I like it when ladies scale their rates to encourage longer sessions (which I prefer). You could also have a different rate structure for guys that have seen you more than x times. I think that's a good incentive.
Fellas: Do you respond well to incentive programs? Do you prefer seeing a provider who will slide her rate down a bit if you see her regularly?
Ladies: Do you offer incentive programs for your friends? I know many ladies are staunch when it comes to their hourly rate but who of you enjoy giving back to those who give to them
? Do you discount for multiple hours only or visits as well?
I'm a fan, personally. I was inspired by another wonderful lady and thought "Why not? Nothing wrong with more of a good thing".
INCENTIVES are always good. I'll take extra time over a discount. You rarely see that.
extra time where the lady feeds me her home cooking. Good sex good food it don't get much better than that.
So what do you do? Pay extra time for food?
Not all the time I spend with the ladies in this business is on the clock. I don't pay to eat with them. I have had several ladies offer me off the clock time to do things like eat there cooking or to take them out to eat. Heck I have even been offered free play time but I always turn it down.
It is amazing what happens when you treat others as equals. Sometimes the even grow to like you and you become real friends. But as you tend to be an ass most of the time. You would not no anything about that. Hell all the evidence points you can't even pay for sex.
P.S. I like grapefruit and eat it often.
That is what I like most about being a hobbyist. Good providers will treat you very well as long as you treat them well in return. The first provider I saw had a heart of gold. She drove me around town, showed me some of the sights, and was very giving of herself beyond what I paid for.
That if you treat people well they will treat you well in return. I do feel for you I really do.
with my confident attitude and when I step on the scale.
I am not sure what gives you the idea that I don't treat people well.
That is not treating people well. Even in a post where you state you don't get what give me the idea that you don't treat people well you made sure to get a jab in. Not a very effective one but still you made a point to put it in. I don't think you even know how to treat people well. That is why I feel sorry for you. The fact you are content being an ass is even more sad. I used to be as bitter as you seem to be, not a good way to go through life.
I am not bitter. I am not sure what gives that idea either.
I do offer incentives at certain times I usually offer a slightly lower rate or if a gentleman books a certain amount of hours I offer additional time (usually an extra 30min)as an incentive.I do not offer these incentives all the time but sometimes I feel like being in a giving mood.The thing with incentives is guys let the ladies offer it if she decides to do so.Do not take upon yourself to ask for one because some ladies do not offer incentives at all which is their choice.I also offer a discounted rate for multiple hours.
Some gals have special rates that include a specific amount of time for dining and then a specific amount of time for fun in the bedroom. Those cases are pretty well spelled out.
Then there is the situation where a gal might join you for dinner after the session which is pretty much "off the clock". This is very much a YMMV thing, and reviewers would do well not to mention this as it can create problems for her with others who may come to expect this treatment for themselves.
It would behoove any client who gets extra treatment to acknowledge this special treatment in some manner either by a good tip or gift of some kind if they wish to continue in this vein.
I like it when ladies scale their rates to encourage longer sessions (which I prefer). You could also have a different rate structure for guys that have seen you more than x times. I think that's a good incentive.
There's a couple of gals I see, after we have become more comfortable, we've gone out to dinner before the session off the clock. Of course I pay for dinner, but not for the extra time spent. I get the treat of having dinner with a nice gal, she gets a nice meal, then we end up having "dessert" back at my place. But I don't know if that's for everybody. I personally like making more of a connection this way. The session is much better as well, we're both a little loosened up with a couple of drinks with dinner and sharing good food.
Beside the obvious ones like spending more time....
I offer $50 off if you have a recent disease-free test; $25 if you have many methods of referencing that I dont have to spend time over; 10% off for birthdays; 20% for military and teachers; and 15% off for people who run a volunteer business (that's a personal and less obvious one!).
I do offer monthly packages at a discount, too-- as in, buying a chunk of time with me for a predetermined lower price.
I'm trying to think of some new ones, anyone got any tips? Ha ha!
Dani
If I show up on my birthday with an AIM test, military ID, P411 info and a Salvation Army bell, do I get the $200 rate?
erm, yellow and black.
I structure my rates with the longer dates and longer term relationships in mind. Individuals who have been kind enough to see me for greater than 5 encounters get a different rate structure (listed on my website) and the option of seeing me for single hour dates as opposed to my two hour minimum, though not a one has taken me up on that last offer yet. "Lovers" get a different rate structure as well, but as those are customized per the arrangement and the particular time needs of the individual in question, no explicit monetary rates are publicly listed in that category.
What I opt to not cater to is the "I'm special" fantasy. "I'm special because lady ABC gives me XYZ because I'm such an awesome dude." I adore all my men, and all of them are incredibly special. If they weren't I would get bored to tears in a heartbeat.) And all of them get the same rate structure incentives (or rewards, depending on how you see it), and generous time.
Ladies: Do you offer incentive programs for your friends? I know many ladies are staunch when it comes to their hourly rate but who of you enjoy giving back to those who give to them
I'm a fan, personally. I was inspired by another wonderful lady and thought "Why not? Nothing wrong with more of a good thing".
So a lady offering a discount per hour for a 2 hour vs. a 1 hour would have an edge over a lady not doing so, all other factors being equal.
One of my ATFs offers a $50 discount for visitors who see her again within 6 months, so I;m definitely seeing her at least twice per year.
Another lady I've seen offered a frequent visitor program, with bigger discounts for more frequent visits....
RocketMan