructions, but again, only I have access to my TER account, (I could be wrong here as well), and I can't imagine LE putting that much effort into busting only a few providers.

  I realize this isn't just about LE, but PMing a provider from my TER account seemed to me to be a good way to introduce myself.

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Are you that ignorant that you think someone cannot use any handle with any address to post on TER? Oh my, oh my! No, seriously hon. It's a dangerous business and we have to protect ourselves. And . . . who said we don't want someone introducing themselves in a PM. I'm talking about setting up an appointment. Look at my website, read it thoroughly and email me at my regular address. Thank you.

That's all I have to say on this issue. :0

Hugs,
Ciara

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From your pretty lil red headed name sake....It sounds like someone "PISSEDIN YOUR FRUIT LOOPS"

and it is your right to say so

Thank You
2007=27

First, if you contact a reputable provider and not use a truckstop prossie then you'll probably be okay. Second, we're not asking for your flippin' social security number. Third, I'm not looking to burn anyone. Like I said: I have a few degrees, other jobs, a life, etc., so why would I want to burn you? However, thanks for your response. It's always good to hear both sides of the story. But remember, I'm inviting you to my incall. I have a website -- you don't. I have reviews. You don't. So who's taking the chance?

Next Question!

Maybe Tomorrow will be your LUCKY DAY ! ! !

Thank You
2007=27

tramatic head injury has destroted all short term memory, so everday , literally, is a new day for us.

I hope I've cleared that up for you.  Whatever that was.

Thank you very much.  I get so little positive reinforcement, especially on some other boards, you've made my day.

I have to visit eventually a friend in Alburqueque who has taken ill. I'm NOT looking forward to it. Perhaps to lessen the inevitable depression I'll make a side trip to Phoenix.

I suspect I'll make you laugh.  But mostly for the wrong reasons as i'm comically unprepossessing in real life.

I feel like I'm dealing with kindergarten students. If someone wants to know something about me, then they should just ask. I'm really nice in person and people always turn my words around without thinking things through. Urgh! Sorry, but my dad's in the hospital right now and I don't have time for petty crap and gossip. Know what I mean, jelly bean? I'm taking a break again from posting. I have a life!

Hugs,
Ciara

It's a shame that you resort to personal attacks about my job. First If I were resorting to "truckstop prossie" (by the way what is a "prossie" ) I wouldn't be on here at all.
Now to your other comments, I was speaking in general terms not specifically about as we have never met. As for you having a website and me not, well I guess that sort of speaks for itself since we all know that no person with mischief on their minds would ever have a website made. And before you get madder keep thinking big picture. As for incall, I guess Elle nver set up a sting at an incall location so I think both of our arguements are accurate. The thing that has to be decided by those on your side of this are how little detail about your clients do you need to feel safe and on my side how much are we willing to part with to get the date. In my case I am totally self Employed so it's not a huge deal to give my work number, but I guarentee if I worked for a company I'd have to think very hard about whether I was willing to take the risk of giving a total stranger access to my ability to make a living. Date goes poorly for one reason or another and the lady gets upset and the guy could be in some serious hot water. Albeit maybe not a huge chance of that but in this day "one never knows do one".
Hope we can remain anonymous friends and perhaps meet one day and discuss it in person or if talking isn't in the cards perhaps we could find some other activity to occupy our time together, parcheezy, Uno, chess, of maybe deep breathing excersizes.

Best wishes for dad's recovery.  I've been through that a long time ago at a relatively young age.  It's absolutely no fun.

I'll continue to be, if not humorous, certainly sophomoric.

I must admit I hadn't looked at your profile or website until after I sent the last reply so I'll just say you are a very lovely lady and if you've got some black stockings to go with the business outfit I'll be trying to get a load to Phoenix again soon.

I also wish a speedy recovery to your father!

Thanks again for the kind words.

Humor, alas, is not a family trait.

I have a much less amusing brother - Soporific Humorist.  I've done my best to keep him from posting.

Far more providers get beaten, robbed, raped, arrested, and ripped off than happens to clients.

It's wrong both ways but the women do take far more risks and more serious ones.

about the missing provider in CO.

Like I said, Ciara, love your posts.  Best wishes on a speedy recovery for your dad.

Swim

Yepper
I get the same thing.......
And not being a VIP hard to check them out
perhaps your post will now give gentlemen some
info.........

Peace~!

Jamie in Torontoooooooooooooo

hobbyists in the same bowl.  Some guys will be jerks and some ladies will be ROB's.

Her vagina, her rules.

If you don't like it, find another.

I certainly didn't mean to imply that you used truckstop prossies. I just meant that some of us will not see men without a good verification process. I wasn't mad just pointing out the obvious. I don't want to get busted, so if my reference-checking process bothers someone, then they're not meant for me because I'm going to get the best references I can. It's just too risky. And yes, LE does target well-known providers and they'll do anything to bust us.

Hugs,
Ciara

I wasn't trying to put words in your mouth.  The "you" was not meant for any individual.  My apologies.