Do men prefer Incalls or outcalls? There are a lot of men preferably in CT that won't come to a hotel Incall location ( Wyndham suites, Marriott etc) but can't provide an outcall location themselves. I was just curious.

Since I hire service providers when I am on vacation, outcall to my hotel room is preferred.

And that's what I think would be the norm for all. And me visiting a lady at her hotel while I'm home doesn't bother me....but that's me.

Generally outcall when I travel and incall when home. I have gotten a hotel room myself at home a few times for some ladies I really wanted to see who only did outcalls, but generally I would much prefer going to their place, and I don't care if that is a hotel room, apartment, private residence or whatever. (But they are generally hotel rooms or condos.)

I'm in Connecticut and I'm seeing this as a growing trend here. The paranoia of going coming to my hotel is there even though I screen and create a level of comfort. The moment I put up that I can only accommodate outcalls so I don't deal with the costs of hotels my phone stops ringing. It's extremely bizarre. I'm going to start touring more maybe it's just here.

So the bigger question is why are they bothering to contact you? It's either or right? How can you decline to go to a providers location, yet not have a outcall location for the provider to come to? Maybe they want a car date, I'm not sure. Puzzling, but to answer to your question, I think its both. I prefer incalls when I am in my regular AO and outcalls if I am traveling to another city, unless outcall donations are astronomically higher than the incall rate.  

As a single guy with no roomates, I do love me some outcall. There's really nothing like ordering up a fine piece of poon and having it delivered straight to the door of your luxury condo, complete with yoga pants

and I don't go to hotel incalls, so it has to be a house or an apartment location.  Nothing like being greeted at the door by a hot woman in lingerie.  Not the same effect when they come to you and have to dress conservatively until they are inside your location.

I especially love to have a gal stay over at my house where I can cook a meal.

I am like most I think, When I am out of town with no transportation and already have a room, I always do outcall. When in my own local area I prefer incall.
I really believe the incall provides the better environment as the lady generally has the room set up nice and romantic and she always look so sexy when you arrive. Plus she is generally more comfortable in her incall environment and thus the show gets on the road much quicker.

If anyone invited me over and decided to cook for me I can guarantee you will get the best sensual experience of your life. I love sweet gestures like that and wish they would happen more often.

I get a kick out of being naked in someone else' bed!

Ha  you said  poon   that's hilarious

Some clients will not go to a hotel for an in-call date at all.    

If I'm home it's much more likely to be her incall.  Unless she's among a very few "special friends."  If I'm out of town, it'll be outcall.

If it is a big conference hotel, i am comfottable seeing a lady there. So much going on nobody is really noticing if I am visiting or staying.  

Pizza wouldn't have been as funny

Outcall to my home would be nearly impossible -- nosey neighbors see everything.  Outcall to a hotel/motel near my home?  I'm too cheap to spring for that.  There are enough incall providers available to make up for outcall-onlys.  I haven't had an outcall to my hotel room on a business travel yet, but I would consider it now that I have joined the ranks here.

here in town (los angeles) i prefer seeing a lady at her place.  however there is one lady who i kind of trade off incall/outcall with, depending on if she's booked a room for her other clients or not.  

But I'm single

Because it's cheaper. I don't want to pay your travel expenses if I don't have to.

unless I am planning a longer, special date  - all day, or a dinner evening or overnight.

I definitely prefer incall over outcall.  I know when I'm searching for a provider I am passing over "diamonds in the rough" when I see out all only listed.

1. The lady have her own private incall. A home, condo, apartment, or studio. But never in my hometown.

Have you tried air bnb?   I thought about it for my trip to MD  but  I read somewhere (probably here)   that they dig into your life and don't let  my kind stay   but I do have an alternate number and email

Khakis.

I prefer to start with incall when I'm seeing someone new...just to be on the safe side.  Once she's an established friend, I love to do outcall, complete with a nice meal and some sexy music videos to set the mood.

at my home.  Live in a gated community where DL is required to get in after a pass is called in.  Some girls don't want to do this-which is not a problem, I have met them outside the gate and driven them in.  Just feel more relaxed AND don't have to get in the car and drive when I just want to take a nap LOL.

1. Apartment incall in a dense urban area, with good public transit and nearby discreet places to wait for her if she's late.