What do you guys (and providers) think about a provider that uses her own home/apartment for her Incalls? Yes, it saves on money and yes, if you screen well the likelihood of an issue is low. However, I feel there is probably concerns on both hobbyist and provider sides.

Never had an issue with security or safety.  

Providers, do you really want all your clients to know where you live?

I guess others might have a problem with some moron who becomes a stalker type.

The stronger the relationship the more likely you can get an appointment at her place any day of the week not have to worry about hotels and no shot of any issues. I see two girls every few weeks at there place I like the arrangement better.  

....and aside from seeing how she lives based on the condition of the apt, it has had no bearing on my sessions. One thing  I do like about visiting their homes is that if they have pets I get to meet them too

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I'm resisting the urge to make jokes about pet kitties and monkeys, but the temptation of the dark side is strong ...

Posted By: lopaw

....and aside from seeing how she lives based on the condition of the apt, it has had no bearing on my sessions. One thing  I do like about visiting their homes is that if they have pets I get to meet them too

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For Maintaining (HARBORING) A House of Prostitution can be dropped on you by LE if your are busted.  

Why do I get the feeling that you don't mean what I think ...

True story:

I have been to several ladies of the night's homes and it's never been an issue.

It used to.
I would only go to hotels or have them come to my hotel.  
I could give a fuck less where i meet her now.  

Do tell...I am sure us ladies can share some stories on the homes and things we have seen, lol.
All in good fun though.
Still I am very appreciative of someone hosting at their cave.
I've had all good experiences and the gentleman are always very thoughtful.
Having a pad for dual use is great, on the flip side, if you have not so kosher neighbors...not good

Most guys would agree with you on that note, so do I

I've never done it, but I have had friends who did.   Is there a risk?  Yes, no matter how well you screen.

Over the years, I have been to many provider's homes.

who used her NYC apartment for incall, but she did not screen, and she told me she got attacked at her home a few times.

All it takes is one stalker, one looney, to make hosting at home a very bad idea.  

I live over an hour away from my incall. I have to be able to go home after the fun. Both places are private residences and I do stay at my incall usually 3 days per week. Ya know, looks like someone actually lives there I also keep the volume down to 3-5 visitors per week.  
One thing,  hotels do not make me feel comfortable.  I am ok with the occasional tour but when I'm home, I really prefer my own space.  I really think hotels are a much higher risk than a private location.  
Xoxo,  
TL

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Besides the safety aspect of it, my home is my own safe, cozy little space. I don't even like having acquaintances over if I can help it.

An interview with this guy.

Depending on the traffic, it will become apparent to neighbors what is going on. Depending on the place (isolated private home, private home with attached neighbors, apartment complex, apartment building, trailer park ...), complaints might have different repercussions. It just takes one bad apple to start harassing guys as they show up or to call the cops and so on.  

I have no problem seeing a provider at her home. I have seen a few providers working in their homes. Haven't had a single problem.

Terrilynn, from a provider's prospective if you were going to have a "friend" come into your primary residence, after how many visits would you make that decision? Also I am sure that you have a certain level of comfort that you have to have before making that fateful decision.  Also what is the level of trust you would have to have with that person? I am sure that you tend to ask yourself that of all of your repeat customers with whom you have grown close to and have a reasonable level of comfort with.  Then I am sure that in the recesses of your mind you always have that one person with whom things can be a little tenuous with and with one call to the constabulary or someone who is connected to them can spoil it for all the ones that abide by your rules.  So I am just wondering since you have been in the game for a number of years.  When would you deem it okay for someone to visit you at your primary residence? How many visits does it take for you to feel them out?  What are the ways that you tend to make a psychological assessment as well as one about their character before making that monumental decision to let that person become a part of your physical space?  I am sure this is a critical decision because of the vulnerable position that it tends to put you in as a women and due to the profession that you have chosen.

Posted By: terrilynn

I live over an hour away from my incall. I have to be able to go home after the fun. Both places are private residences and I do stay at my incall usually 3 days per week. Ya know, looks like someone actually lives there I also keep the volume down to 3-5 visitors per week.    
 One thing,  hotels do not make me feel comfortable.  I am ok with the occasional tour but when I'm home, I really prefer my own space.  I really think hotels are a much higher risk than a private location.  
 Xoxo,  
 TL

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Yawl need to stop already lol

My ATF uses her home (apartment) as her incall. One sticky situation is that she recently let a friend who was in need of some help start staying with her. Now her business is suffering because she doesn't have an incall. Also stinks because I don't have a place we can regularly go. She knew it was a bad idea but did it anyway. Guess we will see what happens.

I've been surprised how many use their apartments or townhouses.  I assume it's their primary simple by decorating, family photo's,  etc..  They've had nice instructions in terms of walk right in, close the door quietly.  I prefer this over the ladies who book extended stays.  It seems every front desk is as you enter and you can shake the clerks hand.

I have been in hotels which were often dressed up to look like her home away from home, and inside their homes as well.  

who use their home as a incall. You just have to be careful on you're screening!!!

...I didn't think it was unusual until now...

Key point clean and safe places for appointments.Escorts clean and safe.Thank you!

..as long as it is clean.

Neither guys nor girls EVER turn BSC do they?

Try and broaden your horizons Alan.  There are many women who use their homes to work out of, and live out of.

Let's all just think about the best possible outcome from now on. Think how much easier this would be with no need for screening, covers, locks on doors, and everything else we do just because we worry about those bad outcomes

I'm sure that there are many providers who have horror stories about being stalked or seriously hurt by someone after giving him her home address.  Ladies?

I see couple of my regular ladies in their homes. With one of them we have sometimes gone through her lingerie drawer and she's given me a sexy fashion show, which was a lot of fun.  
One time she found her BDSM box of tricks in her closet. So, I got to find out a lot more about what I enjoy. I suspected I would enjoy playing like that, but hadn't known. Now I do!  
Sometimes after a session, we will eat and watch a movie. These are some of the advantages of being in her home.

Honestly,  I trust no one really 100% but myself.  I'm not sure how I know but majority of the time I can tell within a few, emails and a phone conversation or 2 if this man is going to be a nice gentleman.  Call it intuition or what but I really trust myself and my own gut over anything.  Yes, I do screen but that "good vibe" is just unmistakable.  
I've been providing for 15 years now and I can't explain other than just tell you it's just a feeling you get really
XOXO
TL