hey its busty barbie here, i prefer to do incall only untill i have seen you before and then if its less than 20 mins i will do outcall but i charge more, so really the best way is to come to my incall...i make it as comfortable as possible by providing you with my parking space and fressh towels and sheets with shower and drinks to loosen up from daily hustle and bustle. traffic can be stressfull so i like to creat a nice drama free atmosphere. massage oil too.... ter id #151493
I prefer not to have to get a hotel room myself just to save the $.
I live alone, so I could have someone come by my place (often for overnights), but I live a distance from where most gals are, so I go to see them, preferably at their hotel or apartment if they are so inclined.
I recently posted a poll on another site, asking this very question.
Most men (by a large percentage) prefer incall. A few prefer outcall, and to another few either is fine.
Incall is preferred for the obvious reasons: S.O., wife, neighbors, etc., and for the same reasons week days are typically preferred.
Outcall is preferred by the travellers and the singles can do either.
Myself? I still prefer outcall. I enjoy visiting different locations, and getting "out and about." However, I believe I am in the minority. It is sometimes difficult and complicated for me to set something up for incall, and I worry about finding new locations, getting enough interest on a given day, etc. I may feel differently if I had a set place for incall, but I can do hotel only, at this time, and sometimes, it is a pain in the ass, lol.
Incall is preferred for the obvious reasons: S.O., wife, neighbors, etc., and for the same reasons week days are typically preferred.
Outcall is preferred by the travellers and the singles can do either.
I think that sums it up. I am mostly active while traveling. I prefer to find a nice room and set things up for the evening. It seems to make things more personalized, especially if it's someone I've seen a few times. Especially if it's going to be a dressier dinner date or show most the dates say they prefer it.
For those providers with an incall appartment the difference is not as significant, and if she has a strong preference for incall I'll almost always defer.
When I first started seeing providers I prefered outcall, but since seeing a few providers now I prefer incall now. I usually do the 15 or 30min, so I'm in and out with in 45mins.
when visiting the providers room I usually like to leave out stairs down the hall, that exit to the side of the building. Only because the people at the front desk know what you were doing if you're in and out like that.
Like magic "when visiting the providers room I usually like to leave out stairs down the hall, that exit to the side of the building. Only because the people at the front desk know what you were doing if you're in and out like that." I try to keep my orientation & though I often must enter through the main entrance, I park near a wing with the outside door (exit only or card access)... I'll be on my way out! I have swapped wings on the excort's floor or gone down one to do so, if I should need to. Down the stair & out. Going down stairs is fine even with my bum leg. It just cuts the traffic past through the lobby... skb
I am glad to see so many responses to my question about if most men prefer incall or outcall....the reason I asked that question is because a friend of mine almost got in trouble at an incall location....it happened back in the Fall....he had seen the same provider two times before and did not have any problems....then when he went to her incall location for the third visit he had a really bad experience....apparently the police had been watching this providers incall location and happened to do a bust on the day that he visited....he was lucky to get out of their in time....a lot of people don't think this could happen to them, but it almost happened to my friend....he was so shook up about it that he is now doing outcall only....in factm it is actually safer to do outcall instead of incall because sometimes the police might be watching an incall location for suspicious activity (men coming and going from an apartment, house, or hotel room) I just wanted to let everyone out there to know about this and that they should be careful!
Ive had that fear also. So when I repeat with a provider. I try to see if she remembers. I might ask her a question about a convo, or something that may have stood out during our last visit. However I also know popular providers see a lot of clients and may forget about you.
A lot of girls prefer only incall, and charge a lot to do an outcall. They also fear of being set up. To be honest if you and your friend are that nervous and worried, the best thing I can say is stop seeing providers, Atleast you'll be saving a lot of money.
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I am glad to see so many responses to my question about if most men prefer incall or outcall....the reason I asked that question is because a friend of mine almost got in trouble at an incall location....it happened back in the Fall....he had seen the same provider two times before and did not have any problems....then when he went to her incall location for the third visit he had a really bad experience....apparently the police had been watching this providers incall location and happened to do a bust on the day that he visited....he was lucky to get out of their in time....a lot of people don't think this could happen to them, but it almost happened to my friend....he was so shook up about it that he is now doing outcall only....in factm it is actually safer to do outcall instead of incall because sometimes the police might be watching an incall location for suspicious activity (men coming and going from an apartment, house, or hotel room) I just wanted to let everyone out there to know about this and that they should be careful!
Thank you for your reply....Well, it is not like my friend is that nervous and worried about seeing escorts all together, he is just really afraid to go back and see incall escorts due to what happened to him....he still sees escorts, but now ONLY sees outcall escorts.....he feels like it is much safer and he doesn't have to worry about anything bad happening again. I agree with my friend. Outcall is a LOT safer and better than Incall.
my vision of incall is a steady stream of "weirdo" entering and then leaving smoking a cigarette, with their flies down. Point is that it seems obvious??? Not only would neighbors be curious but I worry about previous clients that become stalkers and observe everyone going over.
You observation is true in some cases, not in others. Pay attention to locations that providers are offering services in. In better locations, providers don't want customers that draw undue attention. I do incall in big cities because I can blend in with crowds and can go about my business. I stay away from rough parts of cities when hobbying, seldom are they anything but trouble.
This is the only city I've lived where I didn't have a separate incall location since most of the men who contact me stay on the strip. I very much miss incalls as I would enjoy having my own music, dim lighting/unscented candles, fresh crisp linens, snacks, a full bar, etc...to make both my date and myself feel very much at home.
The majority of my engagements have been 4+ hour dinner dates yet as much as I enjoy dining out, I miss having a kitchen to prepare dinner for my patron and myself. I especially enjoyed wearing lingerie, heels and a sheer robe while preparing a meal with Dean Martin or Sade playing in the background. *sigh* My incalls were always in upscale buildings in the heart of the city, so even if a gentleman contacted me who was visiting on a business trip, about 90% of the time they were very comfortable coming to my location.
I know this question was addressed to the men, but just wanted to share my thoughts.
In Las Vegas it is mostly outcall because that is the way the phony agencies can use pictures of girls who do not exist and can comfortably do B&S.
Yes, unfortunately there are a number of bad agencies here in Vegas who post ads all over the major advertising malls. Of course, they also hand out those cards on each corner and the mobile billboards cruise up and down The Strip at all hours displaying "sexy girls directly to your room." That's when review sites like this become crucial: in researching true independents with solid reputations.
Nonetheless, men who are visiting prefer that their companions visit them at their hotel. It's simply more convenient for them, understandably.
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