recently paid for a terrible overnight experience. i posted a separate thread detailing the issues with that overnight session. anyhow now that i've had some time to reflect. is it a miscalculation on my part that i expect providers to be comfortable providing an overnight experience at my home (which was built recently and is spacious) versus having the overnight session at a neutral site like an upscale hotel?

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I often have overnights at my home, and a few of them were with providers I had not seen before.  

That said, they’re only human.

There are many home-based glowing reviews here. You just happened to come across a rather flaky provider.

dead horses much?   I'll throw in one last kick to make sure its not still breathing.  

Before I invite a provider to come to my home I have 2 or 3 visits with them in their incall and then discuss with them coming to my home. Part of the discussion is to ask about their concerns about coming to a client's home, and I have been given a laundry list of their fears:
- hidden cameras
- someone else hiding in the home
- getting roffied
- hostile dogs
- neighbors seeing them entering and leaving my home
- and others that I can't remember.

My guess is that this was your first time with this young lady, yes?? See I would have done a test run with her first, say 1,2 hours to see if you're even compatible to develop the vibe needed for an overnight date.
It wouldn't have mattered where you had planned your date, the Taj Mahal, Hilton, Motel 6..if it wasn't there, then it wasn't there.

First, you should know that each provider is comfortable with different things. Provider X may prefer hotels where provider X may not. There is no universal preference here.  

Not sure there was a review.

I see- thanks for the link...

He only saw her for one hour sessions. I love overnights but I always see a woman for lengthier dates first, before I commit to an O/N. Not saying the same thing couldn't have happened anyway in this case, but I think had he seen her 3 or 4 hours, some of those issues may have become apparent to him that they weren't a good O/N match.

If she fully agreed to the overnight at your place like you stated in your other thread then a hotel is a moot point in the grand scheme of it all given your account of everything.

If she's the kind of provider that can't stop drinking until she passes out and you take her to a hotel room instead of your house, wait until you check out the next morning and find that the mini-bar tab was more than the cost of the room.  I'm pretty sure lack of control with a fully-stocked mini-bar has actually put some people into bankruptcy.  I could be wrong, but I don't think so.  Lol

all solid points you made. yes this was my first overnight. i feel i need to clarify why i created this thread though. not beating a dead horse...i’m just trying to make sure i’m not missing something before i do another overnight at my place. using this thread as a sanity check...just wanted to make sure i wasn’t crazy...it is common to have solid overnight sessions in your home. just happen that i had a bad experience my first time.

Unless I misunderstand you, you invited a girl you've never seen before to do an overnight at your home. In my view this is a REALLY bad idea. First, not having met her, you don't know if you're compatible in any way. Risk #1.
Second, you don't know if you can trust her with your home address. Risk #2.
So before you do it again, keep the above in mind.

Its a bad idea to have a girl at your residence who you have never seen before.  Likewise, I never did an overnight with a girl I had not seen at an incall or neural outcall, like a hotel, three or four times first.  I don't even book two hours with a new girl I'm seeing for the first time.  When you're not connecting, two hours can seem like an overnight.  I do one hour the first time, and if I repeat, it will be for two hours or longer.  There are some BSC providers out there (not a large percentage unless you get one the first time, then its 100% at that point - Lol) and there is no way I'm having a woman I have never met to my home so she can take an inventory for her pimp.  Lol

i understand there are a lot of replies in my original thread so i don’t blame you for not reading thru it. i had actually seen this provider before on two separate occasions for one hr sessions.

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I fell into this as I thought it was the first time with this young lady...Later found out she'd see her before.
Now let's start an "Envelope Question"