...you just reminded me of my  old college girlfriend who'd attack me if she saw even the  tiniest rip in my underwear.  She'd grab my shorts and rip them to shreads, followed by hot sex.
...cut forward about 20 years.  I'm with a girl at the Rainbow Grill.  At one point late in the evening she looked over at me and shyly said: "Would it be a problem for you if you showed up at work tomorrow wearing the same clothes you're wearing now?"  I still love recalling how she dropped that one on me!

Jumping me and ripping my clothes off is one way (Someone once did that too, and I loved it.)

Another gal stuck her hand down the front of my pants while we where hugging.  I liked that a lot too.

Once a gal offered to watch a Three Stooges festival on TV with me while we drank Champagne on New Years.  How could I resist?

My ultmate unfulfilled fantasy is to wake up finding someone doing a BBBJ on me.

I would think there are a myriad of ways one could seduce me.

Skin to skin contact most anywhere...  hugging, cuddling, an arm, a leg...  Just enjoy each other's essence & let it run.
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There is no real seduction.
We go in horny wanting sex and walk out with what we came for. Simple as that.

which would you prefer and how ?

do it all. It depends on my mood. I like both...

Ah, Hirogen, my poor, deprived lad.  You are missing a LOT of fun.  Sadder yet, you don't seem to know it.  Being aware that something is fantasy (rather than reality) does not mean that one cannot have a great time getting lost in it, if only for a little while.  For me, the brain is the best erogenous zone.  Others work really well, but the brain is the best!

Still, enjoy whatever works for you.

Every good session contains some of each in my opinion, but when I'm with someone new I prefer more of the emphasis is on my being seduced.  When I'm with someone I know well I prefer to do more of the seducing.

I feel as a guy, the art of seduction is exciting. . . . there's nothing like the thrill of the hunt, the chase, and being rewarded at the end, no?  It's too easy the other way around.  It doesn't really work that way for men.

Also, in the context of the hobby, or in real life?  It's a bit different, yes?

There is little point in trying to seduce the lady as the envelope full of cash has done that for you. There is no thrill of the hunt to be had so all the fun of trying to seduce the lady is gone. So. in the hobby I prefer to be seduced. Outside the hobby is something totally different.

Yeah, I know the reason why you're there. To get my pee pee wet and you get paid.

Still, humor me. Fake it, whatever. My fragile machismo needs to be stroked sometimes, as well as my pee pee.

... a woman seduces me by showing me a home made video of her giving a blow job!

....ok... so I'm sick!!  lol

MVR

a good GFE also mind fucks you in a good way. Those are the ones I visit repeatedly.

I think I love you. LOL

Mine is quite the same. YES! That was what intriqued me initially, and to this day. She loves to be HAD!(he said sweating)



Hasta, before i get into trouble.

I love to seduce a man, especially one I have never met, there is such excitement, before I open that door.. who he is, what will work on him.. how will he react.

I love to kiss and so I love to start with small touches here and there, a giggle, a laugh, a kiss softly then harder, till it is full on AHEM lol

I love to dress sexy and let his mind race....

Seductress? oh yes I love it

I prefer BOTH, usually in turn -- mutual seduction is a lot more fun and that way, we both get to have fun!

No, no, no!  I'm sure you're not sick at all.  Unless, that  is,  I've got the same illness.  But how about if she shows you a video of her taking it up the ass?  Better yet is to go to a gal who will video your session with her and replay it the next time you see her.  Then you can watch her give YOU a blowjob WHILE SHE'S GIVING YOU A BLOWJOB! I hope to try this someday.

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i am not a seductress, nor am i someone who is self-focused sexually enough to be seduced. what i like is to simply be myself...sweet, shy, attentive, docile and open. and hopefully my partner's nature is such that he finds this quite attractive and irresistible even, to the point where he must perhaps even break his own "moral" code and just take me in the most passionate and aggressive manner possible. it's kind of funny...i've been told by different men many times over the course of my sexual life, my Husband included: "you are so sweet and delicate, it makes me want to do the most awful unspeakable things to you." my nature arouses this conflict in the nature of men, and i must admit to loving it. yet of course, being a bit frightened of it at the same time. but isn't great sex supposed to be a bit scary?

so yes, i don't wish to seduce or be seduced. i wish to be TAKEN.