(And wished I had a rope.8o)
Years ago, I had two women in my life. One was tall, beautiful, slender, very intelligent and incredible in bed. She was also deceptive and emotionally volatile. The other lady was average looking, very sweet, genuinely loved me, was compatible, not nearly as sexy and also was intelligent. She was trustworthy and never had a meltdown. Both women were in love with me. I couldn't keep seeing both without losing both.
One night, whilst out of town, after dinner and a couple of drinks, depressed, I called an agency wanting company. and they sent over a young country girl in her 20's. After the sex was over, I still had time on the clock. I told her my tale of woe, explaining that I had great passion with one, but little trust. I also told her there was much less passion with the second, but deep trust and a strong emotional connection. She lay there on her side, nude, looked deep into my eyes and said "passion fades". She also told me that it was really a no brainer and that I should drop the emotionally volatile woman and stay with the other one. She said that if I continued trying to juggle both, I wouldn't have either "the rope or the goat".
I followed her advice and have never regretted it. Regardless of her youth, she had tremendous insight and in retrospect, her advice had a huge positive impact on my life.
If you are still in the business and are reading this, Thank you!
Don't get into relationships with hookers. Yours is a sad case when you have to hire a 20 year old hooker to help you chose which of the other hookers to have a relationship with.
With a little common sense you wouldn't have needed any advice.
Today's advice.......Stay away from the barn.
First he did not say the two women were hookers. Next he did not explicitly hire a 20 year hooker just to ask her advice, he hired her fuck his brains out and part of the convo after he posed the dilemma
A 20 year hooker?
Now I am confused..... I thought he said she was young?
Why are you always so angry?
Mucous, I guess you just don't get it. I am too busy right now to deal with silly little boys wondering why hookers (me this time) are "so angry" when most of the smart guys can see the fun in this as much as I do. Do yourself a favor and quit worrying about the hookers state of mind on a fuck board. All that counts is the hooker act like she gives a shit when you meet her.
I am not being paid to kiss ass here, I stir shit, have a few laughs, very simple.
Easy to do when one I'd BSC, broke and an eternal manhater I guess.
I am not being paid to kiss ass here, I stir shit, have a few laughs, very simple.
But broke no. Anything else Douchy McBag?
Still a rank amateur. gots to lift your game Scooby Doo.
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I am reading posts wrong, Panthera is reading posts wrong, you took my back over the weekend w/Tobi, bizarre thread about auditioning/advertising, the OP of that thread stalking you...ugh.
Maybe one too many extra days in the long weekend? I usually start drinking Friday nite and stop sometime mid-Sunday, but this w/e I drank right thru late Monday evening. LOL
Maybe a little "hair of the dog" is all that is needed to restore my a-hole reputation and laser-like focus.
I'll keep you posted.
the OP, but hbyist+truth=gospel still hasn't figured that out yet.
I wouldn't do the hair of the dog. Try a cold shower and some Gatorade.
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There was no mention of a barn either, dummy. Of course he didn't hire a 20 year old hooker for her brain. No one does that.
That he hired a 20 year old hooker to ask advice? That was your take fool.
Why don't yiu stfu no one gives a rats ass what you think.
You responded, so you give a rat's ass, now don't you? 
You'd a thought I just stepped on his nuts. Yeah he had better get used to me as I am going nowhere. He can always put me on ignore like the rest of preschoolers who can't deal.
Remember, traits seen in children are more obvious traits that simply show human nature.
If a boy likes you, he pokes fun at you
if you are going to be with someone long term, personality and chemistry is more important than appearance per se - and if someone has issues that they cannot control, you are only asking for trouble...
besides you can always be with the average looking sweet lady and screw 20 year olds on the side.....
...instead of moving them both around like chess pieces.
if you are fucking one and thinking about the other - not for you. And she'll know in a millisecond when you start saying little things about her body, comparing her to other people, etc. which will make her feel tiny next to you and your amazing looking women you 'could' have.
Wait another 50 years and find the right woman or accept that you're hard to please.
i love it when I'm dating a guy and he continually talks about all the hot women he's been with. yuck.
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So I suppose you took her advice, stayed with the woman that didn't really 'light your fire" and instead of living happily ever after, you find yourself baring your soul to members of an anonymous internet fuck board. Yes, really good advice IMO.
I guess it's no wonder that you are posting this from behind an alias, Nothing says "I found the woman of my dreams" like a hundred reviews on a fuck board.
Don't get me wrong, I don't see anything wrong with fucking hookers. It's actually one of my favorite pastimes, but I don't claim to have found my "soul mate" either. I guess all this "trust" that you are talking about is only a one way street, or do you have an "open" relationship that allows her to get a little "strange" when she wants to as well?
BTW "Whilst" is a term trademarked by HTG, you owe her a royalty for using it here.
Have you asked yourself why you need to choose one or the other? Do you implicitly believe in monogamy or are you more free about that?
Just find you a girl who's cool with you screwing around with another girl. Problem solved. 
No right answer exists, if you really think about it. The only right answers cum from the path you "think" is the correct one.
I'm not going to get into the whole question of seeing a provider while seeing two other women, and trying to decide between them. But I will make a comparison between my marriage and that of my parents, as the comparison relates to the OP.
My mother was a plain woman, even in her youth. I know every guy and probably girl can't picture their mothers or fathers having sex, but in my mother's case, I think anyone who knew her would agree that she wasn't a sexual creature. I don't want to go into much more, as it's just not appropriate. Just take my word for it.
My dad definitely had a sex drive, even into his 80's. I would bet everything I own that he was never, ever unfaithful to her. Whatever they lacked in sex, they made up for in love of another kind. I've never seen two people more in love than they were. When my dad passed, they had just had their 74th wedding anniversary, and were still very much in love.
I married a young woman who was hot, and who had an incredible sex drive. I'd put her up against most providers for drive, looks, and performance. I loved her very much, but over the years her looks faded, and menopause finally did in almost all of her remaining sex drive. Without the physical beauty and without the sex, she was less to me than she'd been before. That wasn't the reason for our divorce, but the divorce was more likely because of the sex factor. Our marriage just wasn't of the same caliber as that of my parents.
I often think I should have married a woman like my mother, but it was never in me. I needed the hotness, and I needed the sex. Maybe I'm shallow. Who knows? What I do know is that my father had a richer life because of his choice than I've had and will continue to have with my choice.
Take that for what it's worth
Nice one TW! I also express my love for my SOs by effing hookers...
One night, whilst out of town, after dinner and a couple of drinks, depressed, I called an agency wanting company. and they sent over a young country girl in her 20's. After the sex was over, I still had time on the clock. I told her my tale of woe, explaining that I had great passion with one, but little trust. I also told her there was much less passion with the second, but deep trust and a strong emotional connection. She lay there on her side, nude, looked deep into my eyes and said "passion fades". She also told me that it was really a no brainer and that I should drop the emotionally volatile woman and stay with the other one. She said that if I continued trying to juggle both, I wouldn't have either "the rope or the goat".
I followed her advice and have never regretted it. Regardless of her youth, she had tremendous insight and in retrospect, her advice had a huge positive impact on my life.
If you are still in the business and are reading this, Thank you!
(And wished I had a rope.8o)